Very Frustrated And Confused!!

huggybear

Hey ppl.. I have been really confused about this girl for a while now. She is my sisters best friend and is always in my house. I want to know how to move on from a girl basically. Anybody got any tips because this girl is driving me mad. I have kissed her a few times in the past but which I don't think ment anything to her. She has been with a few of my cousins presently (nothing serious i don't think) and that really hurt me. One moment she's flirtatious with me and the next she is either tick with me or ignoring me completely. A lot of lads fall for her and she is very attractive and sound when she wants to be. I can't get her out of my head. Please pps I don't need ppl telling me to get over her because thats what I've asked tips on how to do. Its not as easy as I used to think it would be.

No_Regrets

Well huggybear,

I understand that getting over somebody you like a lot is a tough thing, but it happens to EVERYONE at some point and you will get through it. I think you need to try and get out of the house more when you know she'll be around. Meet up with your guy friends, have a lads' night out more often and get out there so that you are in situations wherein you can meet other girls. Believe me, you deserve more than this girl and there are so many fun, friendly, attractive single women out there. I know it's not easy but have trust in yourself and one day you will forgot why you ever felt anything for her!

fre

If you've decided that you want to get over her, start to pick out (in your head...) what annoys you about her...

Then return to the long search for The One again.

Eminem

huggybear wrote:

Hey ppl.. I have been really confused about this girl for a while now. She is my sisters best friend and is always in my house. I want to know how to move on from a girl basically. Anybody got any tips because this girl is driving me mad. I have kissed her a few times in the past but which I don't think ment anything to her. She has been with a few of my cousins presently (nothing serious i don't think) and that really hurt me. One moment she's flirtatious with me and the next she is either tick with me or ignoring me completely. A lot of lads fall for her and she is very attractive and sound when she wants to be. I can't get her out of my head. Please pps I don't need ppl telling me to get over her because thats what I've asked tips on how to do. Its not as easy as I used to think it would be.

Best thing you can do is try and find someone else , shes playing you . That right best of luck:)

Ickle Magoo

huggybear wrote:

Hey ppl.. I have been really confused about this girl for a while now. She is my sisters best friend and is always in my house. I want to know how to move on from a girl basically. Anybody got any tips because this girl is driving me mad. I have kissed her a few times in the past but which I don't think ment anything to her. She has been with a few of my cousins presently (nothing serious i don't think) and that really hurt me. One moment she's flirtatious with me and the next she is either tick with me or ignoring me completely. A lot of lads fall for her and she is very attractive and sound when she wants to be. I can't get her out of my head. Please pps I don't need ppl telling me to get over her because thats what I've asked tips on how to do. Its not as easy as I used to think it would be.

Ok, you've told us that your kisses meant nothing to this girl, she has been with a few (few!!!) of your cousins, she sometimes ignores you & is only sound when she wants to be......I can see why you are so smitten! :p

Why not write down everything that you want from a relationship & from a g/f & then write down the things that you are drawn to & the things that annoy/put you off this girl & I think you will find that although you find her attractive physically & sometimes funny, she is not what you overall what you want in a woman & you will find it easier to move on....best of luck

Kell

huggybear wrote:

I want to know how to move on from a girl basically.

Hmmn. Do a bit of soul searching and try and come up with "Why" you want her. After a while of being honest with yourself you'll figure out you dont actually need her.

You have been hurt by her seeming indifference, because you expect something of her and those ecxpectations arent being met. Once you give it some thought (and do have a long hard think) and you work out that you'll be fine without the inconvenience, you will get over her. Trust me.

K-

Dr. Loon

Snap the fúck out of it... swiftly. Don't be so pathetic and cop on to yourself.
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huggybear

Thanx ppl I'll try my best to forget her.. U have helped greatly..