Nice boys

patrickc

pretty-in-pink wrote:

is a bit all you have pat?

u can have a bit or it all??

pretty-in-pink

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

Haha it's funny how all the aul ones come out at this thread getting so bitter.

How does it feel to be jealous of a 16 year old?! Because she's not on the internet 24/7?

I started this as a humorous thread and everyone starts hating me. This is hilarious. It's amazing how people think they know me because I'm 16.

oi, cheeky. u callin me old? we all remember 16, and its frustrations, but also can look back and see that actually it was far sweeter then we thought (well some/most of us)

Aisling(",)

Dudess wrote:

Yeah, relationships are so serious at 16. :rolleyes:

Christ, these "worldly" girls were born in 1991.

I have never ever claimed to be worldly nor anything of the sort!!!


im just in a bad mood and the op's thread sparked off my pissed offness

pretty-in-pink

patrickc2006 wrote:

u can have a bit or it all??

i dont think you could handle me......

and we're going way off topic

a mod will give out, and not in a good way

JC 2K3

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

If I wrote the exact same thing except said that I was 26 you'd be sucking up to me trying to get a date.

No, we'd be thinking, "why the hell is a 26 year old so immature?".

Killaqueen!!!

pretty-in-pink wrote:

oi, cheeky. u callin me old? we all remember 16, and its frustrations, but also can look back and see that actually it was far sweeter then we thought (well some/most of us)

Depends, are you calling yourself bitter?

Dudess

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

aul ones

Yes, I admit I'm an auld one - turning 75 soon. :rolleyes:

How does it feel to be jealous of a 16 year old?!

Sweetheart, if there's one age I'm definitely NOT jealous of, it's 16.

Because she's not on the internet 24/7?

Like you aren't, with all that Bebo sh*ite. Anyway, I stayed in tonight because I've work in the morning, but I had a great night out last night and the night before. Oh how I wish I could be 16 and not able to get into pubs!

I started this as a humorous thread and everyone starts hating me.

You still spouted a lot of sh*it though.

It's amazing how people think they know me because I'm 16.

We just know that you're going on as if you're an expert on guys and you're a seasoned veteran of men/relationships when actually, your life has barely started.

Killaqueen!!!

JC 2K3 wrote:

No, we'd be thinking, "why the hell is a 26 year old so immature?".

When you say 'we' I presume you mean everybody over 16 cos this is a whole 'us against them' thing now :rolleyes:

Well, ok then. So if that's how it is, then grand. But can you honestly say that I am less mature than the people who replied in this thread slagging me off? Or less immature than the countless people who seem to be constantly on AH (for what reason I will never know...I thought this was the 'fun' forum...!) making stupid threads like this.

pretty-in-pink

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

Depends, are you calling yourself bitter?

ah no, im not bitter. at least not about gettin older. i really like the being in pubs thing. even if there are people taller then me, who were born in the nineties hanging around while im on the way there. makes me feel so small

Killaqueen!!!

Dudess wrote:

Yes, I admit I'm an auld one - turning 75 soon. :rolleyes:


Sweetheart, if there's one age I'm definitely NOT jealous of, it's 16.

You still spouted a lot of sh*it though.

Then why all the hatred man? Relax and take it easy. There's worse things you could be getting your knickers in a twist than somebody complaining on a thread in AH cos they've had a sh1t day.

We just know that you're going on as if you're an expert on guys and youre a seasoned veteran of men when actually, your life has barely started.

Dude thats the one thing I'm not doing. When did I say I was an expert on men? I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. Why do you jump to conclusions?

Timans

I'm 16 and I don't drink, sometimes I have to check that my Penis is still there. I don't exactly "go out" either as I don't particularily like sitting in park's at 11pm watching others puking. OR, the other alternative, sneaking into a pub with fake ID's and conversing with 60 year old men.

I find it amusing that both 16 year old "bad boy lovazz" have punctuation marks in their names. Coincidence?

