What to do?

Eminem

I have feelins for one of my best mates i cant tell him i was ment to be getting with before but it never happend . Know hes gf and im happy for him but i have feelings for him and i cant tell hm would begreatfull for your replies:(

The Bollox

are you a dude or a chick?

Eminem

Im a Girl yes i know the name would make some think im a dude but know im a chick

The Bollox

oh right, lol!

well don't tell him. whether or not he likes you is not the main thing. he is probably happy with the girl he is seeing now, I think it would be a shame to mess that up in any way. I know it must be hard, but if you respect him you won't say anything, atleast not while he is seeing someone

Eminem

I do just that we were ment to be getting to gether but it never happend got a message im sorry im getting back with my ex but i still i just want him to be happy

tman

how old are you?

Eminem

tman wrote:

how old are you?

Im 19 why? just wounderin

Eminem

Why how old are use?

tman

this thread is about you, not me.

and don't take this the wrong way, but i'd assumed you were in your mid teens from the first post:o

Eminem

I know but use asked me my age why cant i ask use

Eminem

tman wrote:

this thread is about you, not me.

and don't take this the wrong way, but i'd assumed you were in your mid teens from the first post:o

No afence taken no worries

tman

23... it was in my profile all along.

i'm not professing to be an expert on matters of the the heart, but sometimes you just have to know when to leave well alone.
don't go trying to ruin what he has, he'll most likely end up resenting you for it.
if it's meant to be, he'll come after you.

Crucifix

tman wrote:

and don't take this the wrong way, but i'd assumed you were in your mid teens from the first post:o

Same here.
I would say the answer to "What to do?" is nothing.

Eminem

tman wrote:

23... it was in my profile all along.

i'm not professing to be an expert on matters of the the heart, but sometimes you just have to know when to leave well alone.
don't go trying to ruin what he has, he'll most likely end up resenting you for it.
if it's meant to be, he'll come after you.

I wasnt planning on doing anything hes one of my best mates just want to see him happy but at the same time its sucks that i cant say anything

LundiMardi

Eminem wrote:

I know but use asked me my age why cant i ask use

that sentence hurts my eyes.

To be blunt, there's nothing you can do. Just keep schtum.

I'm 22 by the by;)

Brother To God

You already know the answer as in your question "you can't tell him".
maybe in time if things go sour between him and current partner then
maybe talk to him,but be careful as you could ruin a friendship:D

C_Breeze

Damn , if this was not 'Personal Issues' you would have been slated for your "unsatisfactory" grammatical skills a long time ago.

But in-all-and-anywayz;
My advice is wait for him to break up with his girlfriend (itll happen sooner or later) then just tell him how you've felt for him all along. Chances are he probably likes you too, so you still have future opportunities.

Eminem

LundiMardi wrote:

that sentence hurts my eyes.

To be blunt, there's nothing you can do. Just keep schtum.

I'm 22 by the by;)

Im by the way

LundiMardi

Eminem wrote:

Im by the way

what?

Eminem

I ment to sa 19 sorry

C_Breeze

19 my ass.

i call bull$hit yet again!

Eminem

Yes i am il be 2o in september why would i bother lyin abot my age im not a lyer

C_Breeze

do you speaka any engrish?

tman

why would anybody lie on the internet at all???!?!

Zillah

tman wrote:

why would anybody lie on the internet at all???!?!

Well I can't lie, I had a curse put on me by the fairies.

Brother To God

Engrish and lies,my Fav topics!:D

Eminem

Yes i cant bye the way

Eminem

Im ohonest i dont lie because its for loosers ok

C_Breeze

is english your 1st language?

Eminem

Yes look im not the best at spelling im sorry . But you shouldnt jugde me you dont even know me and in not lying

C_Breeze

well , at least look at the keyboard when typing!
even that post was a vast improvement and easier on the eyes.

Anywho, i gave my advice so good luck with that guy.

Eminem

Thankyou

Zillah

Are you cute? Grinding will always go down badly if you're not cute.

Eminem

Zillah wrote:

Are you cute? Grinding will always go down badly if you're not cute.

I dont mean to sound rude but how do you mean ? Sorry:)

Zillah

Attractive, man. Hot, stunning, gorgeous, delicious. Pleasing to look at.

Eminem

Yeah ive been tould i am

Kinetic^

Eminem wrote:

Yeah ive been tould i am

What nationality are you??

Zillah

Told by who?

Eminem

I have been tould that i have eyes to die for

Eminem

Im IRISH wats with the 21 questions?

tman

how tall are you?

Eminem

Zillah wrote:

Told by who?

My mates

Eminem

Ok your taking the piss know use can stop with the 21 Questions

tman

all we're doing is trying to get a better insight into your personality
if you don't want our help, then FINE!

Zillah

Its important that we get an image of the person involved. Girls like tall men. How tall are you? Whats you favourite colour?

Eminem

Im 5ft 8

Zillah

Ok ok.

In all seriousness. I've actually read your original post.


Real question: Does he seem happy with the GF?

Eminem

Y eah i think so but we were ment to get together and then he texts me and says im really sorry but i am getting back with his ex

C_Breeze

where in ireland are you from?

Zillah

What do you mean by "meant to get together"?

From the sounds of it he chose her or over you. I know you really want it to be different, and I know it feels like there might be a way, but I don't think so. If im reading the situation right, you just need to realise its not going to work.

Eminem

Yeah i know that and i have it just sucks