Confused.....

jamieh

Hey all,

I was going out with a girl for a few months last year. She broke it off out of the blue one day.....after a few weeks we were together again for one night. She told me she broke it off because she said it was all going to well...she was too happy!! Kinda weird I know...but anyway.....she txt me earlier out of the blue. I haven't spoken to her or seen her since last october and all of a sudden she txts me. We were txting for awhile....just small talk.

I'm kinda confused now!! Why would she txt me out of nowhere?? Was it just out of politeness? I don't want to say it to her!!

Any ideas!?

LundiMardi

i think you should just cut all ties, she seems like a bit of a weirdo and someone you could and should probably live without.

py2006

Mind games dude, she knows she can have you when nothing better is going!

Tell her your seeing somebody or just ignore her!

Ickle Magoo

First of all, I can't imagine why any sane person would break off a relationship because they were too happy.... I'd be very wary of getting involved with her again - if you are just texting then it's fairly harmless but I'd watch out, it sounds like she is just playing games with you.....:( Best of luck

fun bus

sounds like a bit of a drama-queen, and believe me, i know what they're like! i'd cut all ties too

Beruthiel

jamieh wrote:

She told me she broke it off because she said it was all going to well...she was too happy!!

I've never heard such b/s
either she was yanking your chain at the time
or
she is mentally unstable
either way, avoid

migz4caz

Maybe she was just confused at the time and she didn't know what she wanted. Maybe during their time apart she realised the mistake she made and wants him back

Mexicola

Be afraid, be very afraid...

Exactly - 'when there's nothing better going'... give him a buzz... Watch out dude.

Aspiration

Some girls get wary when things go really well in a relationship. She's probably really insecure and didn't want to get hurt.

You should talk to her and ask her where you stand. Let her know you don't want to play games. If you really like her, tell her that so she knows you want to be with her. Otherwise, if she's just fooling around, tell her to **** herself and let her go.

Miss Fluff

jamieh wrote:

She told me she broke it off because she said it was all going to well...she was too happy!!

Run for the hills at high speed.

irlrobins

V day coming up next week... Perhaps she just wants someone to send her a card/buy her flowers etc. Hoping u'd be gulliable enough to fall for it.

But yea as others say, avoid.

lil-buttons

Tell her to get the boat! Shes jus keepin you there for a dry patch in her life where mayb shes not gettin much male attention. Sorry but she sounds like an awful user. Set her straight mate or she'll do your head in.

py2006

irlrobins wrote:

V day coming up next week... Perhaps she just wants someone to send her a card/buy her flowers etc. Hoping u'd be gulliable enough to fall for it.

But yea as others say, avoid.

Forgot about that actually, she is probably using you as backup as she doesn't want to be single on V-Day!

jamieh

Hey all,

Thanks for the advice!!

I think its best to go forward instead of backwards....so I think I'll just ignore her and move on!!

Cheers,

Jamie

fun bus

atta boy! sounds like a smart decision to me!

py2006

jamieh wrote:

Hey all,

Thanks for the advice!!

I think its best to go forward instead of backwards....so I think I'll just ignore her and move on!!

Cheers,

Jamie

Good on ya! Buy this guy a pint!