Need Advise Please..

klubhead

About 4 months ago my girlfriend text me saying that it was'nt working out after a few texts and a couple of phone calls and a 2 page letter which i wrote (about two weeks) she finally built up to courage to see me to my face (and even then she burst into tears) and said she was unhappy and she wanted a couple of months of a break and we'll see then weather to continue or not.I was gutted,our relationship i suppose had its flaws we had fights i suppose like everyone else and she said to me that i had a loose wire which i had and to sort myself out(my temper).3 weeks later i heard she moved into the city which is not far from where we lived.And after the 2 months i text her and she said what i thought she would say 'thanks for asking me to dinner, sometime maybe but i think its best to leave things the way they are for now'.Anyway i asked her i would like to keep in contact and she said theres nothing wrong with been friends.I have decided to go to austraila with a mate of mine in a few months,thing is i think i still love her.I got her a presant which i never gave her for her birthday and was thinking of giving it to her before i go,i know in my heart and soul i'd take her back in a second.She's 22 and im nearly 27,we lived in the town and went out for nearly 3 years

Chucky the tree

i'd stick the present in the bin and wouldnt bother. The more you keep thinking about her the more it will bother you. Just move on and look forward to the holiday.

If her feeling changed i am sure she would of been in touch with you. But she hasnt, chances are she has moved on.

Marksie

It definitely looks like she has moved on..time for you to do the same. Australia is very nice this time of year. Go for it and put thoughts of her out of your head.

Fanny Cradock

Doesn't sound like she is into it. Even if she did change her mind, you are going away for what I assume is a long time. This hardly bodes well for anything happening.

On the positive side, you will be kept busy over the next few months - getting things ready for the holiday, having farewell parties and then there's the trip of course (lucky bastard)! Look forward to the future and stop pining after the past. This trip is the perfect way to move on!

klubhead

Ok i probably needed someone to tell me that.I'm sure by now she heard im going to austraila for a few months although i did tell her that i would text her again.Should I?Or just leave it or maybe text her good luck that i was going,i think the more i text her the more i will be thinking about her,yes i think its about time i moved on but even from the texts i get back off her i can still see theres interest there.

Overheal

Interest or no: don't press it. You'll only succeed in driving her further away.

Mighty_Mouse

Sounds like game over. As for staying in contact and being friends. Only possible if both parties are completely over each other.

Also remember the golden rule: women only want what they cant have.

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Black Swan

Sad for you, but from the way you tell it, she has moved on. Your coming trip to Oz should be a good break for you. A new start. Fun and adventure, and allow you to move on too?

klubhead

Ya it was staring me in the face but i suppose i just needed someone else to tell me.I have no other choice but to move on if it was meant to be it was meant to be if she did have the slightest bit of interst to start again i'd know surely by now.I am gona take this time to look forward to OZ and start afresh.