Oh gosh, bed time for me, I'm one of the gay ones.

Killaqueen!!!

pretty-in-pink wrote:

ah no, im not bitter. at least not about gettin older. i really like the being in pubs thing. even if there are people taller then me, who were born in the nineties hanging around while im on the way there. makes me feel so small

Damn tall 90s kids! At least you admit that 16 year olds go to pubs too :rolleyes: You just have to know where to go

Nehpets

estebancambias wrote:

The OP is a dip****.

Finally, someone said it!

To be honest, if there were more people like the people described in the orignial post and less idiots and scumbags this place would be a lot better!

pretty-in-pink

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

. I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. /QUOTE]

thats not sad sweetie, thats rare and cool, and sure how many people had a boyf at 16? there were boys i kissed, and a few i dated for a few months here and there, but mostly i was single cause i just wasn't to bothered. the boys i liked went to pubs, the boys my age annoyed me. but i had fun at parties and with my mates.

just enjoy it.

patrickc

it's mad i love 90s music , but when im in work we only deal with over 18's it's like he was born in 89 , seems mad

Nehpets

pretty-in-pink wrote:

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

. I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. /QUOTE]

thats not sad sweetie, thats rare and cool

Yeah real cool..

(Not saying it's uncool but that's a bit patronising)

Aisling(",)

Timans wrote:

I'm 16 and I don't drink, sometimes I have to check that my Penis is still there. I don't exactly "go out" either as I don't particularily like sitting in park's at 11pm watching others puking. OR, the other alternative, sneaking into a pub with fake ID's and conversing with 60 year old men.

I find it amusing that both 16 year old "bad boy lovazz" have punctuation marks in their names. Coincidence?

Oh gosh, bed time for me, I'm one of the gay ones.

i often just add punctuation marks to name son stuff like this as its less likely to have been taken before!

also...insinuating that the use of excamation marks etc may actually reveal something about a person i think is very judgemental.just like judging someone on where they're from or on their hair colour!

also im not saying i ony ever want "bad boys" just that all the nice lads ive know have recently become more hassle when theyre worth and all the typical bad boys havent gotten me into anything dodgy/dangerous or disturbing in the last while!

patrickc

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. Why do you jump to conclusions?

i was never interested in girls at that age just wanted to drink hang out with the lads, at 17 was a diffeent story though

pretty-in-pink

Nehpets wrote:

pretty-in-pink wrote:

Yeah real cool..

(Not saying it's uncool but that's a bit patronising)

didn't mean it that way. i just don't think its anything the girl should get all caught up over. not like it matters (although it probably does to her)

thats the one thing i don't miss about being a teeneger- the constant fear of not being cool or being weird etc

Dudess

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

Dude thats the one thing I'm not doing. When did I say I was an expert on men? I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. Why do you jump to conclusions?

Ah I'm sorry. I do have a tendency to fly off the handle, but I'm nice - I swear!
You did say something in your opening post about your fair share of assholes, that's what came across as you acting like you were a veteran of guys.

DON'T think of yourself as being a saddo because you've never had a boyfriend. Believe me. It seems like you should have one at 16 because lots of your friends do and stuff. Honestly, these are not proper relationships. Ask me to find a friend of mine whose relationship at 16 developed into something serious and long-term and I will find you... nobody. One friend was in a relationship between the ages of 17 and 21 and everyone thought it was remarkable. Yet by 21, she was once more single, but met someone again. What's the rush? You've YEARS for boyfriends! And as for settling down, well you may want to put that off as long as possible - til you're around twice your age. That's the age people are settling down nowadays.
I was 18 when I met my first proper boyfriend. It was in college. Never went out with anyone when I was in school - a few snogs, that was it. And yeah, I remember thinking at 16, "****! I should have a boyfriend by now!" No I shouldn't have. Relax. I know it's easy for me to say that, whereas you're the one who's 16, but I PROMISE you, you've nothing to worry about.

