WHATS going on in world

KELTICKNIGHTT

my wifes uncle daughter died on wedensday at 22 yrs
broke up with ass of boyfriend who dumped her and left her with bill ,lost her job because wasnt able to cope
lost digs as well
moved back to parents 2 weeks ago ,on wedensday was found by her father hanging by rope in his garage
and seem to be doing good,my wife and family in bits and pissed off
went to church tonight and be buried tomorrow
a week ago,friend i work with,his son died in sleep at 22 yrs
makes you wonder
just blowing off steam
sorry if in wrong area

Black Swan

Sad, but a part of the human condition.

KELTICKNIGHTT

still sad do,speically for those who knew them,familys and friends

Heisenberg.

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CathyMoran

Life is sometimes just not fair, I think that it is far harder that the deaths are of young people though.

chump

CathyMoran wrote:

I think that it is far harder that the deaths are of young people though.

Youth is relative, a 35 year old daughter is a young child to her mother and father.

Sad story OP. Sorry to hear about it.

KELTICKNIGHTT

just came from furnal,after comming off 12 hr night shift,im dead tired,had to leave the wife with the family,as need to see a bed//because of what happened,was kinda straight at church where the priest was being very careful,at same time trying to make a point
im drained after it with lack of sleep/all the crying and trying to keep it together/one of the longest days i put down in a while
need to get some sleep and go back to family affair
words fail me

CathyMoran

chump wrote:

Youth is relative, a 35 year old daughter is a young child to her mother and father.

Sad story OP. Sorry to hear about it.

Yes, I know, am 32 and would consider myself young. My grandmother died at 100 and it was the only time in my life that a funeral was not hard. I lost my 42 year old cousin to skin cancer that spread fairly recently and that was the sadest funeral that I was ever at.

OP - this is just a really sad situation, I do not think that you can ever make sense of these things. Sometimes life is just not fair and bad things can happen without reason.

craichoe

You wont know the highs until you have the lows

KELTICKNIGHTT

for me, 2 young people under 25 years to die in less tjan a week is abit much
with fanily today and now onwy back trying to make sinse of it,our family are trying to come to terms that family member took there life

CathyMoran

Imagine being 32 and being diagnosed with oesophageal cancer, I know that it is not the same as death but this happend to me this month. I know that I am fortunate that I have something to fight for but I could have taken it negatively, I do have to face the fact that I may die no matter how hard I try to beat this but I am doing all I can to beat it.

I can not make sense of the deaths though, they just are not fair. Sorry, I am not trying to belittle what has happened to people that you care about in your life but I am saying that life can be unfair without sense.

KELTICKNIGHTT

friend of mine is in same stage,every day for him is another good day to live life,took awhile to get head around that he's dying,

CathyMoran

KELTICKNIGHTT wrote:

friend of mine is in same stage,every day for him is another good day to live life,took awhile to get head around that he's dying,

I am not dying, though there is a very big chance that I may. I have a bad cancer that has a very high death rate but I am going to beat it if it is humanly possible. I think that you need to look on the optimistic side of life. I could have taken the diagnosis badly but I want to beat this and to beat it I have to be optimistic, ocasionally I have my bad moments but they are moments not days, sure, chemo is a pain and I am going to be having massive surgery but I want to live.

Please try and look on the bright side of life. What happened recently to those you care about is terrible, help the grieving by all means but those who are dead are at peace.

KELTICKNIGHTT

at moment i worried about the who she left behind,wast her way,to say shock would be more than under statement
when someone takes there life in family home makes alot of impacts on family and friends,its hard to explain as we still mixed up about it,at this time dont know what to say as its the way we feel ,alt of feelings and dazed
we need time to gether ourselfs and all we can do now is support our selfs

daiixi

KELTICKNIGHTT wrote:

for me, 2 young people under 25 years to die in less tjan a week is abit much

When I was 19 in the space of a three weeks two lads who I'd grown up with died aged 22 and the father of a friend died aged 60. Deaths were of cancer, heroin overdose and a broken heart respectively. A month later my aunt died. Her death was followed by that of much loved and respected member of our community from a heart attack. A couple of months later another close friend aged 22 also died of a heroin overdose. I can tell you with all honesty that that year sucked and it's such a shame that people close to you die. Especially when they take their own life while others who wish to live lose theirs.

KELTICKNIGHTT

life hard at times,only good thing sometimes is time

Heisenberg.

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KELTICKNIGHTT

The Scientist wrote:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.


T.Sc.

nicely put

CathyMoran

The song "moments of pleasure" by Kate Bush is a really good song at this time.

daiixi

"We are permitted to grieve only to because we have been lucky enough to love. To never grieve at the cost of never having loved is too dear a price to pay"... also very good...