whats the trick??

ctb

What makes a girl want to have sex???
what are the major turn ons for girls??
Females are a very strange species

Zombrex

ctb wrote:

what are the major turn ons for girls??

Guys who don't think there is a "trick" to getting women into bed...

bit of a catch 22 kicking the balls ain't it

ctb

sorry sounds bad but not how i meant it

Seraphina

women are all different, just like men. there is no 'trick', and that attitude will get you nowhere.
turn ons vary greatly, and unfortunately there are also many women out there for whom nothing will make them want sex.
unfortunately you'll have to talk to us and get to know us first :rolleyes:

Zombrex

ctb wrote:

sorry sounds bad but not how i meant it

Not being a woman myself it has always puzzled me what exactly makes a woman horny ... it seems different for all women, some girls like romance, to be wined and dined in a very romantic setting. The emotional connection is very important ... other girls (amazingly) like to slap on a porn movie and get very turned on by all the boy-girl-girl action ... these are the women you marry.

Rnger

glasses with sticky tape holding the middle bit together

GOD IM FUNNY

seamus

To get a woman into bed, she has to consider you attractive (beer goggles aside). The only way which can gaurantee you'll even be considered remotely attractive is if you smile, talk and show interest.

That said, if your ego is impenetrable, wear a sharp suit and look rich. Then go out and try it on with as many women as possible. One of them will fall for it eventually.

AARRRGH

ctb wrote:

What makes a girl want to have sex???
what are the major turn ons for girls??
Females are a very strange species

LOL

What makes a girl want to have sex? LOTS OF THINGS! It's probably easier to think about what would make them NOT want to have sex with you and work from there...

What are the major turn ons for girls? In a nutshell: good looks, confidence, money, sense of humour (before the girl who likes under-confident, poor nerds bites my head off, obviously there are exceptions.)

Females are indeed a very strange species! But they probably say the same thing about us blokes...

Riamfada

Drink And Lots Of It!



I garuntee you will have sex and lots of it......................................... Sex not a garuntee

Zombrex

Grimes wrote:

Drink And Lots Of It!



I garuntee you will have sex and lots of it......................................... Sex not a garuntee

LOL ...

Cypress Creek: where dreams come true.
Your dreams may vary from those of Globex Corporation, its subsidiaries and shareholders.

Binomate

Little known fact: Women are a lot hornier than men, they just aren't as obvious about it. It's all camouflaged by these weird things they have called 'emotions' or something like that.

Seraphina

dublindude wrote:

(before the girl who likes under-confident, poor nerds bites my head off, obviously there are exceptions.)

woo! right here!
although its not for those reasons i like him, i just got unlucky money-wise.
its the PERSON im attracted to - not the labels

im sorry but money? that would never be a factor in attraction. well not for me anyway. i suppose the gold diggers would beg to differ tho. good looks and sense of humour can be pretty relative.
just be yourself ffs

slipss

Lots of alcohol, and subtle compliments.

slipss

Maybe learning how to spell complements..

AARRRGH

Seraphina wrote:

im sorry but money? that would never be a factor in attraction. well not for me anyway.

Are you really trying to say you would feel the EXACT SAME for your boyfriend if he was poor and if he was rich?

Tusky

lick her earlobes and stroke her knees....or was it the other way around...

Khannie

Wicknight wrote:

these are the women you marry.

ROFL.

ctb

ctb wrote:

What makes a girl want to have sex???
what are the major turn ons for girls??
Females are a very strange species

Having chemistry, a sense of humour and getting on great with someone is a big must for me !!!:D

ando

chemistry!

and then pull her middle finger

BoozyBabe

dublindude wrote:

Are you really trying to say you would feel the EXACT SAME for your boyfriend if he was poor and if he was rich?

well I would anyway!

