some advice from the boys!

Khannie

Ah...it's Friday.....a certain amount of madness is to be expected.

Slutmonkey57b

Binomate wrote:

Any more than a handfull is too much.

Use two hands then!

Seriously, different people have different tastes. If your boyfriend loves you, he'll love you no matter what your body is like, or what happens to it in the future (you'll get old). In my experience women tend to want the opposite of what they have - girls with large breasts want small ones, girls with small breasts want large ones. Those that are happy with their breasts are usually suicidally paranoid about some other part of their body.

It's normal for a guy to have a preference for breasts/ass/legs, whatever, but it's by no means a deal breaker. Apart from that one time at band camp...

Endurance Man

Ill take firm and pirky over size ANY DAY :v: .

homah_7ft

It's all good as far as I'm concerned, once I'm invited to the party.

dundalk cailin

im not big boobed (a but i get compliments bout my ass, so its all good my friend gets lots of attention for her chest, but i think some leer at her, although in fairness she hardly covers up!! im happy enough havin a nice ass

comad

if I was going out with u, I'd rather that you be happy with your body than annoying yourself over something(s!) that, in all honesty, would only be for me to play with!

LegacyUser

Guys what can I say??!! Thank you so much I feel quite proud of my perky little ones today after reading all of your posts! and in reply to dublin dude I think.. Ive a slim figure size 8/10 and apart from my boobs or lack of them im fairly happy with the package overall! my bum gets complimented from time to time... next time i bare my chest I will do so with glee!! Ah seriously thanks it means a lot your all lovely

styer

do not worry about a thing, chest size depends on the fella involved, from reading the previous posts you'll see that people like all sizes, be confident and prowd about your body, if you show you don't have a problem with it then most fellas won't either....

BeardyGit

Crikey....Who would have thought the guys would be so interested in chatting about boobs, eh?

I've had girlfriends who were big and small - I thought they were all cracking girls and sexy as hell. Women are quite simply gorgeous. Every one of you is a fine thing to somebody. From the top of your nose to the small of your back and everything else - There's something that's just great about each one of you. All it takes is for the right kind of guy to find you attractive and he'll find something about your build that he thinks is incr-edibly sexy.

I know your boyfriends opinion is biased of course and I know it'd be nice to be attractive to other people, not just your boyfriend (nothing sinister about that). But that's not all there is to it - You go to town on any given day and you'll pass some guy who'll think you're just the funkiest thing he's ever seen....As long as you're not dressing like a hooker and acting like a loud and crude cow. Guy's dig girls....For the whole package....

hottstuff

dundalk cailin wrote:

im not big boobed (a but i get compliments bout my ass, so its all good my friend gets lots of attention for her chest, but i think some leer at her, although in fairness she hardly covers up!! im happy enough havin a nice ass

i dont believe you.wanna prove it?

mukki

anyone ever see the film "9 songs"

Little-Devil

Id have to be honest that most blokes look a girl up and down. I'd say don't worry, im sure there is more to you, So i wouldn't worry it:)

dundalk cailin

hottstuff wrote:

i dont believe you.wanna prove it?

ah maybe not everyone would like it :eek:
though havent had too many complaints

McGinty

I'm not a bloke but you said yu don't want to have plastic surgery, the bottom line is then to accept your boobs as they are. In my limited experience most men are very kind to women's bodies, its women who have the problem. The advantages to small breasts is 1) sensitivity - I used to have small breasts and they were so much more sensivitive, with age they've got larger and less sensitive 2) you won't get the gravity problem, you'll still have lovely pert breasts in your 40's and 50's, love them and enjoy them. What makes a woman sexy is how she feels about herself, and that transfers to the man your with, if you doubt yourself in any way, he will doubt you. if you glorify in your womanliness he will glory in you. My advice then is to glory in yourself.

PlayaFlow

boobless wrote:

This post is going to sound really unimportant beside other people's life's problems so I apologise in advance but.. I'm wondering are guys really bothered with the size of girls boobs?!? Obviously initially it may be one of the first things yee notice but if your going out with someone would it bother you if there wasn't much there?!!
I have a very loving boyf who compliments me on everything but really hes just be polite about that area as i really havent much to show at all! but its always in the back of my head that I'd love to have something more to offer... and no i would not consider plastic surgery!!

Whats the the prob? ...I prefer small boobs ..(and so do a lot of people)

but have u got small boobs or NO boobs??? ..ie. just the niples?

skye

Like yourself I have small boobs and I love them!! So does my fella - as others have said it's important to feel good about it in yourself - just as a side note, Dunnes do a great t-shirt bra which I wear with low cut tops - it kinda lifts and pushes them together, not in a false way but just to enhance what you have, give them a better shape - I feel dead sexy when I wear this and it shows in my confidence - that's what it's all about at the end of the day.....

cregser

As I'm sure has been said already, it;s about appretiating yourself and loving who/what you are.

I for one am a man who can appretiate many things about women. Big boobs are definatly a turn on, but a girls gotta know how to compensate, because it certainly can be done...

Cabelo

There's always a trade off. Small tend towards the pertness. The girlfriend is an E, but she's quite small, so yeah, there is a little expected saggy...

At the same time though, I do love them

dundalk cailin

cregser wrote:

As I'm sure has been said already, it;s about appretiating yourself and loving who/what you are.

hear hear!

