tidying down there!

LegacyUser

hi, just quick opinion for the girls really or the fellas! girls do care how hairy a guy is down below or wud u prefer make to trim down there too n fellas do many out there trim down there..
sorry dont to seem crude just wondering thats all!

LegacyUser

When I first met my bf, he shaved down there and I told him not to bother that the hair didn't bother me but now that it has grown back I have been dropping subtle hints for him to get rid of it. What I mean to say is that it didn't bother me when I had nothing to compare it to.

theTinker

Im a bloke and I keep the garden clear of grass.
I actually had this conversation with my friend very recently and shes the one that convinced me they like it better, she did anyways. I also slept with sum1 a little while ago who i had slept with before but had a few bushes in the garden, she said she prefered it clear and found it kindy kinky/sexy. so i guess thats two that prefer it. I do too. a little wierd the first few times i went to the bathroom, looked down and said "is that mine?" before i remembered.

RandomOne

The only time the topic has cropped up was extra sensitivity for him - made no odds to me either way.

Ruu_Old

theTinker wrote:

Im a bloke and I keep the garden clear of grass.
I actually had this conversation with my friend very recently and shes the one that convinced me they like it better, she did anyways. I also slept with sum1 a little while ago who i had slept with before but had a few bushes in the garden, she said she prefered it clear and found it kindy kinky/sexy. so i guess thats two that prefer it. I do too. a little wierd the first few times i went to the bathroom, looked down and said "is that mine?" before i remembered.

Clear all the way, stops nasty bacteria from living down there as well.

Miss Fluff

Kept neat and trimmed, hair down there is too sexy to get rid of completely imo

jcoote

well around the lip area should be clear imo hair on the upper region (ie lower belly)ok

BoozyBabe

I'd actually find it V weird (at first anyway), if a guy had no hair down there.

My fav bit is actually the little bit of hair on a guy above his little friend.
I find that SO sexy.

Marksie

Either trimmed close or non-existent here. Very different set of sensations for both of us and u aint getting your nose scratched

Bluetonic

theTinker wrote:

I keep the garden clear of grass.

theTinker wrote:

but had a few bushes in the garden

BoozyBabe wrote:

My fav bit is actually the little bit of hair on a guy above his little friend.

What is it with people using analogies. Are we dealing with 6 years olds here?

downthere3106 wrote:

fellas do many out there trim down there..
sorry dont to seem crude just wondering thats all!

Well back to the question in hand, as a bloke I like to keep all my bodily hair neat and tidy. At the end of the day it's what make you feel most comfortable that matters. You've nothing to lose by trying it out, it'll grow back and if you keep your skin moisturised where you've shaved you'll find it unlikely you'll get any irritation. You'll also find that some blokes who shave their pubic hair like the impression of extra length it gives their penis.

LegacyUser

Miss Fluff wrote:

Kept neat and trimmed, hair down there is too sexy to get rid of completely imo

Have to agree, On a girl I like a little strip of trimmed hair on the front but none underneath or at the sides.

For me, I shave the sides and around the base of my penis and my scrotum then I trim the front very tight, so I have some there.

It looks better for everyone and feels better for everyone. Let your partner shave you, that's fun too.

Static M.e.

Hope the OP doesn't mind but its kinda related.

While we are on the subject, just curious how do you Trim down their or keep it completly free for that matter?

Do you use a razor blade? or go somewhere or ?? The thoughs of a razor blade gives me the hebbie jebbies...

BoozyBabe

Bluetonic wrote:

What is it with people using analogies. Are we dealing with 6 years olds here?

TBH, I just don't like the words d!ck, or c0ck. Penis sonuds a bit too medical or proper or something.....

smash

BoozyBabe wrote:

My fav bit is actually the little bit of hair on a guy above his little friend.

I can just image someone saying to you "say hello to my little friend...."

BoozyBabe

steve06 wrote:

I can just image someone saying to you "say hello to my little friend...."

, it's actually the "love shaft, baby!!!!":eek:

Marksie

steve06 wrote:

I can just image someone saying to you "say hello to my little friend...."