As for what'd turn me on:- well I'd have to actually fancy the person to begin with (this doesn't necessarily mean that the guy has to be the best looking fella in the world, but he must have a good sense of humour, we have to get on real well, has to be chemistry between us)

When that's all good, a nice hug to begin with, a quick shoulder rub if he wants, but the main thing (besides a full on snog to get me thinking about it to begin with) is to kiss the back of my neck & along the top of my shoulders!

Has me gagging for it every time!!!!!;)

trishw78

Yes it true I'd have to fancy the guy... make me the centre of his world for 5mins, eye contact, offer to buy me & who ever is with me a drink(that doesn't mean I'll accept it), and ask me out to dance(if were in a nite club), oh and I do like cheesy chat up likes the cheesier the better gentle putting his arm around me and then look deeply into my eyes and move in for a gentle kiss

It make the butterflies flutter and I'll let him know if I want more after the kiss.

The Corinthian

The more comfortable a woman is with you, the more depraved she'll be.

LegacyUser

Not really a personal issue, this belongs in the sex/sexuality forum which probably could answer your questions anyway.

Jesper

""""

trishw78 wrote:

Yes it true I'd have to fancy the guy... make me the centre of his world for 5mins, """

5 minutes
I no longer think all women are confusing I've found one at least which has the simple common sense of a boy
Now when are you free for 10 minutes!:)

Jesper

On topic.
Well first and foremost the number one thing you have got to understand is that unless your dead sexy or good looking you will have trouble pulling. That puts you into the 70% of guys I'm pretty sure we'r all relatively the same good looking. So here is my gilt edge advice. Make sure the girl is comfortable with you!! I mean by end of night/few weeks she should be able to tell you her embarrassing stories and doing it comfortable and glad that you laugh at them. Now whatever you don't fall into the "friend" role. Make sure you throw in sexual Innuendo's where possible and steer away from wanting to meet her friends/family etc.
You have to be someone she isn't afraid to invite in for a drink after a night out. She might mean a drink, but as posted earlier women are as horny as men. If she is comfortable with you and your in the right situation the only thing stopping her is her morals. Then its up to you.

The Clown Man

Lads, lads, lads.

It's all in the eyes. Just leave the arms and hands out of it. Look at a girl like she is the sexiest thing in the world and you just need her. (Look her in the eyes - not like a bloody perv) Of course you need to be damn confident in yourself first. But the eyes are what creates the sexual tension and if sex is in the air women are usually the first to act on it.

simu

Don't bull**** or if you do, make sure it's not coming accross as bull**** to the girl you're chatting up.

This means you have to guage the girl's level of intelligence and experience and come up with a suitable topic and type of conversation.

Don't talk incessantly - it's very irritating to be around a guy who doesn't let others get a word in.

Don't assume girls will be impressed by your wealth or job etc - some might be but for others, a guy going on about these is a major turn-off. Again, you have to guage whether these topics are suitable or not for the girl in question.

And having a conversation about Star Trek is usually a good sign in a man for me!

Seraphina

simu wrote:

Don't assume girls will be impressed by your wealth or job etc - some might be but for others, a guy going on about these is a major turn-off

definitely gotta agree with simu here, whatever about talking about your job if its something you're passionate about and its interesting.
however i dont give a **** about how much money you make and how nice your car is etc.
im not a whore, you wont be paying me, why would i want to hear about this crap?? gives a bad impression of a man.
makes me think - well heres a guy who picks up girls with his money. i'm walking away now!

and to dublindude - yeah i'd feel the same way about my boyfriend if he had lots of money. he had lots of money over the summer (well paid summer job) and it didn't make a difference - i pay my own way, why would i care how much he has?

MontgomeryClift

Being loud and acting like a spa helps to attract girls' attention. It doesn't hurt to have money also.

