Cheating On Girlfreiend/Boyfriend???

Johnny Versace

Yes, let's change topic.

I was reading that a lot of girls consider it cheating if their partners pleasure themselves to porn. It's because they are having a sexual experience without them.

Originally posted by SyxPak
If you pleasure yourself with your left hand now and again (to spice things up a bit), is that cheating?


Oh, wait, shit, this isn't PI...and I'm logged in....

po0k

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
I was reading that a lot of girls consider it cheating if their partners pleasure themselves to porn. It's because they are having a sexual experience without them.

Yet when we get suspicious of the amount of time she's spending locked in the kitchen arranging the fruit & veg we get an earful of abuse....

krattapopov

my 2 cents

cheating when you are in a commited relationship is bad, totally unforgiveable in my opinion. if the relationship isnt 'exclusive' then fair enough, but on the whole i think cheating is wrong

Typedef

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
There is a slight difference between murder and cheating.

You cannot say you would never cheat unless you've been in a position where you could cheat.

Yeah but, what you said is that one couldn't comment on it.


Besides *I have* cheated on Women, persumably this means my piss goest far enough so that I may comment that you needn't have done so yourself, to hold a valid, invalid, salient or completely ignorant opinion on the topic, which need not be validated by you, me, Doodee the stud or others, since it's an opinion, which in my eyes need not be backed up by experience to be valid.

I knew you'd say that cheating and murder are somehow different instances of the same logic and then not back it up.

Tell me, how it's valid for somebody who has never been in a position where they might have murdered somebody else to have a valid opinion on the morality of murder, whilst somebody who has never been in a position where they might cheat on a boyfriend/girlfriend can't have a valid opinion on the morality of cheating.. and you can have a gold star!

Basically though, you're argument is completely foundationless, from the stand point of a reasoned argument, since you seem to be picking from the air, what somebody 'could' say they'd never do (murder) but, couldn't say they'd never do (cheating) all based on the fact that you've decided.

So fine, in your opinion, that's the case... it's a pretty irrational claim, but, then again, so is god belief, Weapons of Mass Destruction in Iraq and a whole host of other things.

Let me know if you decide Iraq 'has' weapons of mass desturction, I'll inform Hans Blix, that since you've decided it must be true and we can enterain no debate on the topic, since you can say I'd never murder someone, but, you can't say, I'd never cheat on someone... also, let me know if you decided Rome 'was' actually built in a day and I'll start a petition to have that particular axiom changed, to fit your arbitrary skew of the world.

chump

Johnny Versace,

from the few enough posts I've so far looked on on boards.ie (most of which you seem to contribute a hefty portion of) it seems:

- you have a willy thats so big it doesn't fit into regular condoms
- you have had numerous opportunites to cheat on girlfriends, and have done
- you had to cheat one time because it was a threesome, and no man alive could turn that down
- you have huge more experience in sexual relations than the vasssst majority of boards.ie readers (who are mostly inexperience nards)

I've also deduced, that:
man, your hot stuff

back on topic:
cheating is wrong, but just like everything that is wrong - people do it, hurt others, usually regret it and everybody learns from it (learn that people can be asspoles, learn that being an asspole isn't too nice)...

Doodee

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
In general. Read any posts on this forum about being single/having sex.

The majority of boards members are not sexually experienced.

Originally posted by Johnny Versace

The majority of the posters here ARE sexually inexperienced. This is not just an assumption. If you read most of the threads on boards you will see this.

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Well, kissing is also sexual experience, no?

And I'm only talking from my experience. If this appears to be infinite wisdom to you... well, sorry...

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
I do actually dislike cheating, and if my girlfriend cheated on me I would be very upset. But I do believe humans are human, and people can make mistakes.

Some people make more mistakes than others. Some people have issues...

I don't think it's black and white.

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Personally, I'd be happy if I never cheated again.

I do know when I get married I will defo not cheat. Especially if I have children.

Originally Blah blah blah.....
My point was simply, you cannot comment on cheating unless you've actually been in a situation where you were given the opportunity to cheat.

Ok, Your first few replies are complete and utter rubish. Kissing is a form of Sexual Experience. Its a form of intimacy, which is what Sex is.

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intimacy

\In"ti*ma*cy\, n.; pl. Intimacies. [From Intimate.] The state of being intimate; close familiarity or association; nearness in friendship.

Syn: Acquaintance; familiarity; fellowship; friendship. See Acquaintance.

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Now secondly, you say you are capable of making mistakes, yet go on to say that you would stop cheating if you got married. Complete rubbish again. If you cheat once, you can do it again as its a case of morals and will power. this proves you are capable of making mistakes in your posting, i.e your opinion changes through the thread.

Now, going back to the first couple of Quotes and then onto the Last one i quoted. you started off trying to narrow the thread down to a demographic of people possibly above the age of 25 who have had sex more than once and that were in a position to cheat. You claimed that these people (males) if they were sexually experienced, would cheat. This point was disputed by merc,Lemming and typie in their own ways. You went on again to say that they did not know/would probably change their views. You have, yet again, turned all your comments into a load of horse****.

Your acting quite high and mighty yet you yourself are capable of Fault. Maybe if you stopped suggesting to others that they didn't know what they were talking about you wouldn't come off as such a tit.

Also, i agree that my previous two posts were wrong as i miss read, and do appologise.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by Doodee
Also, i agree that my previous two posts were wrong as i miss read, and do appologise.

OK, let's move on. We're getting no where here.

Doodee

Originally posted by Typedef
me, Doodee the stud

O typie, you know how to make this stud Swoon

Monty - the one and only

No where is where this thread is going...

Its beyond come back at this point...


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