As for being sick of nice guys: I know what you mean. Sometimes you just want a really hot, sexy guy to dazzle you. Of course you'll meet one. But, as I said, don't expect him to treat you well. If you just want a fling though, go for it. But if it's sexual, do wait until you're 17, the legal age. 16 may seem the norm to be having sex, but it's too early - I don't care what anyone says. 16 is awfully young to be having sex. You're not even an adult - only a few years out of childhood. And sex is an adult activity.
17 is awfully young for sex too, but if it's the legal age it's the legal age. I also find the idea of people who are still in school having sex - male or female - quite disturbing. I was 18 when I became sexually active, just with some random dude at a party around graduation time. Purely because I felt left behind as all my friends lost their virginity at 16 or 17. I felt under so much pressure. Really wish I'd waited another six months or so when I met my boyfriend.

But anyway, before you know it you'll be finished school and a whole new world of people will be opened up to you. Yes, it's frustrating waiting for that day, but don't wish your life away. Have fun - you're too young to be worrying.

And finally, sorry for being so mean earlier. You seem all right. And you also seem like a very bright kid... sorry, young woman! What do you think you'd like to do when you leave school?

Killaqueen!!!

pretty-in-pink wrote:

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

. I've never even had a fuckin boyfriend thats how sad I am. /QUOTE]

thats not sad sweetie, thats rare and cool, and sure how many people had a boyf at 16? there were boys i kissed, and a few i dated for a few months here and there, but mostly i was single cause i just wasn't to bothered. the boys i liked went to pubs, the boys my age annoyed me. but i had fun at parties and with my mates.

just enjoy it.

Well actually most of my mates have had/have currently one serious* boyfriend, maybe a couple of others that didn't last and then the usual one-night things like in wezz where they eat your face and haven't a clue how to kiss :eek: So actually most people have had boyfriends. I don't really care I was just making a point to yer man who was talking bullsh1t about me.

*=serious boyfriend for 16 year olds, not like proper long term!!

Nehpets wrote:

pretty-in-pink wrote:

Yeah real cool..

(Not saying it's uncool but that's a bit patronising)

Ah this whole thread has been patronising, I'm not too bothered to be honest with yeh.

---

Oh, and where the hell did punctuation come into it? Does punctuation now = immaturity or something? Cos with my name it was just a matter of, it was already taken so add as many exclamation marks as it took til it was free!

Timans

Aisling(",) wrote:

i often just add punctuation marks to name son stuff like this as its less likely to have been taken before!

also...insinuating that the use of excamation marks etc may actually reveal something about a person i think is very judgemental.just like judging someone on where they're from or on their hair colour!

also im not saying i ony ever want "bad boys" just that all the nice lads ive know have recently become more hassle when theyre worth and all the typical bad boys havent gotten me into anything dodgy/dangerous or disturbing in the last while!

Ah, I was only joking.

It just annoys me when people talk negatively about people who sound like nice people and positively about the people who are nasty/negative/horrible towards others.

Timans

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

pretty-in-pink wrote:

Well actually most of my mates have had/have currently one serious* boyfriend, maybe a couple of others that didn't last and then the usual one-night things like in wezz where they eat your face and haven't a clue how to kiss :eek: So actually most people have had boyfriends. I don't really care I was just making a point to yer man who was talking bullsh1t about me.

*=serious boyfriend for 16 year olds, not like proper long term!!

Nehpets wrote:

Ah this whole thread has been patronising, I'm not too bothered to be honest with yeh.

---

Oh, and where the hell did punctuation come into it? Does punctuation now = immaturity or something? Cos with my name it was just a matter of, it was already taken so add as many exclamation marks as it took til it was free!

As said before, just joking.

And also, I've never had a girlfriend as such either so I wouldn't say it's sad at all. A lot of people I know haven't had girlfriends or boyfriends at 16. It's pretty young. Different people do different things at different ages, I wouldn't be hard on yourself about it.

