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  • 15-05-2006 9:04pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Ok ok probs predictable here but dont know whree else to ask for advice bout this...


    Been with this guy for a while whos been my best friend a lot longer andi think the world of him... And i say i love him and i guess i mean it on some level, he's helped me through an awful lot in the past and he's one of the few people i can seee having around till the day i die... But then i gotta start wondering if its just a platonic/ brotherly love lately?!

    Now it gets messy...Let me start by saying im at the very least bi... And he knows and respects that and has even had a few experiances with guys himself. Anyway more and more lately i see the lesbian fantasises coming to the forefront in my mind, and althiough i'v been with a few girls in the past (probably more than guys), there has only been one serious which due to a variety of reasons was not exactly good for me...
    Now all i can think of is girls, All my fantasies are abput other girls, i cant seem to muster up interest n other lads etc...
    Now my boyfriens dosn't know the extent of this, just that I have a thing for the ladies as he puts it...
    Despite knowing all the intricate details of my past he believes that now im 99% hetrosexual. Either way he finds girl-on-girl a turnon and admitidly i did use this to my advantage for a while until i decided to grow the fcuk up and be fair to all the girls i was scoring once off...

    Now i know i love this guy to bits he means the world to me, but i just don't know if i want him sexually anymore. I cannot imagaine a better relationship than the two of us have, yet i feel i NEED to be with girls...

    Anyhows...theres my rant...has anyone been in a similar situation?!
    Any words of wisdom?!
    Please at wits end here...


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    Spliffany692000
    Closed Accounts Posts: 58 ✭✭Spliffany692000


    After reading your dilema...Iv come to the conclusion either your totally gay and u dont wanna admit it or your not gay but dont want to hurt your boyfriends feeings! Sit and think bout both of them! Just coz u think bout girls in a sexual way dont mean your straight...maybe confused!! I hope you can sort things out x

    Ps private message me if you want x


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