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  • 18-09-2003 9:11pm
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    mikep
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    Any suggestions for a ceremony for marriage without the church hoo haa?:confused:


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    Nevyn
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    if you are not getting married Via a Catholice shurch or a church of ireland wedding you will have to have a civil ceremony or else the marraige will not be legal.

    If you are looking for an exchange of vows
    and a declaration of love other then the civil wedding there is a lot more out there then what you think .

    For the old irish touch there is handfasting
    as was done under brehon law, or a humanist ceremony or write your own vows to be echanged infront of your loved one :)


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    Ancient1
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    it's revolting that they still have a say in the matter and the state is their accomplice.


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    silja
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    Hi,
    some elements often seen at non-church weddings are:
    - the bride wearing blue, the traditional Celtic wedding colour.
    - bride and groom bringing a candle to the altar and lighting a unity candle from it.
    - bride and groom feeding eachother.
    - Both parents bringing their child (both bride and groom) before the celebrant and saying a few words of blessing and how happy they are with the union.
    - guests saying little poems or reciting lovely anectodes during the ceremony.
    - there being a circle of rose petals around the couple.
    - the couple jumping the broom to symbolise leaving their old life behind and starting a new one together.
    - the couple saying what they will do for future children, or pledging their love and care for existing children.

    I have performed and help write many handfasting, both Pagan ones and non-religious ones. If you'd like some help, or a couple of sample ceremonies, email me and I will be happy to chat to you.


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    Smurf1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭Smurf1


    Hi Silja,

    This is my first time using this website and going by the date on your last message, I'm not sure if you'll get this message. I would be interested in talking to you about non religious cermonies. How do I get your e-mail address???

    Thanks
    Smurf1


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    Goodshape
    Registered Users Posts: 8,488 ✭✭✭Goodshape


    Silja hasn't been logged in here in over a year (from the user profile :: Last Activity: 30-04-2004 12:29 ) so I doubt s/he's going to see the message.

    Link to her homepage is http://indigo.ie/~silja/SilverWheel/ a possible email address can be deduced from that (although Indigo.. by god that's old news!)


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    BEAT
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    If I ever got married I planned on doing it in the forest or deep in the woods somewhere.
    CLose to a creek and a big enough clearing to have some chairs set up for guests and music provided by a few violinists.
    We would have the rose petals strewn around us in the circle and do the union candle lighting.
    I think the broom jump would be a nice additive that I didnt think of before.

    I'd like to have candles lite up the isle for walking down and flowers placed here and there but the woods itslef as the 'decor'


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