Single Father

Trinity

I do love a happy ending - delighted for ya!!

Dors1976

antodeco wrote:

Well folks, I know its been a while! Well Ive managed to find someone already!! She is also a mom, and she appreciates the difficulties. Funnier thing is, I met her through this!

Brill! Anyone we know?!?!?

Darragh29

antodeco wrote:

Well folks, I know its been a while! Well Ive managed to find someone already!! She is also a mom, and she appreciates the difficulties. Funnier thing is, I met her through this!

Dis is cool, did you meet her on this thread!?! Can I guess who!?! ;-)

sullivk

Yay!!! I'm very very happy for you
Goodluck!

jubi lee

op i don't thjink grils think you are used goods...

however as a girl who's met a couple of guys with kids, the things that went thru my mind was his ex gf and how that would work out. some ex's pout the kids in the middle and cause tonnes of problems.. thats difficult for the new gf to deal with.

Also you are basically sharing your guy with another woman basically...

if the girl is worth it, you having a kid won't make a diff. A guy who is really into looking after their child is actually attractive to girls cos we get to see what you'd be like as a dad!!

Kimbot

antodeco wrote:

Well folks, I know its been a while! Well Ive managed to find someone already!! She is also a mom, and she appreciates the difficulties. Funnier thing is, I met her through this!

Congrats to you first of all for breaking the cycle and looking after your child etc.

I agree with what your original post is about, I am also a single father, see my son every weekend, take him for a couple of weeks etc. I love him to bits and nothing will ever change that! When I broke up with his mother it was very hard to get back into the swing of things with women. Generally as soon as they found out I had a child there was a big cloud of smoke left on front of me in the shape of them! Not all women are like that tho, I met a lot of fantastic women that accepted that my son will always be put before myself even!! Currently I am seeing someone and have done so for nearly a year now and she knew about my son before anything happened with us.
I think the main thing is that some women don't understand that you care about your child or even want to be part of their life and make them number 1!!

frobisher

I'm a full time single dad to my 13 year old son. At different points I have been a bit self concious about it with girls too but now see that all it was was just me projecting my own lack of confidence. Even though I'm 33 I look alot younger and have a tendency to get attention from girls that are a bit younger than me and even then when I say I have a kid the majority of them don't even bat an eyelid. If anything, my experience tells me that girls of all ages seem to find it attractive!
Don't worry about it at all. You'll just be making obsatcles for yourself that need not be there. Good luck!!

antodeco

Well she is from Boards, but not from this thread!! Out of her privacy I wont tell!! you are all more than welcome to guess tho Well she has a child herself, so we are both in the same boat. Makes you realise that things sometimes do work out!

lil momma

I am the lucky lady... Thanks to boards.ie

Beruthiel

antodeco wrote:

Well folks, I know its been a while! Well Ive managed to find someone already!! She is also a mom, and she appreciates the difficulties. Funnier thing is, I met her through this!

Well that's just fantastic!