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Lacking in Sex Drive

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  • #52
    WhiteWashMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    coolsmileygirl wrote:
    i kow but i wud feel so cheated if i got married and the had to have an affir in order to have sex!!!


    grrrr. lose the text speak!


    and why would you get married if you werent compatible with your partner?

    and even if you found yourself in that situation for some reason, should you not be able to communicate with your partner enough to talk through any problems?


  • #53
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    WhiteWashMan wrote:
    grrrr. lose the text speak!


    and why would you get married if you werent compatible with your partner?

    and even if you found yourself in that situation for some reason, should you not be able to communicate with your partner enough to talk through any problems?
    sorry im a lazy bitch :D
    im just saying in those days if you wanted to be romantic(or religious) you would wait
    this is probably still done amongst the religious people
    and i'm sorry but if your partner didnt want to have sex you would not force them


  • #54
    Sizzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,430 ✭✭✭Sizzler


    A lad in work said he was lacking sex drive...and then we all found out he didnt even have a driving license !! :)


  • #55
    Third_Echelon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,889 ✭✭✭Third_Echelon


    spooiirt!! wrote:
    I think im lacking in sex drive too... when i see a hot girl, i dont really think about having sex with her, i think about kissing and a bit of oral sex, but nothing more. Ive had sex about 7 times, but ive never really enjoyed it, ive never come during sex either, i always seem to get bored and just lose my hard on. Blowjobs are ok though, i come from them. My last GF ditched me cos i didnt wanna screw, and she got bored of me going down on her. Anybody else just not interested in shagging like me?

    stop watching porn.....


  • #56
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Question for the OP - You say you "give in" a few times a week. If there were no pressure how often do you think youd want sex?

    Three times a week is more than sufficient. I dont know why hes telling you hes feeling rejected. He sounds a little needy.

    Do you think its because you're not attracted to him? Maybe he doesnt turn you on? Are you depressed or unhappy in the relationship? Fatigued?

    Do you excersize? Are you in shape? When I was excersising alot and in really good shape my sex drive really escalated. Probably from better circulation - you know blood flow and all that.

    The pill tricks your mind/body into thinking its already pregnant so of course that will inhibit your sex drive.

    Maybe you just dont fancy him, even though you may love him. It happens.


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