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kiss chase

  • 30-07-2006 11:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok basically met a guy kissed a guy been texting a guy, he's quite shy which i actually find to be very sweet and endearing, as i'm very sociable and outgoing. the thing is we've been texting last couple of weeks, yet it seems to be me who's doing all the work, while i think he's great i don't want him to feel like im chasing him.

    advice/opinions?


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  • #2
    abetarrush
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,221 ✭✭✭abetarrush


    Show him your boobs


    or talk more seriously


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Ask him out for a bite to eat, drink or whatever it is that you do. Maybe then you can get a proper chat with him and it might give him more confidence being around you.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Maybe he doesn't like you? Might be too much of a niceguy to tell you to hit the road.


  • #5
    spanner
    Closed Accounts Posts: 620 ✭✭✭spanner


    Ruu wrote:
    Ask him out for a bite to eat, drink or whatever it is that you do. Maybe then you can get a proper chat with him and it might give him more confidence being around you.

    exactly, ask him out for a drink I think would be good. If he says no and doesnt suggest any other time then he would not be interested, if yes then go ahead

    texting is great for breaking the ice and asking people out some where but it can only go so far sooner or later you need to meet face to face


  • #6
    Dave!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,857 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    yeah ask him out, he's probably just really shy as you said. I was like that, and needed my (now ex) girlfriend to make the first moves.

    If you like him then persevere, and he'll open up eventually ;)


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  • #7
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,356 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Asking someone out for lunch is becoming a big thing in the States, and does not appear as forward as drinks or dinner by a girl. You just need more time face-to-face and this might be a way?


  • #8
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    If he is that shy, he may be waiting for yu to make tyhe first move.
    Texting is so addictive that you can forget there is a real person on the other end who may be waiting for a date :)

    Why not ask him for lunch.. just as the others have said :)


  • #9
    AnitaMcCluskey
    Registered Users Posts: 65 ✭✭AnitaMcCluskey


    It was the same with my bf. In the end I asked him out, he said yes and the rest is history! He said he was glad I did because he didn't think he would ever have the bottle to ask me out because I'm so outgoing and he wasn't sure if I really like him or I was just being friendly. Go on....... ask him!


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