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Family member about to pass

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  • 11-07-2006 1:29am
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    Deer
    Registered Users Posts: 592 ✭✭✭


    Not looking for sympathy but could I ask those who are in tune with their spirituality and I suppose the spirits to send good vibes or whatever to a family member of mine who is having a hard time and is waiting to pass. I'm trying to do this myself at the moment and hopefully it's working. I'd just like her to go as peacefully as possible and to have lots of friendly faces I suppose from the other side.

    Thanks and I'd really appreciate it if someone could do that.

    Deer.


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    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Absolutely. Im sure others will even if they dont reply here. Take care.


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    Deer
    Registered Users Posts: 592 ✭✭✭Deer


    Thanks a mill

    Deer


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    stevenmu
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,689 Mod ✭✭✭✭stevenmu


    Absolutely, I'm sure we all will. My Granny passed away a few years back, and just before she did she was able to see my grandad who'd passed away long before, and her mother, and it made it much easier for her to move on. I'm sure your relative will be watched over by whomever she needs most.


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    6th
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    I'll make sure to put aside some special time for it. Take care.


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    cinnamon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 226 ✭✭cinnamon


    stevenmu wrote:
    I'm sure your relative will be watched over by whomever she needs most.

    yes absolutely, especially at this time of need. Take care


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    kshiel
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    I will take time to do this. Stay strong.


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    Nevyn
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    Death is a part of life.
    A lot of people fear it and see it as an ending but it is a begining and as long as we remember the person and talk about them and share our memories of themwith each other then they do not die.


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    Deer
    Registered Users Posts: 592 ✭✭✭Deer


    Thank you all very much for thinking of her. She left us during the week. It's prob a really bad thing to say but sometimes when someone is suffering their better off going to the other side. So while I'm sad to see her go I'm happy that she's not suffering.

    Deer


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    Pink Bunny
    Closed Accounts Posts: 292 ✭✭Pink Bunny


    You have my sympathy Deer, even though the death was welcome there is still the hurt of losing them. And it's not a bad thing to say that it's better for them to pass when they are suffering, it's the kindest thing for them really.
    I was at the side of a very close family member when he died after being with him throughout the whole night before and watching him slowly and painfully die. I whispered in his ear that he should let go and move on from this world. It was a relief to see him pass, but it hurts just the same so I understand.


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