Killaqueen!!!

Dudess wrote:

Ah I'm sorry. I do have a tendency to fly off the handle, but I'm nice - I swear!
You did say something in your opening post about your fair share of assholes, that's what came across as you acting like you were a veteran of guys.

DON'T think of yourself as being a saddo because you've never had a boyfriend. Believe me. It seems like you should have one at 16 because lots of your friends do and stuff. Honestly, these are not proper relationships. Ask me to find a friend of mine whose relationship at 16 developed into something serious and long-term and I will find you... nobody. One friend was in a relationship between the ages of 17 and 21 and everyone thought it was remarkable. Yet by 21, she was once more single, but met someone again. What's the rush? You've YEARS for boyfriends! And as for settling down, well you may want to put that off as long as possible - til you're around twice your age. That's the age people are settling down nowadays.
I was 18 when I met my first proper boyfriend. It was in college. Never went out with anyone when I was in school - a few snogs, that was it. And yeah, I remember thinking at 16, "****! I should have a boyfriend by now!" No I shouldn't have. Relax. I know it's easy for me to say that, whereas you're the one who's 16, but I PROMISE you, you've nothing to worry about.

As for being sick of nice guys: I know what you mean. Sometimes you just want a really hot, sexy guy to dazzle you. Of course you'll meet one. But, as I said, don't expect him to treat you well. If you just want a fling though, go for it. Before you know it you'll be finished school and a whole new world of people will be opened up to you. Yes, it's frustrating waiting for that day, but don't wish your life away. Have fun - you're too young to be worrying.

And finally, sorry for being so mean earlier. You seem all right. And you also seem like a very bright kid... sorry, young woman!

That's alright, it's cool. And sorry for the rebound about being and internet addict. It's just my answer for anyone who gives me sh1t on the internet. Just slag em about being online all the time, whether it's true or not - that'll do the job...:D

But jaysus...as soon as I said that sentence about not even having had a boyfriend yet, everyone gets nice to me...makes it seem like I should have one even more. "Ah, the poor lass. Doesn't even have a boyfriend yet. I should cut her some slack"

Timans

I'm not being nice because of that, I'm being nice because you seem alright. Not craving a drunken scumbag to sweep you off your feet as your first post suggests.

Aisling(",)

Timans wrote:

Ah, I was only joking.

It just annoys me when people talk negatively about people who sound like nice people and positively about the people who are nasty/negative/horrible towards others.

i know but considering one of the nicest lads ive known and all my friends are singing his praises now because oh him theres a high chnace ill be gatting my head kicked in any day now...so i hope you can understand my bitter old hagness towards nice boys at the moment...bleh....im off to rant somemore elsewhere!

Timans

Well, if he's the cause of that happening, he does NOT sound like such a nice guy anymore. :eek:

A Nice guy wouldn't do that. Getting your head kicked in!? :eek:

You're a 16 year old girl and because of a GUY, you could get your head kicked in? That's a disgrace. Dog the dick in if you ask me, tell everyone. That'll teach him.

Dudess

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

And sorry for the rebound about being and internet addict. It's just my answer for anyone who gives me sh1t on the internet. Just slag em about being online all the time, whether it's true or not - that'll do the job...:D

Ah yeah, I'm certainly guilty of that approach myself!

But jaysus...as soon as I said that sentence about not even having had a boyfriend yet, everyone gets nice to me...makes it seem like I should have one even more. "Ah, the poor lass. Doesn't even have a boyfriend yet. I should cut her some slack"

Absolutely not. You've misunderstood us. We're not pitying you. There's nothing worse than people feeling sorry for you because you're not paired up with someone. My age group is at the next stage - I see friends getting sh*it about their biological clock, "you'll be left on the shelf" etc. I'm in a relationship but if I was single and anyone laid that sh*it on me, they'd get some dig! People are just telling you not to think of yourself as a saddo because you haven't got a boyfriend - they're most definitely not feeling sorry for you because you're single. You're 16 for fu(k's sake - you should be single!
My previous post has been edited to include sex advice.:)

K-9

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

Arrrgh I'm so sick of nice boys!!! I mean what the hell, why is there so many of them?

