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Want to convert but...
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Wa'Salam irishconvert,
I know exactly what you're going through. I'm a convert myself. I'm a British convert muslim, living in Ireland. (do you think I'm popular ). Just joking. But seriously, I do know how you feel. I also stopped drinking, slowly. I converted maybe 2 or 3 years ago, and stopped drinking completely only about 6 months ago. Now, I'm not saying that it's a good idea to follow in my footsteps, but this is was what I did: Basically, my wife and I concentrated on spending a lot of time together, "quality time" I suppose, going out for a meal, whatever really. Just things that don't involve drinking. With time you just don't miss it. It's not "the done thing" anymore. It's also about the company you keep I suppose. I have a lot more muslim friends now. So stands to reason, take yourself out of the situation where there's drink - and you won't drink. That said, I've by no means lost contact with, or stopped seeing my non-muslim friends. My best mate in England who I went to school with is still my best mate. We still meet up when we can, and it's all good. He'll have a pint, I'll have a coke, and that is now the norm and I don't notice the difference. Now I wouldn't think of drinking. It's just not part of my routine any more. I'm not a scholar (by any means), and I can't give you any better advice than the excellent other posters on this thread have given. I just want to share with you what I did. God knows what is in your heart, remember that.
Thanks for that reply Benifa, only saw it now, sorry for the late reply. Just wondering why you decided to convert and how did your family & friends take it. Is your wife Muslim? Feel free to PM me if you don't want to answer on the forum. And if you don't want to answer at all no worries :-)0 -
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irishconvert wrote: »Thanks for that reply Benifa, only saw it now, sorry for the late reply. Just wondering why you decided to convert and how did your family & friends take it. Is your wife Muslim? Feel free to PM me if you don't want to answer on the forum. And if you don't want to answer at all no worries :-)
No bother at all irishconvert..
I would not have converted / reverted had it not been for my wife being a Muslim, put it that way. I converted in Singapore at the Darul Arqam, Singapore. It's very regulated (quite typical of Singapore ) - I had to go on a 12 week course to learn, question and understand the basics of Islam, before being allowed to say the Shahadah officially and receive my conversion certificate. And question I did. In fact, I must have given the lecturers some grilling, looking back . Still, there is no compulsion in religion and God wants us to question things, so as to understand fully.
As for my parents back home in England, my Dad, at least, is quite religious. He's a Catholic. Yes, an English Catholic . Catholicism being so similar to Islam (probably, in fact, the religion most similar to Islam), I simply explained, briefly but clearly, the similarities between the religions of Christianity and Islam. How both religions consider Jesus to be God's messenger and spirit, his birth being miraculous and his mother the virgin Mary. The prohibition of pork and the reasons why. We amazed each other really, going through it all. Oh, and the movie The Message was also very useful. I especially love the part when the Christian King of Abyssinia welcomes the Prophet and his companions, saving them from persecution by the Meccans. There is an emotional moment where both the Christians and Muslims are overcome, and the King says, "what Jesus Christ says, and what your Mohamed says, is like two rays from the same lamp", and later, "the difference between us and you, is no thicker than this line" [draw line in sand with stick].
My folks are absolutely fine with my choices, and I think are perhaps secretly happy. My Dad used to drink too much, as did my Grandfather and my Great-Grandfather. So, needless to say that little "hereditary" trait has been nipped in the bud! Also, I'm a much calmer person than I used to be, insya-Allah. In a nut shell, I think they appreciate that my conversion and acceptance of Islam is a blessing for me, which is true of course. Hey, you never know, they might even decide they want to convert themselves some day!
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What do your friends of you converting?
Do they support you?
Im just trying to see it from my perspective if as a born and bred Irishman of catholic extraction were to become a muslim how friends would react. I know its not one of those decisions you think about- that is wheather your friends care or not, but im just somewhat interested.0 -
What do your friends of you converting?
Do they support you?
Im just trying to see it from my perspective if as a born and bred Irishman of catholic extraction were to become a muslim how friends would react. I know its not one of those decisions you think about- that is wheather your friends care or not, but im just somewhat interested.
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irishconvert wrote: »I haven't told them yet.
irishconvert,
If its not too much of a personal question can I ask what was the main reason for wanting to convert. I know there may be many, but if you had to list your top three.
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irishconvert wrote:Sorry for the lack of updates, have been real busy with work.
Well I have almost stopped drinking and went to the Mosque (for the first time) and prayed on Eid :-). Will probably take the Shahada in the next few weeks.
