Boyf Issue

Layla1981

dublin chick here - how ye all. ok, me and boyfriend going out together few months - getting on grand. just need yere thoughts please. had a nice w'end there last week headed home sunday - he seemed odd. he is complaining about a tummy bug now met him today he asked me to go for lunch. i ask him if he still likes me and he says he does. but why did i do that - and why do i feel sick about the way he is at the moment. he defo isnt in the best of form. he booked a hotel this w'end for us to stay in. hopefully he will b in better spirits. he says he is not down just a tummy bug? wish i was a stronger person to just take it as he says hes feeling sick and not something else.

patrickc

sounds like he's still into you booking a hotel and all, it's just a tummy bug, knocks the best of us outa sorts.

Ruu_Old

I know when I am sick, I like to be left alone to get better. My wife knows to let me be and sleep/whatever. I don't want to annoy anyone else with my bad moods when sick. Perhaps that is the case with your boyfriend.

hunnymonster

Take a deep breath (and a large slug of something alcoholic if you need it).You have a weekend to look forward to. Concentrate on getting ready for that and enjoy yourself. LIfe is too short for "what ifs"

biko

It's hard to be 100% all the time. Sometimes we are down, could be something at work/school or something else.
Try not to pick at it as you might just get on his nerves. If he gets grumpier over next week or two you should bring it up.

dr.bollocko

If this relationship lasts a few years, you will look back and remember this post and really start to miss the feeling of butterflies and nervousness associated with going out with a new guy. In many ways it can be the most fun time in the relationship when the feeling of security is replaced by a feeling of excited nervous worriedness that keeps ye both interested and adrenaline levels high.
You are still only learning who he is, and how to react to him. If he says that a stomach bug is causing the trouble, it probably is. In fact he was probably shot in the stomach, but just doesnt want to make a fuss. He is a man after all.

dame

It's probably just the bug. If he'd gone off you he wouldn't be booking a romantic break.

Marksie

I dont think you have anything to worry about. It is just a bug and you don't really know him well enough, but in general i would agree with another poster oif i am sick i want to be alone and am definitely offish.
Relax and enjoy the weekend

DublinWriter

Oh, he's just in his flowers.

Read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and you'll learn that us blokes like to retreat to our caves everynow and then and usually hangup a 'Do not disturb" sign outside. It's nothing to do with your relationship.

loismustdie

if he's wanting a break u have nothing to worry about but if you keep nagging him he will get pissed off so just enjoy him and make him a get well card with a pis of you on it to show him how brillliant you are!

tensecyclist

Don't worry much . Be confident and be positive. If I am the guy and I do not like you anymore I will not plan for another weekend and be together.

Motley Crue

Layla1981 wrote:

dublin chick here - how ye all. ok, me and boyfriend going out together few months - getting on grand. just need yere thoughts please. had a nice w'end there last week headed home sunday - he seemed odd. he is complaining about a tummy bug now met him today he asked me to go for lunch. i ask him if he still likes me and he says he does. but why did i do that - and why do i feel sick about the way he is at the moment. he defo isnt in the best of form. he booked a hotel this w'end for us to stay in. hopefully he will b in better spirits. he says he is not down just a tummy bug? wish i was a stronger person to just take it as he says hes feeling sick and not something else.

take a deep breath and imagine you are one of us looking at your problem, thats right

Black Swan

Don't go mental on him. Chill out, kick back, enjoy, and get to know each other better over time.

Femelade

i would be very like you in that sense, if my boyfriend is ever quiet, i immediately think he's going to finsh it. but people are just like that, if he says he is sick just take his word for it. He wouldnt be taking you away this weekend if he didnt want to be with you, that would just be stoopid! Enjoy your weekend, and try not to worry yourself into a tissy, as i have often done!!

killeoin

I was in a similar situation myself. My gf was always complaining sick and I felt it was the case she just didn't want sex. It was all I could think about for a year. I wouldn't worry though, just let things slide!