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Would you marry a second time?

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  • 12-03-2010 8:30pm
    #1
    Elenxor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭


    I know many people do meet someone else and get married and live happy lives ever after.

    Personally, I don't think I would., but never say never I suppose.


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    MaybeLogic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,462 ✭✭✭MaybeLogic


    I wouldn't marry a first time, tbh.


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    epgc3fyqirnbsx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Can't see myself marrying either, I'm way too grumpy

    But if I was married once and that didnt work it would take a hell of a lot for me to do it again


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    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    Don't plan on getting married once,never mind twice.


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    Stacey.x
    Closed Accounts Posts: 142 ✭✭Stacey.x


    yeah, i would. :)


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    #6
    Cheap Thrills!
    Registered Users Posts: 2,723 ✭✭✭Cheap Thrills!


    Marriage is for grown ups.

    No-ies !!! :pac:


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    Dr_Phil
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    Elenxor wrote: »
    I know many people do meet someone else and get married and live happy lives ever after.

    Personally, I don't think I would., but never say never I suppose.
    I would, but a different girl.


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    Joey the lips
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    i will never marry again. For one its stupid spending all that money on one day and second. I am too ugly. :p


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    SadieSue
    Registered Users Posts: 1,054 ✭✭✭SadieSue


    I don't think that I would get married again.
    I am not a glutton for punishment!


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    cynder
    Registered Users Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    I intend on staying with the one i married - until death do us part.


    I was with him since i was 17 and married him when i was 28 (3 kids later)

    I dont believe in happily ever after, life is what you make it, be content.


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    MaybeLogic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,462 ✭✭✭MaybeLogic


    grindelwald wrote: »
    I intend on staying with the one i married - until debt do us part.

    FYP.


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    Tail Wagger
    Registered Users Posts: 670 ✭✭✭Tail Wagger


    Elenxor wrote: »
    I know many people do meet someone else and get married and live happy lives ever after.

    Happy ever after is only for fools, I would call it adjusting to someone else's way
    of life. There's a lot of young and not so young guy's and ladies out there who wouldn't last 5 years with a ring on their finger.

    They have spent to much time living at home with their parent/s and wouldn't have an idea how to look after a wife/husband because they can't look after themselves properly, cooking washing ironing etc.

    there's loads of guy's and girls still heading home to their Mum's at the weekend with the big bag of washing, I'd call it Pure-Mule work for the week and then home to Mammy for the dinner and the washing.


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    cynder
    Registered Users Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    FYP ????

    Been in the deep debt and came out the other end still intact and still alive. But yeh i get the point debt can drive people mad and can even make them kill there kids and spouse. Even hire a hitman to kill of there loved ones, so they can get their hands on the life insurance.


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    Elenxor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭Elenxor


    grindelwald wrote: »
    I intend on staying with the one i married - until death do us part.


    Sorry...I meant this thread for people who are free to make a choice.


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    Black Dog
    Registered Users Posts: 245 ✭✭Black Dog


    Second marriage = a victory for optimism over experience.


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    ronaldoshaky
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    most of the people on here are losers.


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    ejmaztec
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    Elenxor wrote: »
    Sorry...I meant this thread for people who are free to make a choice.

    Even married people are free to make a choice, but the legal fees act as a deterrent.:(


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    cynder
    Registered Users Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    Elenxor wrote: »
    Sorry...I meant this thread for people who are free to make a choice.


    I am free, i could walk out and ask for a divorce tomorrow.


    i dont intend on ever getting married again.


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    Elenxor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭Elenxor


    ronaldoshaky wrote: »
    most of the people on here are losers.


    Always nice to get an intelligent reply to a thread..!!!


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    force majeure
    Registered Users Posts: 387 ✭✭force majeure


    Lets see now... my track record well suggest I'm not heading down the isle any day, month, year soon... although if I was to meet a separated woman or indeed divorced I guess that would put me in the frame off the question.
    As for remarrying after a messy time I must admit its unlikely as I'm a sensitive soul so a divorce could well retire me from romance.
    .... now let me reread all that to see if I am contradicting myself...:eek:


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    Bolag_the_2nd
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    not a hope, i lost a 12 stone growth when my marriage broke up, its name was alan! :)


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    epgc3fyqirnbsx
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    How you fixed for an 11 stone growth? ;)


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    #23
    Bolag_the_2nd
    Registered Users Posts: 1,224 ✭✭✭Bolag_the_2nd


    Carly Scarce Skeleton wrote: »
    How you fixed for an 11 stone growth? ;)

    hay,,,, how you doin, ;)


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    Elenxor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭Elenxor


    Bolag_the_2nd wrote: »
    not a hope, i lost a 12 stone growth when my marriage broke up, its name was alan! :)

    I'm sorry to hear that Bolag...now when you say "lost" were you just careless
    and put the growth down and now you can't find it...or..
    did you cut it out/down and bury it.:D:D:D


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    Bolag_the_2nd
    Registered Users Posts: 1,224 ✭✭✭Bolag_the_2nd


    Elenxor wrote: »
    I'm sorry to hear that Bolag...now when you say "lost" were you just careless
    and put the growth down and now you can't find it...or..
    did you cut it out/down and bury it.:D:D:D


    i would have loved to do that Elenxor, :rolleyes:


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    Tail Wagger
    Registered Users Posts: 670 ✭✭✭Tail Wagger


    grindelwald wrote: »
    I am free, i could walk out and ask for a divorce tomorrow.


    i dont intend on ever getting married again.

    What will it cost you to walk away?

    You won't be able to afford to re-marry when you'v been cleaned out by the 1st one!


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    Mike 1972
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,018 ✭✭✭Mike 1972


    Back in the nineties they legalised divorce in Ireland although personally I wold have voted to outlaw marriage.
    Tail Wagger wrote: »
    What will it cost you to walk away?

    Possibly less than it cost to get married in the first place although its a good point all the same


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    #28
    Sea Sharp
    Registered Users Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    Not a chance am I getting married. I intend on being rich and I will not want to share. :)


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    #29
    vicecreamsundae
    Registered Users Posts: 793 ✭✭✭vicecreamsundae


    i don't plan to get married, but if i did and it ended up not working out and i met someone else then yeah i would probably get married for whatever reasons i [hypothetically]did the first time round be they love/financial/whatever.

    i wouldn't enter into a marriage thinking "this is 100% forever and always" -nobody is psychic and **** happens.


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    #30
    epgc3fyqirnbsx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    We're such a bunch of old romantics around here!


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    Pherekydes
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    Have done.

    :)


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