Jazak Allah khair Medina for the post. May Allah reward you.0 -
As for my parents back home in England, my Dad, at least, is quite religious. He's a Catholic. Yes, an English Catholic . Catholicism being so similar to Islam (probably, in fact, the religion most similar to Islam), I simply explained, briefly but clearly, the similarities between the religions of Christianity and Islam. How both religions consider Jesus to be God's messenger and spirit, his birth being miraculous and his mother the virgin Mary. The prohibition of pork and the reasons why. We amazed each other really, going through it all. Oh, and the movie The Message was also very useful. I especially love the part when the Christian King of Abyssinia welcomes the Prophet and his companions, saving them from persecution by the Meccans. There is an emotional moment where both the Christians and Muslims are overcome, and the King says, "what Jesus Christ says, and what your Mohamed says, is like two rays from the same lamp", and later, "the difference between us and you, is no thicker than this line" [draw line in sand with stick].
Interesting thought here: my partner is Muslim,and even though my family are Catholic,they are absolutely non-practicing and generally smirk at any "Bible Bashers" or anyone remotely religious.I think this is partly due to the fact that they had religion rammed down their throats in the 50's.
But someone actually said to me,which made a lot of sense,that had they been practicing/believing Catholics,then they would have a lot more of an understanding should I choose to convert to Islam! Hows that for madness?! Your post there just reminded me of it!0 -
Hi Normar
(Also just on a note: The words in my post and your post are not the words of Allah, they are the translation of the words of Allah)
What I take from what you say above is that it is pointless for any person who is not fluent in Arabic to discuss the Qu'ran. We are only using translated words and not the " words of Allah" And because of this we can never hope to understand the real " words of Allah "
I don't accept this at all. This is just another way of muddying the waters against anyone who would argue against the "revealed " religion of Islam. You are effectively saying to fully understand the Qu'ran we must learn Arabic.
On the issue of alcohol...037.045
YUSUFALI: Round will be passed to them a Cup from a clear-flowing fountain,
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YUSUFALI: Crystal-white, of a taste delicious to those who drink (thereof),
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YUSUFALI: Free from headiness; nor will they suffer intoxication therefrom
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YUSUFALI: Round about them will (serve) youths of perpetual (freshness),
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YUSUFALI: With goblets, (shining) beakers, and cups (filled) out of clear-flowing fountains:
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YUSUFALI: No after-ache will they receive therefrom, nor will they suffer intoxication:
I do not know what this " clear-flowing fountain " liquid is. Maybe it's water - maybe not.
But by name the Qu'ran and Allah does mention Wine.
Muhammad (47) 15
(Here is) a Parable of the Garden which the righteous are promised: in it are rivers of water incorruptible; rivers of milk of which the taste never changes; rivers of wine, a joy to those who drink;……
There is no equivocation. This is wine he is talking about. It is available in " the Garden ". There are " rivers of Wine " and " it is a joy to those who drink ".
But on earth it is the " work of Satan ".
So like all "revealed " religions it contains contradictions heaped upon contradictions, and you can pick out of it what you want and what you dont want.
The very notion that any Omnipotent and Omniscient deity would set out to provide guidance to all mankind but only in one language, which by your logic quoted above then prevents anyone who can't speak the language form perceving his ture message is so absurd and to be an attack on my critical faculties.
As to the beating of women.....The key to the problem is the mistranslation of the two key words nushuz and adriboo. Some of the possible meanings for both the words, according to the lexicon,3 are given below. Again, the appropriate meaning will depend on the context of the verse.
Please allow me to quote the Qu'ran as translated into english and published with the agreement of the Islamic world and which is available in any bookstore in Ireland.
AN-NISA (WOMEN)
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Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).
Again there is no equivocation. You can beat your women
You must accept that this represents the Qu'ran in english. Otherwise it becomes a totally pointless exercise in samantics.. There are no other translations of this verse. It's context is clear You may beat your women. And in brackets is the word "lightly".
But what about Irishconvert on these issues. What does he/she think? After all he/she is thinking of embracing it.
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What I take from what you say above is that it is pointless for any person who is not fluent in Arabic to discuss the Qu'ran. We are only using translated words and not the " words of Allah" And because of this we can never hope to understand the real " words of Allah "
I don't accept this at all. This is just another way of muddying the waters against anyone who would argue against the "revealed " religion of Islam. You are effectively saying to fully understand the Qu'ran we must learn Arabic.
I wouldn't take that reading from what was said at all.
If you look at different translations you will see differences between them. Whether it be the Qu'ran or a novel by Dickens, the process of translation from one language to another will always involve a certain differential depending on who has done the translation - therefore rendering the arguments and understanding of some people to be skewed by the 'errors' that occur in a translated text.
