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Betrayed by best friend

  • 11-08-2006 5:40pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I recently told my best friend something really important. I specificaly told her not to tell anyone, emphasising her boyfriend who is an untrustworthy a$$hole. However i have recently learned she told him. I'm so upset over it, she has not apologised just saying she "had" to tell him. I know he has told other people. I don't know what to do. If others find out about this it's going to ruin me. Please help. What should I do?


Comments

  • #2
    spinandscribble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    some ppl have no idea how to keep a secret. its hard considering she hasnt said sorry so by rights theres no need to forgive her. sucky situation!


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Theres nothing you can do I'm afraid OP, just pick carefully in future who you tell your secrets. Sorry to hear about your situation.


  • #4
    projectmayhem
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,480 ✭✭✭projectmayhem


    as ruu said, there's nothing you can do without a time machine here.

    maybe talk good and hard with your friend and make sure her boyfriend doesn't go spouting whatever the word is to anyone else, or if you're that angry, walk away and let you friend figure out how you feel.


  • #5
    secret_squirrel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,357 ✭✭✭secret_squirrel


    Only 1 person can keep a secret safely.

    Telling anyone is a risk. Welcome to life. Try to pick your friends better.

    How old are you? You sound about 12?


  • #6
    Sony
    Closed Accounts Posts: 301 ✭✭Sony


    secret_squirrel wrote:
    Only 1 person can keep a secret safely.

    Telling anyone is a risk. Welcome to life. Try to pick your friends better.

    How old are you? You sound about 12?

    thats not advice thats an insult:rolleyes:

    everyone makes mistakes OP,maybe try talking to her one more time about it and if she doesnt apologise then at least you'll know not to tell her secrets in future


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  • #7
    secret_squirrel
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,357 ✭✭✭secret_squirrel


    Sony wrote:
    thats not advice thats an insult:rolleyes:

    No Sony is a tool is an insult.

    The post was harsh advice.

    The OP should realise that some couples blab everthing to each other. If she's her best friend she should know that already, unless as I said earlier she's a child.


  • #8
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
    Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
    Have a nice day.
    Thaedydal


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