Girlfriend dependence on alcohol

LegacyUser

About 3 months ago, i met a girl whom I started to date from early December, I`m 40 and she 31 from Latvia. We get on quite well and our our personalities dont differ that much. I like her alot and she likes me. However I noticed recently, in the last month or so that her drinking has got much worse and now she has started to miss days at work,.
I would of course like to keep the relationship going but with my eyes open see the problems ahead. I spoke to her and yesterday she admits she does have a problem with alcohol and this problem exists for over a year now. She says she knows what she has to do but when I suggested she sees someone about it she refuses. She has had a tough life in Latvia which continued on her arrival to Ireland 3 years ago. She is under pressure to keep money sent to her family back home and work for her only attracts the minimun wage.
I tried to talk to her today she refuses to talk about it all.
Whats the best course of action to take here? I know that only those who are dependent on alcohol can solve the problem. With me or without me I know she will continue drinking unless I or she herself can find help.
For her too, money will be a problem, private treatment is I think out the question given her financial circumstances.

LegacyUser

do keep trying to talk to her, best time is when does not feel too after drinking alot. next morning could be a good time

MarinoMark

I may be able to help, re treatment centres,on a budget. She must be willing to go off her own bat. I cannot pm you because you did not sign in as a registered user, Pm me, I know a few routes that may help..Regards M

the_syco

She may be stressed out at having to give a large amount of her salery to home, and having not much to live on, thus the stress. See if she's happy giving the money away, and go from there.