I think the main caution for anyone is to remember that Islam only accepts one version of the Qu'ran as authorative, and that is the version in Arabic.Please allow me to quote the Qu'ran as translated into english and published with the agreement of the Islamic world and which is available in any bookstore in Ireland.
The entire 'Islamic world' has agreeed upon one translation and one interpretation?0 -
I find this thread seems to end a little in the air, with a yawning gap in the middle that people are not rushing to fill. I think its possible to advance a little further to the point.
Indeed, only the Arabic version of the Quran is authoritative and there is no ‘official’ English translation. However, the three translations available on islamonline.net (an accepted source of reasonable Islamic material) all substantially agree on this point.
Surah (An-Nisaa’ (Women))Ayah Number 34
Yusuf Ali's Translation ….., (And last) beat them (lightly); ….
Pickthal's Translation ….. and scourge them…..
Shakir's Translation …… and beat them…...
Also, illustrating that this is the generally accepted understanding, there’s plenty of scholarly advice out there explaining that this is not giving husbands carte blanche to hit their wives as the mood takes them. But they don’t really dispute that this passage means exactly what it says on the tin. This scholarly advice goes into enough detail to tell us that early commentators said beating should only be done with a miswak, suggesting early commentators were pretty clear that beating was on the agenda.
Those advices usually go on to explain that a miswak is a ‘tooth stick’, I guess in the hope of conjuring up an image of someone hitting you with a toothbrush. However, a miswak would be more on the scale of a cane – as might be used by teachers in schools up to recent times. There’s a picture of someone selling miswak here, to give people an idea of what those scholars seemed to have in mind.
Hence, this depiction of the term being hard to translate is less than convincing. Its more a case that as society has moved on the need to find some way of fudging the meaning has become more acute – hence this suggestion that the traditional understanding can now be overturned. If the text can be so vastly misunderstood by generations of Islamic scholars, one might wonder at the point of regarding the Quran as perfect if its meaning is so elusive.
(I’d also frankly wonder at reading a modern meaning into the word ‘separate’ – but tbh I don’t think we even have to go there as the traditional sense of the verse seems clear).
What seems reasonably clear is that the Quran is extremely advanced for its time. According to the Quran, Meccans were in the habit of leaving their unwanted baby daughters to die. Telling them that they could only hit their wives for a substantial reason after clear warnings was, I don’t doubt, a massive advance in its day. But the only thing that seems to require us to pretend the Quran says something different is because this statement is now just plain embarrassing.
We might well pose a supplementary question of ‘Why bother trying to pretend scriptures said that all along, when we can see they didn’t?’. The only working answer is people like religions and want to bring them along for the journey. The question that follows from that – why people want to bring religion along on the journey - is what keeps our post count in the atheism forum steaming along.0 -
That last post was in breach of rule #3 of the forum charter Schuhart. Be careful with that sort of thing in the future.0
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I find this thread seems to end a little in the air, with a yawning gap in the middle that people are not rushing to fill. I think its possible to advance a little further to the point.
Indeed, only the Arabic version of the Quran is authoritative and there is no ‘official’ English translation. However, the three translations available on islamonline.net (an accepted source of reasonable Islamic material) all substantially agree on this point.
Surah (An-Nisaa’ (Women))Ayah Number 34
Yusuf Ali's Translation ….., (And last) beat them (lightly); ….
Pickthal's Translation ….. and scourge them…..
Shakir's Translation …… and beat them…...
Also, illustrating that this is the generally accepted understanding, there’s plenty of scholarly advice out there explaining that this is not giving husbands carte blanche to hit their wives as the mood takes them. But they don’t really dispute that this passage means exactly what it says on the tin. This scholarly advice goes into enough detail to tell us that early commentators said beating should only be done with a miswak, suggesting early commentators were pretty clear that beating was on the agenda.
Those advices usually go on to explain that a miswak is a ‘tooth stick’, I guess in the hope of conjuring up an image of someone hitting you with a toothbrush. However, a miswak would be more on the scale of a cane – as might be used by teachers in schools up to recent times. There’s a picture of someone selling miswak here, to give people an idea of what those scholars seemed to have in mind.
Hence, this depiction of the term being hard to translate is less than convincing. Its more a case that as society has moved on the need to find some way of fudging the meaning has become more acute – hence this suggestion that the traditional understanding can now be overturned. If the text can be so vastly misunderstood by generations of Islamic scholars, one might wonder at the point of regarding the Quran as perfect if its meaning is so elusive.
(I’d also frankly wonder at reading a modern meaning into the word ‘separate’ – but tbh I don’t think we even have to go there as the traditional sense of the verse seems clear).
