Going to run into EX

helpme

Please helpme

Im Djing tonight in the nightclub and my ex text me telling me she will be going up with her friends from around the area.

Im looking forward to seeing her. but its also going to break my heart (still mad about her) we have seen each other from time to time but im afraid i will get so jealous. there is bound to be guys trying it on with her and dancing with her. i dont know how to handle situation.

also how do i act if she talks to me. i want her back but ahe not ready for relationship again.

any advice would be great

mad m

Play it cool,dont over do the attention. She may already sense you still have a thing for her,women have those power senses. Just act yourself and dont drink to much and drool all over her incase it back fires.Nothing worse than waking up next day going *Oh god did I do/say that*.

helpme

i wont be drinking as im driving and working so hopefully i wont be drewling lol. also she knows im still into her so............

mad m

Well do you think she is still into you? She is an Ex though. Sometimes people can feel a sense of power when they know someone is into them and she might take advantage of you because of this. How long is she an Ex? If its long enough maybe its time to move on...

As I said play it cool and dont pay to much attention to her.Say Hi and this and that. You might be still into her but she might not feel same way.

dr.bollocko

I'm guessing that she broke up with you... In that case, I think it might be best to just try and move on. Treat her nicely and friendly, but don't do any of that imploring her, torrent of adoration type thing.
If she needs time to adjust to having a long term relationship that probably isnt going to help anything.
Its one of those situations where her reactions will tell you everything that you need to know if you play close enough attention to them so just go with your instinct and play it softly softly rather than trying to win her over or playing it desperate.
Focus on yer mad hot deejayin' skills bra.

Heisenberg.

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helpme

cheers Doc and scientist. thanks. you have really helped. im still not looking forward to it.lol

impr0v

Make sure to leave the slow set music in the box.

the_syco

So... how'd it go?

Chucky the tree

surly you'll have other girls coming up and chatting to you, so why not flirt with them if shes doing it with some fella. whatever, dont make it obvious it bothers you if she is with some fella.


P.S love the nick lemonparty. Best website ever.

helpme

ok well it went terrible last night i cant really talk about it now. i will post events tomorrow.