A bit of a predicament

amazingemmet

So a friend of mine set me up with a friend of hers we went on a couple of dates nothing special so i was thinking of ending it today. but last night a friend of mine from the states was over at mine adn the girl who set me up with her friend called over and i think she got the wrong idea about me and my friend form the states as when she was leaving i got a stern warning not to be fooling around on her friend. So now its gonna look like if i was fooling round if i call it off with her. Any ideas?

tbh

I would say - assuming that you didn't give the Irish girl any reason to think that you were serious about her, and assuming you didn't bug your friend to set you up with one of her friends - you're pretty much in the clear, morally

talk to the girl and be honest with her, and then let your friend know what you've done, and why (don't do it the other way around).

these things happen, sometimes you're are the pigeon, sometimes you're the statue. Just be honest.

Bitsie

exactly just explain to your friend first that your friend from the states is just a friend and unfirtunatly things arent working out witht he girl you were set up with. She should understand, its better to end things with this girl now than dragging it out to save her friends feelings...not fair on all concerned.

Nalz

show her this thread

Canis Lupus

Call it off with the girl if you want for gods sake.