What seems reasonably clear is that the Quran is extremely advanced for its time. According to the Quran, Meccans were in the habit of leaving their unwanted baby daughters to die. Telling them that they could only hit their wives for a substantial reason after clear warnings was, I don’t doubt, a massive advance in its day. But the only thing that seems to require us to pretend the Quran says something different is because this statement is now just plain embarrassing.
In actual fact Schuhart it is not embarrassing at all.
My earlier post indicated one translation of the verse..that being to separate, and that post also said 'Islam does not condone beating women...and the link to scholarly advice you gave also reiterates the exact same thing.IslamOnline.net wrote:This verse neither permits violence nor condones it.
In fact I want to thank you for posting that link ( i don't know how to insert the link as you did so I'll post it here:
I felt this explains succinctly the position behind the translation of 'beat lightly' and I am not embarrassed in the least. I also think either of the translations is valid as the word has various meanings.0 -
Normar wrote:But by name the Qu'ran and Allah does mention Wine.....
And to address the point of the translation of the word:
Now I have already pointed out that I believe it to be separate and not beat.
But, even if it were to mean beat (and please note that I'm stressing the if here), it is certainly only to be lightly. You should know that the picture of the miswak that Schuhart linked to has the man holding a bag of big sticks which are cut down to be miswaks like the ones he's holding in his left hand. Really no bigger than a toothbrush and not dense at all. You couldn't hurt someone with one of these even if you wanted to.
And finally, as I have already said, I do believe the word's proper translation to be separate and not beat. Incorrect translations have happened in the past. Once again, please allow me to be lazy and quote myself from a previous post.the_new_mr wrote:Let me give you an example of how scholars had it one way for ages before changing their interpretation after new evidence became apparent to them.
In Surat Al-'Alaq, verses 13 to 16, which read as follows according to Yusuf Ali:
Al-'Alaq:13-16
"Seest thou if he denies (Truth) and turns away?; Knoweth he not that Allah doth see?; Let him beware! If he desist not, We will drag him by the forelock,- ; A lying, sinful forelock!"
Now, we can see here the word forelock. This was the word translated from the arabic word nasaya by both Ali and Pickthal.
dictionary.com defines forelock as follows.dictionary.com wrote:A lock of hair that grows from or falls on the forehead, especially the part of a horse's mane that falls forward between the ears.
Now, the correct meaning of the word nasaya is actually forehead (or front of the head) and not forelock. However, it appears that both Ali and Pickthal thought to themselves that since the forehead is attached to the forelock then God meant that they would be dragged by their forelock since that made more sense to them at the time with the information they had available to them at that time (Ali and Pickthal are relatively old translations).
Recent discoveries in science have shown that the part of the brain responsible for controlling whether one's actions will be good or bad, whether they will perform good deeds or bad deeds and whether or not they will tell the truth or lie is the frontal part of the brain (another of the scientific miracles in the Quran). Looking at verse 16 again with this knowledge, we should see:
A lying, sinful forehead!
So, the word nasaya meaning forehead was all along the most accurate meaning. When you think about it, God would have no bother pulling someone by their forehead instead of their forelock since He is, after all, God and is able to do all things.
Both Shakir and Asad use the word forehead instead of forelock. Verses 13-16 according to Shakir:
Al-'Alaq:13-16
"Have you considered if he gives the lie to the truth and turns (his) back?; Does he not know that Allah does see?; Nay! if he desist not, We would certainly smite his forehead,; A lying, sinful forehead."
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the_new_mr wrote: »And finally, as I have already said, I do believe the word's proper translation to be separate and not beat. Incorrect translations have happened in the past. Once again, please allow me to be lazy and quote myself from a previous post.
I find it a bit disturbing that there are so many mistakes over incorrect or "different" translations of the Quran.
Surly the maker of the heavens and the earth could have transmitted his words in a clear way, which was not open to misinterpretation only a few hundred years later ???0 -
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the_new_mr wrote: »That last post was in breach of rule #3 of the forum charter Schuhart. Be careful with that sort of thing in the future.My earlier post indicated one translation of the verse..that being to separate, and that post also said 'Islam does not condone beating women...and the link to scholarly advice you gave also reiterates the exact same thing.Islam actually prohibits men from hitting women, except in one very limited case when the wife is continuously rebellious and disobedient—not when she disobeys one request—and only as a last resort after all else fails.The Arabic verb daraba is better understood as “hit” rather than “beat”.. in marriage, the man is named responsible for protecting, decision-making, and breadwinning; in return he has a right to have a quiet, orderly home and a loving wife to come home to who doesn’t make his life difficult with constant bad temper, nagging, or aggressive attitude.
