should i?

crazy_dude6662

there is a girl in my class that i like but i, not sure i should ask her out as we are freinds in a group, if i ask er out it will split freindships ect. but i like being freinds with her aswell and if i ask her out and she says no, it might make the freind ship akward.

im not great at making freinds, im nervous and gaurded around people at first, after awhile im more....open and freindly, im a good freind and all that, im just not good at meeting people so the freinds i do have count.
so basically i just wanted to ask, do you think i should ask her out?

(oh and she seems to like me aswell, but im not sure)

nl

Well ask youself this. What would you regret more? Leaving it be and never knowing what may come of it or trying and at least having a clear conscience. As well as that, trust in your instincts.
If I were you id flirt away. You'll find out soon enough. Dont just drop the bomb. Going all out with the big question might be damaging to your friendship if she does say no.

Tiriel

I'd say definitely go for it!! what have you got to lose really? I mean, if she is anyway sound she isn't going to let it get in the way (if she isn't interested).. you'll both just pretend it didn't happen! And best case scenario.. you get it together

alantc

No

0utshined

You should definitley ask.

You don't even have to make it a big thing, just "Hey, I'm doing X¦Y¦Z. Would you like to come with me?" If you ask her out and she says no there is no reason it should not make your friendship awkward.

I've got to ask though, you say she seems to like you too. What makes you think this?

In any event, you should definitely ask her.

crazy_dude6662

she would be txting me about to ask things that i know about pointless things. we would look at each other, and both of us would get embarrased and laugh.

Ruu_Old

g'wan and ask her out lifes too short to be "will i, or wont i". i used to ask girls out all the time, and yeah most of them said no but sure you wont know unless you ask, best of luck

crazy_dude6662

thanks, two more questions

A)how do i pluck up the corourage
B)how should i ask

tracert

A) Up to you, really. Just deciding to do it is the basic theory; but it can be a bit more complicated than that, granted. :rolleyes:
"Would you like to join me for a [drink|film|trip to the opera|etc.]?"

Canis Lupus

crazy_dude6662 wrote:

thanks, two more questions

A)how do i pluck up the corourage

Drugs......Lots of drugs

crazy_dude6662 wrote:

B)how should i ask

Get reeeeeeeally drunk, vomit on her shoes and tell her you think she's a ride........


OOOOOOOOR

Just ask her to the pub/cinema or some other place on her own and if she goes (<

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that parts important) and enjoys herself (<

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also important) ask her out another night and let things happen naturally.


BUT!!!!

Make sure you're ready for possible rejection if you do blurt out you like her as well as the cozy moments of awkardness that come afterwards.

WhiteWashMan

crazy_dude6662 wrote:

there is a girl in my class that i like but i, not sure i should ask her out as we are freinds in a group, if i ask er out it will split freindships ect. but i like being freinds with her aswell and if i ask her out and she says no, it might make the freind ship akward.

im not great at making freinds, im nervous and gaurded around people at first, after awhile im more....open and freindly, im a good freind and all that, im just not good at meeting people so the freinds i do have count.
so basically i just wanted to ask, do you think i should ask her out?

(oh and she seems to like me aswell, but im not sure)

stop worrying, and ask her out.