I would think that was great . he is every mans friends..i think its nice if my partner thought so too

Marksie

Bluetonic wrote:

What is it with people using analogies. Are we dealing with 6 years olds here?
.

I dont like crude words for genitalia, also it totally public forum.

Sometimes anaolgies are amusing and raise a smile

Bluetonic

marksuttonie wrote:

I dont like crude words for genitalia, also it totally public forum.

Sometimes anaolgies are amusing and raise a smile

Whats crude about calling a penis a penis etc? Nothing.

If people were looking to rasie a smile I'm sure they could pop over to the humor forum.

To the board mods sorry for posting off topic.

milod

Well on the northside we refer to our little friend as "the baldy fella" which I think is a fitting analogy here given the OP's original topic.

...and just to add - I think a little trim with scissors is a good idea for both sexes if you plan on going south for recreation - but the whole shaven/waxed thing? It makes you look weird!! blokes look like a plucked chicken and girls look like they fell on a wire fence...

Marksie

Bluetonic wrote:

Whats crude about calling a penis a penis etc? Nothing.

If people were looking to rasie a smile I'm sure they could pop over to the humor forum.

To the board mods sorry for posting off topic.

Nothing wrong with calling a penis a penis. I was giving my opinion of why i dont use crude words.
Why the bee in the bonnet?

jcoote

should this be in AH at this stage???

see the thing about the wire fence syndrome is purely lack of aftercare i think.

if u shave/wax it properly and keep it moisturised after it should be ok unless u have a reaction or something...

would i be right in sayin that???

smash

milod wrote:

girls look like they fell on a wire fence...

How do you think that then?

cance

think he is refering to the "red dot" syndrome after a fresh shave,

cleanse tone moisturise

LegacyUser

Don't go against the grain untill your skin is use to being shaved and always use a good moisturiser, this will help to avoid red dots etc, I've never had razor burn because I take car! and it feels great and looks great when it's nice and smooth, more hygenic too.

LegacyUser

Nooooooooooooo, I could NEVER shave down there!!!!! (Female)

I'd need to shave about 3 times a day to keep it stubble free:- just not worth it in my eyes.

I'm also V shy, so I won't go & have it waxed.

what do I do?
Epilate :eek:
Down there is completely hair free until almost in line with my clit. The rest is trimmed down to practically nothing & epliated around the edges. I'd like to epilate further, but it gets waay too painful after that.

Then I exfoliate daily & use TendSkin to prevent any ingrown hairs.

The smooth feeling is gorgeous & lasts at least a week

LegacyUser

how can it have a smooth feeling if it's only trimmed down? It looks the best with a line of hair leading to the clit - like a treasure trail, but it needs to be shaved and it'll feel/look better. Just go with the grain and use a new blade, then you wont get razor burn or ingrown hairs. Or do get the laser hair removal - then you wont need the shave or wax or trim!

LegacyUser

I hate that little landing strip look.
Looks so stupid in my opinion.

Mine looks more like your ordinary bikini wax (from the front), but from my clit to my anus is completely hair free & smooth (more like a brazilian). This is where I was talking about it being smooth.

There's no way I'm doing the shaving thing. This works for myself & the bf.

Yes, I'd love to get it permanently removed by laser, but don't think it bothers me enough to go to that extreme

event

http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/4423580.htm

use that there if you want, has lots of attachments

ferdi

nah, here's what ye want: http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/7200195/Trail/C%24cip%3D43220.DIY%2C%2Bgarden%2Band%2Bcar%3EC%24cip%3D43282.Garden%2Bpower%2Btools.htm

Nevyn

ferdi you know better then this, consider yourself warned, unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

Dreamer 7

I like my man to be neat and trimming about the c0ck but definetly smooth around the balls etc, i love to lick and suck them but hate to get hair in my mouth. He obliges me coz i make it worth his while;)
I personally like to keep it quite trim down there too but he likes me to keep a little around my ass, everyone has different preferences!

ron.dolan

Way I see it, its 2006, not 1986. You have to keep the place tidy, nobody likes picking it out of their teeth, do they?

Yuck.

