Bit of advice

LegacyUser

Me and the gf have been going out for a while now we're both 18 decided not to have sex till we're married for whatever reasons just wondering is there any other "fun" stuff to do i mean we're pretty comfortable around each other pretty much anything goes within reason just is there anything else i could do that would hit the spot so to speak anything she does to me is amazing like all ahe has to do is run her fingers up my back do girls just hold it in or what

Exon

Do what ya want, you'll be alright when you try to get into heaven as long as your not an eejit.

LegacyUser

isnt the no sex before marraige thing supposed to mean u dont have *any* kind of sex? like you're meant to take it easy with making out and petting and all sos u dont get tempted?

it would seem like u do want to have sex before marraige.

theres obviously loads of things u can do besides having sex, but u should really be figuring them out for yourself like a normal couple. if u decide to not have sex before marraige, i think thats a like a really big wall in a relationship, and i'm not surprised that u obviously have no idea about being intimate in other ways.

i just dont see the point of waiting. but we're all different. if i was both of u i'd scrap the rules and just do what u feel like when u feel like it..

Dave

But if you do decide to have sex, bag-up and be careful!

SoupyNorman

My advice is to have sex, its important to know there is no problems ie size shape, up/down, in/out, come/gone!!!......as per many posts in the forum will confrim!

Secondly its brillant.....abosultly feckin brillant. Also being in a long term relationship has more scope to develop your sexual pleasure as you both educate each other about what you like/dislike.

Sex is a huge part of a relationship no matter what anyone says, worst case scenario is you end up being a crap lay and she realises she has made a mistake marrying you! Now thats extreme but not impossible.

Nowadays there is nothing noble or romantic about no sex before marraige, lifes is too short to deny yourselves of something so good AND its free!

Thats my advice.

LegacyUser

As Nike say. Just Do It! Just don't go around telling everyone about it.

Victor

Folks, the OP doesn't want to have full sex at the moment, so please keep on topic.

Esel

Reminds me of Bill Clinton, tbh.

"I did not have . . . sexual relations . . with that woman, Miss Lewinsky".

Really, OP, you are only kidding yourselves. Close, but no cigar. :rolleyes:

cupsoftea

women don't just hold it in. But they do take longer to warm up. First of all, she obviously does not want to have sex, so make sure this is completley off the agenda . Keep your pants on if this helps. Lots of long slow slow kissing and touching and caresses, also if you have a good voice (some men have amazing voices others just don't), whispering sweet nothings can be amazing. Make sure the room is warm, tidy. Candles, atmosphere etc can help too. Once you are both in the mood and the atmosphere is right, what feels good for her should become apparant and ye can find your own way. And there is no rush into having sex, once you go there you never go back to the 8 hours of foreplay type stuff that you can have before sex becomes the point.

Smellyirishman

I assume you mean you don't want to have intercourse but still want to "stimulate" one another.

Try here for some inspiration.

Civilian_Target

cupsoftea wrote:

And there is no rush into having sex, once you go there you never go back to the 8 hours of foreplay type stuff that you can have before sex becomes the point.

Yeah you can!