The woman is named skilled homemaker, loving mother, and faithful counselor; in return she has a right to be provided for fully by a caring, faithful, protective husband who honors her and respects her individuality. Both should be equally supportive, loving, and caring. Both merit respect and support from their partner.the_new_mr wrote: »You should know that the picture of the miswak that Schuhart linked to has the man holding a bag of big sticks which are cut down to be miswaks like the ones he's holding in his left hand. Really no bigger than a toothbrush and not dense at all. You couldn't hurt someone with one of these even if you wanted to.I find it a bit disturbing that there are so many mistakes over incorrect or "different" translations of the Quran.0 -
DinoBot wrote:Surly the maker of the heavens and the earth could have transmitted his words in a clear way, which was not open to misinterpretation only a few hundred years later ???Schuhart wrote:In fairness, I can appreciate that from your point of view a link to the ‘Eight I Really Rather You Didn’ts’ (or possibly any Flying Spaghetti Monster link) is dismissive of religion in general. But I can presumably make the same essential point – that what we seem to see is religion changing and converging on what secular thought would suggest is correct morality, rather than secular thought converging on religious revelation. While satirical, I think the FSM material actually summarises that commonsense morality very well. But, in search of a more ponderous statement, so does the UN Declaration on Human Rights.
If you don't stick to it then you are in breach of the forum charter and if you are in breach of the forum charter then you leave moderators with no choice but to ban you. You bring interesting points to the conversation Schuhart so please don't put me in that position. I think everyone here can see that I'm fair but I can't be too much softer than I already am. Consider that a warning on your third ban which would, of course, become a permanent one. Don't say I didn't warn you.Schuhart wrote:Least there be any misunderstanding, I’m not saying for a minute there’s anything wrong with someone freely choosing to hold to that conception. All I’m really saying is if someone asks if the Quran permits a husband, ultimately, to hit a disobedient wife as a form of discipline the answer is a fairly plain ‘yes’.
It's important to remember that, as I've already said in this post, humans are imperfect. That's life really. Such a verse would most likely have been misinterpreted in the past when times were so different. There is the possibility that it was interpreted like that back then because that's how it was meant to be interpreted back then. That's just an idea though. And I recently read that the mention of the miswak actually belongs to Imam Shafie and not the Prophet Mohamed (peace be upon him) but I don't have a reference for this now I'm afraid.0 -
the_new_mr wrote: »The Creator of the heavens and the earth is Perfect. Humans are not.
What a strange answer.
Are you saying that because humans are not perfect we are incapable of translating the word of god correctly ? The words that came from him to us.
So is Allah incapable of transmitting his word to us imperfect beings correctly ?
IMO our imperfections should not hinder a creator from communicating with us.
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the_new_mr wrote: »Don't say I didn't warn you.the_new_mr wrote: »Well, you can say that if you want but I think that at this stage we've already shown how the word "adriboo" can also mean separate and how it more readily fits in with other verses in the Quran and how the only justification are from a couple of hadith and how there are other hadith that talk against hitting wives.If the problem relates to the wife's behavior, the husband may exhort her and appeal for reason. In most cases, this measure is likely to be sufficient. In cases where the problem persists, the husband may express his displeasure in another peaceful manner, by sleeping in a separate bed from hers. There are cases, however, in which a wife persists in bad habits and showing contempt of her husband and disregard for her marital obligations. Instead of divorce, the husband may resort to another measure that may save the marriage, at least in some cases. Such a measure is more accurately described as a gentle tap on the body, but never on the face, making it more of a symbolic measure than a punitive one.
This reading of ‘separate’ does not seem to be supported by any of the usual translations, or by qualified scholars. Hence, the balance of the situation is that on the one hand we have the accepted position of reputable scholars. On the other we have a meaning that does not seem to be supported by substantial expertise. In other contexts, we are warned against reading controversial verses in the Quran without necessary scholarly explanations.the_new_mr wrote: »Such a verse would most likely have been misinterpreted in the past when times were so different. .the_new_mr wrote: »I recently read that the mention of the miswak actually belongs to Imam Shafie and not the Prophet Mohamed (peace be upon him) but I don't have a reference for this now I'm afraid.The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) explained it "dharban ghayra mubarrih" which means "a light tap that leaves no mark". He further said that face must be avoided.
Look, at the end of the day it’s defensible as a lifestyle choice if a couple opt for a relationship with these features. Many people freely choose to do things that are far more painful, including the acting out of submissive roles, simply in search of sensation.