Seriously though, a trimmer does the job on the large swathes and if your man enough (I'm not - did it once and jesus h christ was it painful.....) you could also get a 'back, sac and crack' wax......

But be warned!

cance

bsc is not for the feint hearted tbh... :eek:

the most important thing to remember with any of the above is the obligatory moisturise.

you must moisturise!

Anti

every couple of weeks i go to get the " back sac and crack "done. Ive had it done since i was 17/18. I do it because it looks better. more hygenic, espicially in the hot summer months. For me to much hair down there is a bit of a turn off. I dont like it all off, thats reserved for porn stars. but the landing strip or the mexican down there is grand for a girl. like said above by OP the lip area of a woman should be kept tidy. no nessicerily shaved, but trimed.

ron.dolan

cance wrote:

bsc is not for the feint hearted tbh... :eek:

the most important thing to remember with any of the above is the obligatory moisturise.

you must moisturise!

The only neccessary moisture I'd recommend for that procedure is large quantities of single malt.....

Or maybe a good clout of bat about the head. Its really, really, really painful.

Women have my utmost respect for doing that on any sort of regular basis.

Battle of the sexes? Women by a mile lads.....

LegacyUser

well here's the options for girls...

Hollywood : completely bald all over
Brazillian : really just bikini line
Playboy : just a landing strip on front
Las Vegas : hollywood but with pubic gems
Australian Thong Wax : hair on front and bald back, side and underneath

All women should be nice and smooth underneath for sure, if there's a bit on the front or bald I don't mind! Nothing worse than going down to get a mouthfull of hair or prickly stubble. I shave my balls and ass and the base of the shaft along with the sides, don't go bald on front but keep it neat - girls love it!

Anti

yeah it is excruciatingly ( nice spelling i know ) painfull. but you get used to it ( almost ) after a few sessions.

That reminds me, im getting a little bit fluffy below

LegacyUser

ron.dolan wrote:

Women have my utmost respect for doing that on any sort of regular basis.

Battle of the sexes? Women by a mile lads.....

Well judging by the amount of replies, it'll mostly men that do it.....

cance

anti wrote:

yeah it is excruciatingly ( nice spelling i know ) painfull. but you get used to it ( almost ) after a few sessions.

That reminds me, im getting a little bit fluffy below

its ouchies time then.

no, bsc (back sack and crack) is only for the strong willed. back isnt so bad, but anything after that is incredible.

Anti

i dunno about that chap.

The back is the worst for me, well lower back, im not some type of hairy mammoth

I once had to have one of my eyebrows one arm and one leg done because i lost a bet. Not that was REAL pain. It was more painfull then when i broke my arm and collar bone

LegacyUser

Just wondering about the BCS where would one get this service done?
Cant image to many beauty salons willing to do this to a big hairy bloke like myself???

HJ Simpson

Just wondering where you get the BSC done? The G/F suggested I get the back and chest waxed before the holidays I was thinking of going the whole hog but not sure on the pain levels?

LegacyUser

Yeah, Im a bloke and I keep there ALL shaved and clean. It supposedly makes it look bigger too which is a benifit. When it comes to grls, I would prefer its at least kept tidy but doesnt have to be shaved.

foxyloxy

Almost every woman I know tidy's her area. With waxing being the most popular option by a long shot. Short term pain, long term gain.

I've never had the pleasure of seeing a man with a tidy area though! I'm obviously going to the wrong places

RainbowBrite

Agreed,

It must be a city boy thing..... (Not meaning offence by that), but being a country girl, I've never been with a boy who groomed his privates.

Static M.e.

Cant be bothered going unreg.

Very curious about this though on the ladies its a DEFINATE plus I didnt realise alot of guys did it too and I certainly didn't realise that alot of girls liked it done.

So if you went for the bsc how long does it last for?
how much does it cost?
and where would you get it done?

LegacyUser

RainbowBrite wrote:

Agreed,

It must be a city boy thing..... (Not meaning offence by that), but being a country girl, I've never been with a boy who groomed his privates.

come to Dublin and find one, it's nice!

LegacyUser

Ouch !
Real men don't shave down dere !