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Too quiet

  • 01-09-2006 11:21am
    #1
    Connaldo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Have just started meeting this really cute girl who broke up with her ex a few weeks ago. We get on really well and id like to go out with her. Only thing is she thinks im a bit quiet around her. Have been in previous relationships and this was not a problem that i know of anyway. Im a confident enough person but i really like this girl and dont want to lose her. Any ideas on how to convince this girl im not that quiet or what to talk about when im with her that would show her im not the shy person she thinks i am? Is she comparing me to how he was around her?
    Not from a city too so any suggestions on what to do or where to take her out on a date??


Comments

  • #2
    Gordon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,524 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    Take her out somewhere where you can both be alone together then she can see what you're all about. Go to a restaurant?


  • #3
    smk135
    Closed Accounts Posts: 235 ✭✭smk135


    find some topics of discussions??


  • #4
    Trinity
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,662 ✭✭✭Trinity


    Too quiet as in what way - you are not dancing on the tables, slagging every passer by and mooning them?

    She should just accept you as you and honestly she should not be passing comments like that at this early stage.

    this is the fun part - you are questioning yourself already and wondering if she is comparing you to the ex.

    Just be yourself she should like you for you and you said yourself you dont see it as a problem.


  • #5
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,356 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Be yourself with her. Don't put on a false image. Now, discovering playfulness between you both is not false and can be fun, because you are both in on it.


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