Ahh! Because if you ask girls what they want they'll say sensitive, somebody who I can talk to, caring etc. etc.

When really as you say yourself, you's want bad boys!

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

They're gentlemen, which is all well and good but they just don't know how to have fun. Does anyone get what I'm saying?

There are fellas, like me:D, out there. The key is to know when to be bad and kind of good. Not easy!

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

I feel bad for saying that because they're all dead sound but I actually think I would prefer a bit of a fling from a knacker asshole than these guys who think they're in love with the first girl they meet/score/snog/kiss/whatever they call it now.

Some fellas take the nice guy part too far. Yes you can be nice sometimes but your still a guy.

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

I mean cmon girls, seriously. You know you would prefer a bad boy to a prissy guy? Or am I just being a bitch...:p

As long as you don't lead on the prissy guy, no your not.

Dudess

Timans wrote:

I don't particularily like sitting in park's at 11pm watching others puking

Ah, memories! Yeah it is pretty rotten all right.

Timans

Actually, scratch that.

I don't particularly like sitting in parks at 3pm and watching others puke.

pretty-in-pink

agree, a nice guy wouldn't let you get in trouble or anything like getting your head kicked in.

ah im being nice to ya cause you seem nice. if you were mean i wouldn't be nice to ya. regardless of haveing a boyf or not.

god don't rush into them, single can be so much fun (although there are the lonely nights when you want a cuddle(and yes i mean cuddle))

you can do what you like, see who you etc when you're single

Aisling(",)

Timans wrote:

Well, if he's the cause of that happening, he does NOT sound like such a nice guy anymore. :eek:

A Nice guy wouldn't do that. Getting your head kicked in!? :eek:

You're a 16 year old girl and because of a GUY, you could get your head kicked in? That's a disgrace. Dog the dick in if you ask me, tell everyone. That'll teach him.

its not him directly doing it just the circumstances he brought about and that his "white lies" had more results then he anticipated...im taking a break from lads for a while...wonder how long thatll last but ah well im pissed off im allowed rant on..

Mossy Monk

Some day op you can get the bad boy that will beat the **** out of you. As long as he can drink etc. etc.

K-9

Dudess wrote:

16 may seem the norm to be having sex, but it's too early - I don't care what anyone says. 16 is awfully young to be having sex. You're not even an adult - only a few years out of childhood. And sex is an adult activity.
17 is awfully young for sex too, but if it's the legal age it's the legal age. I also find the idea of people who are still in school having sex - male or female - quite disturbing. I was 18 when I became sexually active, just with some random dude at a party around graduation time. Purely because I felt left behind as all my friends lost their virginity at 16 or 17. I felt under so much pressure. Really wish I'd waited another six months or so when I met my boyfriend.

But anyway, before you know it you'll be finished school and a whole new world of people will be opened up to you. Yes, it's frustrating waiting for that day, but don't wish your life away. Have fun - you're too young to be worrying.

Excellent post. OP try and take this into consideration. There's many many more years for that sort of thing!

Then again your 16, you know it all and you won't be told what to think (obvious from the thread:rolleyes:) and your right.
Don't worry most of us where like that at 16.

Still take the above post into consideration. You may well be here in 10 years time giving the same advice.

Dudess

Killaqueen!!! wrote:

they eat your face and haven't a clue how to kiss :eek:

Ah, more unpleasant memories. Oh the grossness! It was like sticking your mouth into a washing machine on full power!
Don't ya worry, they learn how to kiss after a while. Ooh yeah!

