Whats wrong?

LegacyUser

Ok, I am 16, male and when I masturbate I don' cum at all. Every now and then I would see a small amount of semen(I hope) when I am masturbating. It is nearly transparent but can just barely make it out. This is really worrying me, I have never actually cummed when masturbating. Noting at all. I don't really feel pleasured when masturbating. This is a real worry to me, can someone give me their advice. Thanks in advance.

Shellie13

firstly id say relax cos if your worrying of your "normal" or watever theres no time for nicer images in your mind!

Also mite try talkin to a doctor (don't get too embarassed a frienda mine had something similar n was ****ting it goin in n came out laffin!) Just make sure its not hinting at a physical problem or anything!

Anti

Go see a doctor first. What your seeing during masturbation is known as pre cum. Its a kind of lube. Which you preduce.

But i would say you are not relaxed enough to let go and have a orgasm. This is something you need to sort out by yourself, or maybe with some professional help.

LegacyUser

How long have you been masturbating?

That happens to me when I feel uncomfortable about something or when I'm nervous. When I'm in that kind of mood, even if I manage to ejaculate, there tends to be no pleasure. And focusing on it tends to make me more tense, which only makes it worse. This is pretty common! In all likelyhood you're just stressing over it now, which is causing the problem to perpetuate.

I'd recommend trying some KY Jelly (which you can get in any pharmacy, or Boots) to use as a lubricant for your hand, it's quite nice. Find some time when your house is empty for an hour or two, so you can sit down (or whatever works) and relax. Fear of being interrupted is pretty off-putting as well!

Seeing a doctor wouldn't do any harm, but I think it's probably unnecessary.

Redrocket

have you tried watching porn???

Talliesin

There's a lot of possibilities, and some of them are indeed medical. Retrograde ejaculation would mean little or no cum, and can be a sign of the onset of diabetes or other conditions.

Not that likely, but could worth checking out.

Civilian_Target

It's almost certainly a mental block, if you **** with the focus on ejactulation, it probably won't happen, you'll naturally stimulate yourself the wrong way unless you know exactly what you're doing.

Best bet: relax, enjoy it, feel the sensations and don't go to hard on yourself. You don't need to cum for masturbation to work - it will relax you regardless and one day you'll be tugging your john thomas and then suddenly...

Dan133269

Civilian_Target wrote:

You don't need to cum for masturbation to work - it will relax you regardless and one day you'll be tugging your john thomas and then suddenly...

KABLAMO!