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  • 22-08-2007 5:16pm
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    little nell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 28 ✭


    should i try to find a brother who was adopted


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    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    If it bothers you a lot, perhaps yes. But discuss the ramifications with your family first. Make sure they know what you are doing and are happy for you to go ahead, it doesnt just concern you. I would also talk to people involved in the adoption process about what may or may not happen if you do start a search, so you know before you begin what it will entail, how long it will take, and what to be prepared for, such as your brother not wanting contact with you. Its a huge step to take, youll need to be well informed.


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    monkeyfudge
    Registered Users Posts: 23,216 ✭✭✭✭monkeyfudge


    boards.ie has also an adoption forum.

    http://boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=879

    You may find some good advice and information there.


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    MaryMagdalene
    Registered Users Posts: 121 ✭✭MaryMagdalene


    I agree discuss with your family but if you know about him then I assume that it is spoken about within the family.

    www.adoptionireland.com - have a register you can post to or check if he has posted on.

    Good luck and let us know how you get on.


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