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To ask or to bide my time

  • 17-07-2007 4:05pm
    #1
    melekalikimaka
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 10,686 Mod ✭✭✭✭


    myself and a friend were having a discussion and it threw me off slightly, had never crossed my mind.

    the situation is. in a club, drunk to the point where memories are vague, met a girl, danced, kissed, she gave me her number, took mine, now we are texting casually, i said in passing to my friend " i think i'll just ask her out on a date", my friend says "what after meeting her once, thats weird". he believes in the whole ' meet up with her in a club sorta thing, less personal sorta malarky' my question, is it weird? what are peoples views as it got me thinking a bit, as thats how i normally operate with this sorta thing, now i'm doubting it.


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  • #2
    super_furry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,349 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Is your mate 12? You like her, ask her out. Simple.


  • #3
    spinandscribble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    a date can be as formal or as informal as you like. guys are like this alot. they think one date means they're pegged in for the long haul. silly. just ring her and ask her would she like to go out some time.


  • #4
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    don't doubt yourself. nothing wrong with meeting up with someone for a casual coffee etc. your mate is the one with the issue.


  • #5
    misswex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭misswex


    Nothing wrong with the way you are thinking. Think its perfectly normaly, ur friend seems to have a very juvenile view of things.

    Go and ask the girl out and never mind your mate.

    Best of luck!


  • #6
    louisecm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 289 ✭✭louisecm


    Your mate needs to grow up. Ask her out.


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  • #7
    mloc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,567 ✭✭✭mloc


    I am that mate.

    My point was by "asking her out" I didn't mean on a date, which would be fine, as much as "ask her out" in the committed relationship sense, which to be honest would be mad after meeting her once and a) not remembering what she looks like b) remember very little of the conversation had with her.

    but meeting up with her again as in on a date or whatever, yeah, of course. how else would you proceed with it!?


  • #8
    Fwaggle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 184 ✭✭Fwaggle


    super_furry wrote:
    Is your mate 12? You like her, ask her out. Simple.

    Yup...that's about it.


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