Idioteque

ctb wrote:

What makes a girl want to have sex???
what are the major turn ons for girls??
Females are a very strange species

Ha Ha very funny ...bit like asking 'how long is a piece of string' . Pretty much agree other posters, everyone woman is different - different strokes etc(excuse the pun!)
If your above questions where that easy to answer there'd wouldn't be half as many blokes on boards!
Their not a strange species, just different which is what makes it all interesting!
From the context of your questions I think you could find what your looking for here:(not sure if this will link properly) http://www.play.com/play247.asp?page=title&r=BOOK&title=678804&p=91&g=148&pa=sr
or else take notes on Tom Cruise in Magnolia!...no no i'm only messin I'll stop with the sarcasam now...

lazydaisy

What works for women in their 20s is different for what works for women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, etc.

But in general, everyone likes attention from a confident man who is comfortable in his own skin and is able to see a woman for who she really is.

If that doesnt work, wear a kilt, put on a scotch accent and say you're a doctor.

lazydaisy

lazydaisy wrote:

What works for women in their 20s is different for what works for women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, etc.

But in general, everyone likes attention from a confident man who is comfortable in his own skin and is able to see a woman for who she really is.

If that doesnt work, wear a kilt, put on a scotch accent and say you're a doctor.

i agree:D

WhiteWashMan

ctb wrote:

What makes a girl want to have sex???
what are the major turn ons for girls??
Females are a very strange species

women are not too dissimilar to men.
and everyone is different.

just remember that women enjoy sex as much as men in general, and different things blow up different peoples skirts.

Kell

The Clown Man wrote:

Look at a girl like she is the sexiest thing in the world and you just need her.

Jeebus- do you actually score?

Indifference is the key. Speak to the person as an individual and with respect and a slight air of "I could do without you as well". If you look at them like they are "the sexiest thing in the world" they will think (and rightly so) "he's just looking for his hole".

Showing that you are not overly bothered arouses curiosity. Women do it to men all the time and what does the guy do? Chases. Women arent that much different.

K-

sutty

Kell wrote:

Jeebus- do you actually score?

Indifference is the key. Speak to the person as an individual and with respect and a slight air of "I could do without you as well". If you look at them like they are "the sexiest thing in the world" they will think (and rightly so) "he's just looking for his hole".

Showing that you are not overly bothered arouses curiosity. Women do it to men all the time and what does the guy do? Chases. Women arent that much different.

K-

/me takes notes
In terms of scoring a girl. I never go with the mind frame of "tonight I am going to score" or the such. If something happens, then all good. If not. Then no loss.

Kersh

Use the line I used to get a girl i went with for 4.5 years -
'Ill split you in two'

She got curious then....

Be ready for a smack if its a total stranger, but ya just gotta be brave.

Naos

No no Tusky.. If you know how the licking earlobes and stroking knees(remember that old 'Egg splatting on your head' sensation caused by slowly spreading your closed fist into an open hand over someones head? Do that on a womans knee... - Doesnt work if you do it on yourself..) works your sorted

Kobayashi

lazydaisy wrote:

If that doesnt work, wear a kilt, put on a scotch accent and say you're a doctor.

I now remember why I moved to Ireland................

trishw78

Jesper wrote:

5 minutes
I no longer think all women are confusing I've found one at least which has the simple common sense of a boy
Now when are you free for 10 minutes!:)

That's if I like the guy.:D and yes I do happen to have 10 minutes free. but I'm not wasting my time with someone who'll only be 10 mins.

Sarky

simu wrote:

And having a conversation about Star Trek is usually a good sign in a man for me!

I always preferred Stargate SG1. Maybe that was the problem all along.

ambro25

(i) Sit in front of mirror
(ii) Adopt serene and friendly expression
(iii) Repeat after me: "Je m'appelle [something French-sounding, not Pat or Sean :rolleyes: ]et je visite l'Irlande en ce moment. C'est un beau pays. Et vous, qui êtes-vous?"

If you're not laughing you're head off by now, repeat about a dozen times until confident - then go back out

The Corinthian

Don't forget the Kerrygold.