I just don't like seeing a gap in the discussion with one side trying to make out that the Quran mandates wife beating and the other trying to make out it says nothing about chastising wives at all, when the facts of the matter seem to be readily available in reasonable articles by reputable scholars.0 -
DinoBot wrote:What a strange answer.
Are you saying that because humans are not perfect we are incapable of translating the word of god correctly ? The words that came from him to us.
So is Allah incapable of transmitting his word to us imperfect beings correctly ?
IMO our imperfections should not hinder a creator from communicating with us.
Unless this is one of the limits of Allah. Is it ?
Having said that, we are not always meant to completely understand everything revealed:
Al-Imran:7
"He it is Who hath revealed unto thee (Muhammad) the Scripture wherein are clear revelations--They are the substance of the Book--and others (which are) allegorical. But those in whose hearts is doubt pursue, forsooth, that which is allegorical seeking (to cause) dissension by seeking to explain it. None knoweth its explanation save Allah. And those who are of sound instruction say: We believe therein; the whole is from our Lord; but only men of understanding really heed."Schuhart wrote:If you’d banned me yesterday I could not credibly say I hadn’t been warned many times, and I do know that I get a considerable amount of slack. If you strictly implemented the charter in relation to my posts I would have been banned long ago. If you ever feel it necessary to do it, you’ll find no complaint from me.
As for your argument about separate. I see your point in that most scholars say that it's a mild chastisement and they could be right. All I'm saying is that it makes more sense to me that it's separate. I know it's a minority opinion but it's still my opinion. Only God knows what's really the truth and we ask for His guidance. And as has been said countless times by now, if it is hit then it's only lightly.Schuhart wrote:I just don't like seeing a gap in the discussion with one side trying to make out that the Quran mandates wife beating and the other trying to make out it says nothing about chastising wives at all, when the facts of the matter seem to be readily available in reasonable articles by reputable scholars.
May God guide us all to the truth.0 -
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the_new_mr wrote: »Medina has already pointed out the difference between worldly wine and wine of the hereafter in her post. Please re-read it. You should try and be open minded about something like this. The main thing that should concern you is that Muslims believe that the wine on earth is different to the wine in the after-life. I don't really see the point in you arguing against this.
I have re read what Medina has posted. And I have also re-read the relevant verse in the Qu'ran. There is no difference in the Qu'ran between "wordly wine" as you call it, and the "Heavenly wine", and to say that there is a difference is to ignore what the Qu'ran is actually saying .
This is what the Qu'ran says about wine. The only wine that humans know about and which is described as we would understand it.
Muhammad (47) 15
(Here is) a Parable of the Garden which the righteous are promised: in it are rivers of water incorruptible; rivers of milk of which the taste never changes; rivers of wine, a joy to those who drink;……
Al-Nahl (16) 67
And from the fruit of the date-palm and the vine, ye get out wholesome drink and food: behold, in this also is a sign for those who are wise.
Again I put it to all this is unequivocal. This is wine as we know it. And to deny this is wine which is being talked about, is to contradict human critical faculty. If wine is good in the "afterlife" then it is contradictory to say it is bad on earth.the_new_mr wrote: »The main thing that should concern you is that Muslims believe that the wine on earth is different to the wine in the "after-life"
There is absolutely no basis for this statement. Just because you believe it does not make it a reality. Just because millions believe still does not make it true. You have not one piece of empirical evidence for such a statement as this above. Beliefs are not facts. They are just that: beliefs.
It is a full contradiction to state that wine in heaven is good and wine on earth is bad. It is a contradiction similar to many utter contradictions in all revealed religions.
It remains for me this: humans beliveing in something they cannot possibly know. Sure they can "believe" but this is not knowing.
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I believe that for the translation of verse 67 of surat Al-Nahl, you selected the translation of Yusuf Ali. Although I like Ali's translations, I feel that Pictall and, even more so, Asad to be more accurate (especially after I read the Arabic text).
Al-Nahl:67 (Asad)
"And [We grant you nourishment] from the fruit of date-palms and vines: from it you derive intoxicants as well as wholesome sustenance -in this, behold, there is a message indeed for people who use their reason!"
Al-Nahl:67 (Pictall)
"And of the fruits of the date palm, and grapes, whence ye derive strong drink and (also) good nourishment. Lo! therein, is indeed a portent for people who have sense."
The footnote for Asad's translation reads as follows:The term sakar (lit., "wine" or, generically, "intoxicants") is contrasted here with rizq hasan ("wholesome sustenance"), thus circumscribing both the positive and the negative properties and effects of alcohol. Although this surah was revealed about ten years before the Qur'anic prohibition of intoxicants in 5:90-91, there is no doubt that their moral condemnation is already implied in the above verse (Ibn `Abbas, as quoted by Tabari; also Razi).(Quran Ref: 16:67 )
So, we can see here that God is in fact contrasting the good with the bad.
