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LegacyUser

hi, me and my gf had sex for the first time last night. i used a condom but heres the question. when i was puttin it on the first time i tried i was puttin it on the wrong way. wasnt able to roll down. so i just turned it round and put it on the right way without thinking. i only thought of this afterwards. is that bad? like, any precum that may have gotten on it, if any? would the spermicide have done anythin? it was dark and i couldnt see very much. we have talked about it and we are both slightly worried. i didnt even go in straight away after i put it on either. i had to put it on the right way first which means any precum would have gotten on my fingers. and then as i said the condom was in contact with other parts of her body before entering also.

any advice or help would be appreciated.

thanks.

Ag marbh

need advice wrote:

hi, me and my gf had sex for the first time last night. i used a condom but heres the question. when i was puttin it on the first time i tried i was puttin it on the wrong way. wasnt able to roll down. so i just turned it round and put it on the right way without thinking. i only thought of this afterwards. is that bad? like, any precum that may have gotten on it, if any? would the spermicide have done anythin? it was dark and i couldnt see very much. we have talked about it and we are both slightly worried. i didnt even go in straight away after i put it on either. i had to put it on the right way first which means any precum would have gotten on my fingers. and then as i said the condom was in contact with other parts of her body before entering also.

any advice or help would be appreciated.

thanks.

The chances are so small it's not even worth worrying about. It's normal to be freaked out by stuff like this during the early stages but you'll be fine.

muckwarrior

I wouldn't worry about it too much tbh. But for future reference, if you f*ck up when putting it on then it's best to just open another new one. Also, practice makes perfect!

LegacyUser

Thanks, thats very reassuring but your sure? it was just dark and im usually very careful bout all this sorta stuff.

Iofur

like everyone else was saying - you should be grand! the chances of her getting pregnant from something like that are miniscule!

[Jackass]

tiny tiny tiny.....

I honestly wouldn't worry man! You'll be grand! Cheer up, it could be worse, she could have hairy nipples.

john^doyle

www.babynames.com

projectmayhem

john^doyle wrote:

www.babynames.com

now that's just mean

Stabshauptmann

john^doyle wrote:

www.babynames.com

roflmao

Thats the funnyest reply ever.

But seriously OP, I guarentee everythings grand*

*Not a guarentee

dudara

john^doyle - please be a bit more tactful

OP, there's always a chance of pregnancy, no matter how slight. If you're that concerned, have her attend her GP or a family planning clinic for the marning after pill. Realistically though, the odds would be small

FlutterinBantam

Precum? never heard of that....Pre cum.... the vinegar strokes....????

What are you on about sir

Victor

FlutterinBantam wrote:

Pre cum

I'm sure you can goole it, but it is semen that occurs before ejacualtion.

FlutterinBantam

Right oh... I think it was the all one word "precum" that threw me.

Pre cum... I would have got.........tks anyway

constitutionus

miniscule chance of anything going wrong. the odds are even better seeing as you used a condom with a spermicidal lubicrant. that should take care of any pre cum. but in future do it right, get HER to put it on

Khannie

Statistically it is possible but highly unlikely. How long is it since your partners last period? This will probably be the greatest determining factor.

TerrorFirmer

john^doyle wrote:

www.babynames.com

I'm sorry, but thats just brilliant.

And besides, I don't even have to say it, but as everyone else says, it should be grand. But don't forget there's always the 1% of cases that occur against all odds, and it has to happen to someone.....

AngryBadger

Like everyone has said, the odds are astornomically small, maybe get checked anyway just to give yourself peace of mine. Hope the first time blew your mind. :cool:

FlutterinBantam

AngryBadger wrote:

Like everyone has said, the odds are astornomically small, maybe get checked anyway just to give yourself peace of mine. Hope the first time blew your mind. :cool:

Most unlikely.... blew yer wad maybe.... but these things take a bit of practise..... I'm told...

Bit early for the mind blowing experience I would have thought when the dude can't put the baffles on????

zippybaby

If you are in any way's worried you should bring her to get the morning after pill. She can get it for up to 72 hours after you had sex. Then you can both relax.

Suaimhneach

For the sake of a few quid, just get a test. Its just so much easier than worrying.

Tbh, I wouldn't stress at all at all at all.

Raskolnikov

Pre cum is produced by an entirely different organ to sperm (Cowper's gland as opposed to the testicles) and does not carry sperm. As long as you hadn't already ejaculated just before the pre cum touched the condom, then the odds of your girlfriend getting pregnant are tiny.

muckwarrior

Raskolnikov wrote:

and does not carry sperm.

It actually can sometimes carry small amounts of sperm.

Raskolnikov

muckwarrior wrote:

It actually can sometimes carry small amounts of sperm.

Read the second line of my post.