By the way, Killaqueen!!!, I'm a girl.

pretty-in-pink

oh god, and the whole drooling down your face and rubbing againnst your leg.

actually very like my dog- she jumps all over me and slobbers all over me till shes happy that shes said hello. not so charming in boys though....

You could change a lot in a year OP, i went from single at 16, to in a rel at 17 and i kissed my best mate. our repective fellas dared us, and under the influence of vodka and knowing theyd like it cause we were still in uniform....

estebancambias

I think I hate the people the OP is friends with as well, I think I know their sort. The dickheads who are actually not 'sound' at all and have no humour A guy came into the shop tonight, and it was obvious he was under 18, but look it's his choice to want to smoke or drink. He had no attitude going on, and seemed like a good guy so I gave the drink to him. Now I would never do this to a scumbag or to the op or indeed her friends. Drinking sucks. I like my anti-mainstream ways. OP get involved in the hardcore scene.

Dudess

pretty-in-pink wrote:

i kissed my best mate. our repective fellas dared us, and under the influence of vodka and knowing theyd like it cause we were still in uniform....

:eek: A major contender for "down with this sort of thing!!!"

Bad pretty-in-pink!
(well at least they were two guys your age - not two dirty old men)

KilbarrackBlows

i cant stand 16 year old girls
they standa round gawking at me
they use to come to where i worked part time
and follow me around the shop ough so anoying.

And op 16-17 year old lads are usualy more into football/computer games than girls well all the ones i knew were.

pretty-in-pink

Dudess wrote:

:eek: A major contender for "down with this sort of thing!!!"

Bad pretty-in-pink!
(well at least they were two guys your age - not two dirty old men)

well they were 20 and 21, close enough to our age. kinda.

*i know, i was so bold!

Aisling(",)

KilbarrackBlows wrote:

i cant stand 16 year old girls
they standa round gawking at me
they use to come to where i worked part time
and follow me around the shop ough so anoying.

And op 16-17 year old lads are usualy more into football/computer games than girls well all the ones i knew were.

ah come on now...most 16 year old girls dont stalk people...i think have just a rather strange group of them!


unless your like stunningly gorgeous in which case i can understand the gawking but not the stalking!

Dudess

KilbarrackBlows wrote:

they standa round gawking at me
they use to come to where i worked part time
and follow me around the shop ough so anoying.

They obviously fancied you! Boo hoo, that must have been so tough!;)

Timans

pretty-in-pink wrote:

well they were 20 and 21, close enough to our age. kinda.

*i know, i was so bold!

:eek:

patrickc

Aisling(",) wrote:

ah come on now...most 16 year old girls dont stalk people...i think have just a rather strange group of them!


unless your like stunningly gorgeous in which case i can understand the gawking but not the stalking!

well 16 year olds are too young, but theres 1 on my street ive seen doing things to lads on the green and she keeps suggesting things to me, it's like go away your jail bait

Nehpets

Timans, you bastard*, you had a quote with my name on it but I didn't say that!

*joking

estebancambias

I was informed by some 12 year old hood rat that I was ugly. Now while I'm hardly an image of even close to perfection, she looked liked an inbred rabbit.

Aisling(",)

patrickc2006 wrote:

well 16 year olds are too young, but theres 1 on my street ive seen doing things to lads on the green and she keeps suggesting things to me, it's like go away your jail bait

not to sound like a bitch but...she sound like a bit of a slut!

fiar enough im the same age but like flirt and if the reactions bolox then just be friendly!

just ignore her and shell get the message fairly quick id say...in general teenagers dont like being ignored

estebancambias

I have a hunch that Patrick made that up, and really it's one of his sexual fantasys.

patrickc

Aisling(",) wrote:

not to sound like a bitch but...she sound like a bit of a slut!

fiar enough im the same age but like flirt and if the reactions bolox then just be friendly!

just ignore her and shell get the message fairly quick id say...in general teenagers dont like being ignored

i have ignored her, if i were younger id be all for it.. shes good lookin.. but at 25 i say NO