As for your suggestion that the wine on earth is the same as that in heaven, I think that if we look more closely at verse 47 of As-Saffat and verse 19 of Al-Waqi'a, we can see that God is describing wine and highlighting the fact that the wine in heaven does not cause intoxication unlike the wine on earth (obviously a comparison with wine on earth).
As-Saffat:48
"Free from headiness; nor will they suffer intoxication therefrom"
Al-Waqi'a:19
"No after-ache will they receive therefrom, nor will they suffer intoxication: "normar wrote:There is absolutely no basis for this statement. Just because you believe it does not make it a reality. Just because millions believe still does not make it true. You have not one piece of empirical evidence for such a statement as this above. Beliefs are not facts. They are just that: beliefs.
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the_new_mr wrote: »
I think you completely misunderstood me. What I meant was that this is what Muslims believe and it's really no skin off your nose.
Anyway, you're free to have your own opinion on the matter.
Thank you the_new_mr.
In a mature and democratic society people are free to believe what they wish. It is their right. They may become Muslims or Christians or any of many religions. But as to whether "it's really no skin off my nose" as you claim above well we must disagree there.
I watch the news and read the papers. I see what happens in the name of religious causes the world over. From the use of Downs Syndrome Women as proxies for suicide bomers in Iraq, to the position of the Catholic Church opposing the use of condoms in the battle against aids, to the incredible declarations from the Iranian president that there are no homesexuals in Iran.
So I see it as very much as "skin off my nose" what people believe in. I reserve the right to question and to comment on these beliefs.
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Thank you the_new_mr.
In a mature and democratic society people are free to believe what they wish. It is their right. They may become Muslims or Christians or any of many religions. But as to whether "it's really no skin off my nose" as you claim above well we must disagree there.
I watch the news and read the papers. I see what happens in the name of religious causes the world over. From the use of Downs Syndrome Women as proxies for suicide bomers in Iraq, to the position of the Catholic Church opposing the use of condoms in the battle against aids, to the incredible declarations from the Iranian president that there are no homesexuals in Iran.
So I see it as very much as "skin off my nose" what people believe in. I reserve the right to question and to comment on these beliefs.
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Every statement you made in that post (with the exception of the statement of the president of Iran... of which I can make no statement due to my lack of knowledge of the true situation of homosexuals in Iran) has absolutely nothing to do with the teachings of Islam. If you are pissed off at the idea that Downs Syndrome Women are being used as suicide bombers in Iraq then I assure that I am even more pissed off about it because not only is it an incredible injustice to these women, it's also being done in the name of Islam and giving Muslims a bad name.
Perhaps you can realise that I don't support such atrocious acts? What people do in the name of religion often has nothing to do with religion itself. Human history is filled with examples of people using religion to further their sinister goals. And it is also filled with examples of people furthering their sinister goals without the use of religion. I say that the problem is not religion. The problem is some people in the world who will use any excuse to perform their evil acts.0 -
the_new_mr wrote: »..Perhaps you can realise that I don't support such atrocious acts? What people do in the name of religion often has nothing to do with religion itself. Human history is filled with examples of people using religion to further their sinister goals. And it is also filled with examples of people furthering their sinister goals without the use of religion. I say that the problem is not religion. The problem is some people in the world who will use any excuse to perform their evil acts.
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Why dont you do us a favour and emigrate to eastern lands where you can join all your BROTHERS .Traitor !0
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Dont bother converting and just live your chosen lifestyle
Well said.
I use a wide varietys of religions to base my beliefs on , but at the end of the day, perception will always take the bigger part. What we experience in this life or the next and what we see and feel, change or views and opinions on a religion.
You are accepted with or without alcohol. Although if the religion is oblidged to be drug free or " Clutch" free. then i would take the first step and work on the drink.
To say you drink because your Irish is very stereotypical , but thats controversial with the fact that '"most" irish people drink because they want to or its out social methods. The need for drinking is the exact same as the need for nicotine, although im unaware of people giving up nicotine for a religion.. Why ? Because.. (i'm only gonna say this once) WE ARE IRISH, It is burnt into our brains when born, We are alcoholics , born breed through a society of Irish Drunks, led to believe its the thing to do..
Its typical brainwashing, I myself do not drink , but i have, I removed the need and want to drink by looking at it from a clear / non brainwashed brains point of view.
