Wedding Concerns

LegacyUser

Hi I have a friend who started seeing a guy in Morocco while on Holidays a few years back. They are getting married next year and she is comming home he will follow after 6-9 Months . I do not know for sure but i believe at least 6 grand has already been sent out to help for various things. I would love to believe that this true love and nothing more but with money being sent out and also when she does go to see him they usually rent a car and he will drop her off in the morning at the beach and pick her up in the evening. He onlly works nights but NEVER spends the full day with her. She calls while over there every time and is unhappey then usually the last two days of a two week trip he will sort out a few things and all is ok again.
Another thing is that they usually rent an apartment from one of his mates for the holiday she covers it which is usually over the top 790 per week in a location walking distance from nowhere. My other friends and I do believe she will Marry him ( which is more of a ceramoney than actual wedding still have to go to a reg office here to do the same) he will stay out there and milk her for a few years remember 200 euro is a months wages out there.

Has anybody got any experience with anything remotly like this

Beruthiel

if she is silly enough to put up with whatever is going on, then nothing you can say or do will make any difference.
sometimes people can't be told and have to learn the hard way.

Cabaal

While it does sound abit dodgy alright, unfortuntaly its her life and if you start interfering with it she may hate you for it and if anything goes bad she may blame you.

Of course on the other side of things it may open her eye's to the truth...but then you never know what will happen

bp

there really isnt much you can do until she is ready to listen, try and plant some seeds of doubt but it wont make a difference until she realises herself - unfortunately