Afraid to ever

LegacyUser

Iam afraid to ever have sex again,
Ok last time i slepth with someone was in augest,to say the least it didnt go very well.
A problem i thought had gone came back. Basically i prematurly (you know what) and was the most embarrising moment of my life we never talked again after that.Iam terrified of it happening again,is there anything that can be done about premature sex problems??? or am i doomed??

Laguna

I wouldn't really worry about it to be honest man, premature ejaculation can happen for any number of psychological reasons, in very rare cases is it usually resultant of an underlying physical problem. You could have been stressed/nervous/anxious etc. which would explain why what happened, well happened, when you meet someone you're truly comfortable with, I'd wager what happened to you will be extremely unlikely of happening again..

Chucky the tree

How many times has it happened before?

Faith

Well, TBH, if you're having sex, then I think you should be able to type the word "ejaculation".

I think it's a common enough problem, though. You're certainly not alone. Perhaps you need to build up your stamina...

Laguna

Faith I'd have to disagree with you, premature ejaculation is *usually* due to psychological issues instead of stamina problems..

Faith

Indeed, I didn't mean to suggest that was the case. My mistake.

Cnoc16

If you know you are going to have sex, an oul' peddal and crank, tom hank, whatever you want to call it, about an hour beforehand should do the trick

Laguna

Cnoc16 wrote:

If you know you are going to have sex, an oul' peddal and crank, tom hank, whatever you want to call it, about an hour beforehand should do the trick

Haha!, sure that'd work for some people but maybe he's not the sort of lad who can shoot more than one bullet a night?..

daiixi

I think a main point is how you handled the situation when it happened. Yes it does happen and no you shouldn't feel embarrassed about it. Next time, if it happens again, just smile and tell her that she's just too hot and then pull yourself together and make sure she orgasms too. That's the big important point - make sure she gets off too!!! Then try again in the morning

Victor

Have you seen American Pie - it didn't hurt his chances.

BeardyGit

If it's been a while since you've gone a few rounds in the ring, you'll likely end up with your head spinning before the bell sounds on round one. No harm there if you can do two or more rounds in the ring with your sparring partner of an evening! And I'd bet ANY bloke will do that if he's evenly matched and enjoying the fight.

Chances are that if you take a breather at the end of round one, you'll go on for a bit of a marathon in round two, leaving both you and your counterpart breathless and out for the count!

Gil
(Having fun with metaphors)

colm_mcm

I'd say just relax. The fact that premature ejaculation is so embarrassing to you isn't really going to help. If you worry about it to this extent it could well be a problem.

Try lots of foreplay and don't get in her knickers straight away. If she has a great time before you start any penetration, the pressure will be off you to perform.

arbeitsscheuer

Hey, at least you can deliver the goods...

I wouldn't worry about it, it's definitely something you'll get better at wit practice.

Impotence, on the other hand, now there's a b*tch an' a half...

LegacyUser

It can help if you try with her on top.

But it doesn't matter if you come first, just get yourself together and go again, don't worry about it.

LegacyUser

Have a **** before you go out

UberNewb

Unered2 wrote:

Iam afraid to ever have sex again,
Ok last time i slepth with someone was in augest,to say the least it didnt go very well.
A problem i thought had gone came back. Basically i prematurly (you know what) and was the most embarrising moment of my life we never talked again after that.Iam terrified of it happening again,is there anything that can be done about premature sex problems??? or am i doomed??

Well the best thing to do is to focus on pleasing her first, do lots and lost and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of foreplay, get your head down and give her and good licking! she love you for that.

Also when you then start to poke away if you feel like your almost about to let go. STOP pull out, start to tease her... she'll say "Don't stop, please don't stop." but it's all part of the fun.

You can switch between foreplay and penetration as much as you like. After awhile you'll have no problems.

You'll become the Master in the bedroom! (Whip whip, lol)