/me claps

Danno

Smaller are better!

DAEDULUS

fake > all

banquo

It matters not a bit imho. Boobs for me rank amongst the other completely unimportant things in a girl like.. i dunno.. ankles and.. their knees or something.

Small-breasted women are usually much hotter in other ways also.

Girlyone

when we are talking about small
how small do you mean?
I'm a 34A and that's pretty small in my book

dundalk cailin

im 34B; i think thats quite small also

ApeXaviour

I'd just like to throw in my vote for the small boobs. Very much my personal preferance. Not flat chested but the small boobed. They're just so much better!! They look better imho and they fit nicely in your hand.

I feel I should be goggling, with the lads in the pub over the big-breasted ladys and hence I do. But I dont feel it at all..

Implants however.. that actually would be a dealbreaker for me *shudders. Sickening

uglyfish3

personally i would not say the 34B are small??? they a nice size, too big is not good.
as was already said once they in proportion with the rest of the body, all is ok. small girl small boobs, small girl with big boobs, looks like they are gonna keil over at any time, not for me anyway....... a "handy size" as they say is a better size

dundalk cailin

i think 34B is small, id like to be a C; but i aint hung up over it tbh..my friend is a D..some guys are gonna prefer her, thats grand, cant please everyone!

Khannie

Delighted that the OP seems happier.

dundalk cailin wrote:

i think 34B is small

Don't be mad woman. That's a fine size.

Töpher

Dragan wrote:

Sorry folks, its not about size. Its about shape, and pertness, plain and simple.

Sure, i love bug boobs, but they have to have a nice shape and be nice and pert. I have been just an enamoured by small and perts boobs in the past.

In a nutshell.

adonis

wrong thread!

dlofnep

Tit size is not that important. I look for that in the common slut you'll find the weekend, but not with a girl I want to be with. Eyes and a smile are worth much more. That's the truth.

FoXXy

i'm in a family with all girls n my older sis flaunts her bigguns and if im honest alot of the reactions she gets are just guys lookin at her chest and not her which id hate.
mine are wot id consider right for myself. i dont want em any bigger or smaller cos id look all outta shape. jus go with wot u got... someone out there will think your hot as

Atrocity

size doesn't matter, some boys like big tits, some others like small ones. I like both. Besides, I concenctrate on the person, their face, hair, voice, personality, are way more important

hullaballoo

It's been proposed by various psychologists, but especially Freud that men are attracted to big tits. The reasons are purely animalistic though, so the attraction is only temporary, and you could say it only goes skin deep.

As far as I remember, Freud said it came down to a default position that all men are attracted by homosexual effigies, so boobs reflect the arse. Thus the reason why they are on the front--to attract the male to the front, rather than the back.

However, that's just what Freud said, and my mind wouldn't exactly be perfectly ad idem with his.

Zulu

hullaballoo wrote:

It's been proven by various psychologists, but especially Freud that men are attracted to big tits...
...However, that's just what Freud said, and my mind wouldn't exactly be perfectly ad idem with his.

Well thats just it - Freud and other various psychologists never proved anything. They mearly proposed a school of taught, which was accepted by some and rejected by many others.

hullaballoo

Zulu wrote:

Well thats just it - Freud and other various psychologists never proved anything.

\o/ Oops, sort of contradicted myself there. Edited, thanks.

Richelieu

each to their own, de gustibus non disputandum if you will.

I myself find myself going for the smaller variety myself but more because it relates to the type of girl i go for.
But nobody's actually picky about that far as i know...

Zulu

hullaballoo wrote:

\o/ Oops, sort of contradicted myself there. Edited, thanks.

no worries...

Jenniwren

Hi,

Just wanted to send the other side to the story..The bigger chest.....I have to say being a woman and having that bit more on top than what I would like. I went through years of turmoil with them..But over it life is tooooooo short......We will never be 100% happy from our boobs to our feet...But it is what makes you who you are, why change it!..

Many a night would love to be a smaller size...Like they say the grass is always greener on the other side. It may be you who is making an issue out of the boobs! I think if you boyfriend had a problem with your boob size, he may not be your boyfriend. So it shows he is with you for you...boobs and all.

Learn to love them whatever size....They are yours and although they may not be exactly what you want....Thats life....Enjoy it while your living.......

the Guru

Its Not important.

krd

Big ones tend to have stretch marks ---- but look great in a push up.

connundrum

I like my missus's boobs.. no, I bleedin love em! But, I think more to the point is the fact that she loves them... and I'd even go as far as to say that she loves them even more than I do (thats impossible I hear you say ), but no seriously.. she loves em more than me.

Thing is that I love her as a package, she doesn't like her feet, but I love her feet cos they're part of her - I love the whole lot like, and thats what I presume the OP's BF does.. he loves her altogether. What I'm trying to say I guess is that when in a relationship you take the person for what they are... end of. Like someone said before, life is too short. I don't think he has an issue, I think you have an issue. Chin up ey!

Vas_Guy

Angels wrote:

Get your boyf to massage them instead on buying a bra just a suggestion, it worked for me (well i put on weight & they got huge from an 36AA to 38B)

Does this work?

Beruthiel

dragging up old threads is a big no no