necking

LegacyUser

Going out with this really nice girl. Have been out with a lot of girls , but have never "necked" with a girl. what do you actually do? Yes I know its a really dorkey question, but I don't actually know??I mean its not like you "shift" her neck

Kell

Please clarify what you mean by "necking". Never come across it (no pun intended)-

K

uberwolf

ah the oppurtunity to wreak havoc on an innocent mind. but i won't.

its just like the movies, and follow her lead. if she does something follow suit, be gentle with whatever you do. 4 score and twenty year ago thats what i did, there is no devintive way to do it, you'll adapt to different girls as you go along in your career. Just enjoy cos you'll always remember it

uberwolf

Originally posted by Kell
Please clarify what you mean by "necking". Never come across it (no pun intended)-

K

another slang term for scoring/meeting/shifting/french kissing/etc

LegacyUser

No, I know how to shift, but she kindof tries to force my head to her neck...whats next???

LoneGunM@n

from experience, lightly kissing a girls neck [especially a the top of the spinal column] works wonders. Interlink it with a soft touch of your tongue every now and again & she should be putty in your hands

PF [The Love Doctor] :rolleyes:

Mercury_Tilt

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Beruthiel

Originally posted by Kell
Please clarify what you mean by "necking". Never come across it

Ya right, next you’ll be tellin’ us you’re still a virgin...

patch

As far as I know, 'necking' is another slang term for 'shifting'.
-That might save you from feeling silly later.......

Antisocialiser

Necking is a term for givin a love bite afaik.

Bite then suck

Ponster

Main Entry: neck·ing

Pronunciation: 'ne-ki[ng]

Function: noun
Date: 1804
1 : a narrow molding near the top of a column or pilaster
2 : the act or practice of kissing and caressing amorously


I guess you're talking about the second one eh?


Necking just means 'shifting' and nothing more. And nothing specific regardfing the girls neck as such. But if she is pushing your head in that direction either;


a) As Mercury_Tilt said, she wants you to kiss her neck, top of her back/spinal cord. Works wonders on girls. Just work your way around her face from one side to the other with little kisses on the eyelids too

b) You have bad breath and she needs to breath.

Señor Juárez

just wondering, what did he do?

"hold on, just got to go online and check what i am supposed to be doing"

Riamfada

i got a hickie just below my chest once. That was soooo cool.
There is a hint for ya ladies!

Jim

pronuncition : ne-king

isnt there a boards member called ne-king?

hum....../me goes to look it up.

Sangre

Im pretty sure necking has nothing to do with the neck? Just another name for shifting/meeting etc..

Its not rocket science loike, you can't do it wrong really. Just dont drool too much...or ejaculate prematurely. That always puts a dampner on things (pun uber intented).

jammy_dodger

He's talking about kissing a girl on the neck, and hickeys and such.
My advice is don't leave a hickey, ie don't suck on her neck, just kiss it, and a bit of tounge.
As with anything sexual there's no wrong way to do it, most sexual contact is about the fact that there's someone there lovin, lusting, wanting them, what you do comes second.
Best advice is relax

edited due to shocking spellin.

/ me goes off and read the dictionary

NeMiSiS

was my post deleted ..?

smiles

Originally posted by NeMiSiS
was my post deleted ..?

Yes.

<< Fio >>

Señor Juárez

/me awaits the screams of "UNFAIR MODERATION"

oh wait, its a woman. they tend to get away with it more :ninja:

NeMiSiS

hah !

Il keep my chat up techniques to myself from now on..jaysus
Im not a woman,wtf ?!

*sigh*

Tom

Mr.Applepie

Originally posted by Grimes
i got a hickie just below my chest once. That was soooo cool.
There is a hint for ya ladies!

How far below?

Oh another nice thing to do is as your licking nibbling kissing etc. to blow gently on her neck. I repeat gently your not the big bad wolf remember(well not yet anyway)

You can also do this in other place but thats for another day

Kell

Originally posted by Beruthiel
Ya right, next you’ll be tellin’ us you’re still a virgin...

No, I am jsut a snob when it comes to these matters. You'll never catch me saying things like snog, snatch, hatchett mark, one eyed custard chucker or any other such foul things.

K-

Kell

Now that the term necking has been explained properly, a good thing to do while gently kissing and touching her neck, shoulder, ear lobe, just below ear etc is to breath where you have just made moist with your tongue. It's the whole warm cold thing. Works wonders.

K-

Sparks

i got a hickie just below my chest once. That was soooo cool.

That would depend on the precise location of the hickie... there are some places that you just don't want bitten...

nuvolari

about hickies -just don't do it kids. might be fun to give them -and hell, even to recieve them....for about five minutes, then you have to deal with the slagging from family/friends/random people on the street!

Sparks

This is why we invented turtlenecks....

nuvolari

dunno bout turtlenecks myself.....i think i'd rather sacrifice being hickied than sacrifice my style;)

Sparks

yes, well.
What can I say? I prefer women

MrNuked

Just do what feels right. It's art not science.

Different girls respond to different things. If you like her a lot you'll probably be tuned in to her enough have a good instinct about what she'll like. Experiment. Pay attention to responses. Enjoy.

Scientific approach will probably work well too, if you do it confidently, but not for you, only for her. Simply because you'll feel detached to some extent.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear. tell her how special she is.

...This reminds me of the sex-ed scene in Monty Python's meaning of Life.

fisty

are you saying she actually -wants- a hickey?
classy bird...

MrNuked

are we talking about hickeys?

must read the things I'm responding to in future.

Gordon

I must edit this post to add...

In my opinion...
A woman's skin is an extension of her soul, an extension of her feelings deep inside. To kiss a woman's neck - remember that you are also kissing her brain and her feet and her heart and her clitoris all at the same time. A neck is an expanse of nerve endings that crave your tender touch and want your masculine strength, not a slab of meat to be licked and dribbled on as you would a lolly pop.

Just enjoy her and you will enjoy yourself.

Sparks

you are also kissing her brain and her feet and her heart and her clitoris all at the same time.

Gordon, either you don't have a human mouth or you've skinned your SO and scrunched up the skin...
I'm not sure which is more disturbing, to be honest...

Gordon

Originally posted by Sparks
or you've skinned your SO and scrunched up the skin...

What would that be in English?

/edit - I must add that I do not have a girlfriend so therefore my advice may indeed be complete toss.

DriftingRain

I must add that I do not have a girlfriend so therefore my advice may indeed be complete toss.

HAhaha NO NO NO Gordon, you are correct. Nothing turns me on more than for a man to pay gentle atention to my neck and ear. It is SUCH a turn on. Oh and the blowing air on it after you have left a soft lazy wet trail....Grrrrrrrrrrr...And why is it you don't have a girl Gordon

Gordon

Originally posted by DriftingRain
And why is it you don't have a girl Gordon

"Open up the doors of paradise and the whole world will want in"
Gordon - 2003

Ah, I don't take my own advice - I think that's why DR.

Mercury_Tilt

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DriftingRain

Ah, I don't take my own advice - I think that's why DR.

WEll, you should