Tips on Attraction

laluna · 22-03-2006 1:09pm #1

I know this guy likes me. We just meet up the odd time and go for a beer etc. this is the way we both like it. Tonite meetin again have ye any ideas i want to surprise him when he sees me - what could i do different or say ...

sutty · 22-03-2006 1:11pm

A small but of cleavage will go along way. Other than that, be your-self. You say he likes you already. So he likes you for you. easy as that.

laluna · 22-03-2006 1:12pm

boobies is it - very funny. i am not that well endowed!!!

~Leanne~ · 22-03-2006 1:12pm

Cleavage and a good ass-fitting pair of jeans!!!

~Leanne~ · 22-03-2006 1:13pm

laluna wrote:

boobies is it - very funny. i am not that well endowed!!!

we have ways to combat that! get urself to Dunnes for a puch up bra - works wonders!

hottstuff · 22-03-2006 1:14pm

You should try to be yourself as much as possible.
A full smile and active eyes can do and say a lot

Sifo · 22-03-2006 1:29pm

just try flirting with him, nothing too obvious though!! if he doesn't cop it, next time he gets up to get you a drink, lightly slap him on the arse and tell him to hurry up, if he turns round (which he will) just give him a cheeky grin....

Nevyn · 22-03-2006 2:01pm

Snogg him.
Seriously, it will surpise him and you will know if you want to carry things on futher and you will learn a hell of a lot after the first few seconds.

LundiMardi · 22-03-2006 2:05pm

Thaedydal wrote:

Snogg him.
Seriously, it will surpise him and you will know if you want to carry things on futher and you will learn a hell of a lot after the first few seconds.

agreed, don't wait for him to make moves, be ascertive, don't wear ****e that show off your tits if that's not what you usually wear, he might grow accustom to it and then when the tits get covered up, he'll be boo hoo sad:(;)

Just be yourself, be open, touchy feely and make the first move if you're comfortable, don't be TOO touchy feely as he may expect more.

Canis Lupus · 22-03-2006 2:41pm

laluna wrote:

any ideas i want to surprise him when he sees me

Don't wear any clothes?

Thaeds idea is also nice.

daithimac · 22-03-2006 3:10pm

be funny. theres nothing on earth as attractive as a woman who can make a man cry with laughter

alantc · 22-03-2006 4:39pm

hottstuff wrote:

You should try to be yourself as much as possible.
A full smile and active eyes can do and say a lot

Definitely, try real hard to be yourself. That will work best.

jrey1981 · 22-03-2006 4:46pm

How about a big affectionate hug as soon as he arrives...

laluna · 22-03-2006 4:55pm

the thing is he is not a touchy feely person himself really he is more the touch the ass and that..

LundiMardi · 22-03-2006 4:57pm

laluna wrote:

the thing is he is not a touchy feely person himself really he is more the touch the ass and that..

Wear a short skirt, and no underwear so.

The Corinthian · 22-03-2006 4:59pm

sutty wrote:

A small but of cleavage

Sending mixed messages there, old chap...

the Guru · 22-03-2006 5:05pm

I honestly believe the sexiest and most becoming thing a girl can do is be herself, funny, and interesting. If you can make me laugh I will stay with you forever

The Corinthian · 22-03-2006 5:14pm

the Guru wrote:

If you can make me laugh I will stay with you forever

I hear she might be available.

the Guru · 22-03-2006 5:19pm

The Corinthian wrote:

I hear she might be available.

Very good

But I got married 10 days ago, to a very funny, Interesting unbutch looking lady, so im taken

ferdi · 22-03-2006 5:20pm

i heard a good tip on some crappy brit tv show - drop your hand and rub 'yourself' a little, then dab your fingers on you neck, as if applying perfume...apparently the subtle pheromone scent will drive men wild.

i appologies.