Believe me , iv seen the worst of alcohol , lost friends and family to it. If you really want to choose your new religion are your path in life, see alcohol for what is really is and take your path.. I wont even go into the bad effects it has on your body, mentally and otherwise, i dont need to. You know yourself.... SO why do it? Honestly. IM not critising, but look at it from a clear mind, One whos doesnt need alcohol to socialise, nor to have fun. Its brainwashing. Nothing more.
The actual buzz off alcohol is so slight to the whole in your wallet, mental health, confidence , appearance.. Must i say more?0 -
Assalam Alaikum everyone,
Wow, I don't know what happened to this thread since I last checked in but it has turned into a load of off-topic bickering
Anyway, just a quick update, I took my Shahada today I am still on a high. The brothers in the mosque were very supportive, welcoming and helpful. I almost felt like a bit of a star with everyone shaking my hand and welcoming me!
As for the drinking I have not drank alcohol in 3 months and don't miss it much at all. Ok, it can be a bit difficult when I'm out with friends who drink but I am getting used to it. But overall I feel that my life has improved a lot becuase I am not drinking anymore. Another thing I have noticed is that I am getting back to the frame of mind I was in when I was younger before I ever touched a drop of alcohol. In a way I feel that alcohol stole some the person I was and now I'm getting it back. My eyes have also been opened to all the problems caused by drinking which I was blind to before.0 -
Congratz.
Now get some sleep o.O0 -
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wotisthere wrote: »Why dont you do us a favour and emigrate to eastern lands where you can join all your BROTHERS .Traitor !
Might I remind people to read the charter and understand the rules. Thanks.0 -
irishconvert wrote: »Assalam Alaikum everyone,
Wow, I don't know what happened to this thread since I last checked in but it has turned into a load of off-topic bickering
Anyway, just a quick update, I took my Shahada today I am still on a high. The brothers in the mosque were very supportive, welcoming and helpful. I almost felt like a bit of a star with everyone shaking my hand and welcoming me!
As for the drinking I have not drank alcohol in 3 months and don't miss it much at all. Ok, it can be a bit difficult when I'm out with friends who drink but I am getting used to it. But overall I feel that my life has improved a lot becuase I am not drinking anymore. Another thing I have noticed is that I am getting back to the frame of mind I was in when I was younger before I ever touched a drop of alcohol. In a way I feel that alcohol stole some the person I was and now I'm getting it back. My eyes have also been opened to all the problems caused by drinking which I was blind to before.
Wa'salam!
I'm so so happy for you mate! It's truly a wonderful thing what you've done. You will be showered in blessings now and all your sins have been wiped. Welcome to a clean slate!
Reading your very post increased my Iman. You did that mate, alhamdulillah.
I can't tell you how amazing this is. And what you say about the drink is also very true. Ah man, God bless you man. :):)0 -
Congratulations It's good to hear you've come to a desicion you're happy with!0
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irishconvert wrote: »Assalam Alaikum everyone,
Wow, I don't know what happened to this thread since I last checked in but it has turned into a load of off-topic bickering
Anyway, just a quick update, I took my Shahada today I am still on a high. The brothers in the mosque were very supportive, welcoming and helpful. I almost felt like a bit of a star with everyone shaking my hand and welcoming me!
As for the drinking I have not drank alcohol in 3 months and don't miss it much at all. Ok, it can be a bit difficult when I'm out with friends who drink but I am getting used to it. But overall I feel that my life has improved a lot becuase I am not drinking anymore. Another thing I have noticed is that I am getting back to the frame of mind I was in when I was younger before I ever touched a drop of alcohol. In a way I feel that alcohol stole some the person I was and now I'm getting it back. My eyes have also been opened to all the problems caused by drinking which I was blind to before.
Salam Aleikum IrishConvert
SubhanAllah that is great, am so happy for you!!!
May Allah swt reward you and give you the best in this life and in the next.
You are as clean and pure as a new born child , so pray lots to Allah swt for your prayers may be most acceptable.
well done with the drinking, it takes a strong person to overcome it, and Allah swt loves those who strive for Him.
Walaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh
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Wa alaikum assalam Irish,
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irishconvert wrote: »Assalam Alaikum everyone,
Wow, I don't know what happened to this thread since I last checked in but it has turned into a load of off-topic bickering
Anyway, just a quick update, I took my Shahada today I am still on a high. The brothers in the mosque were very supportive, welcoming and helpful. I almost felt like a bit of a star with everyone shaking my hand and welcoming me!
As for the drinking I have not drank alcohol in 3 months and don't miss it much at all. Ok, it can be a bit difficult when I'm out with friends who drink but I am getting used to it. But overall I feel that my life has improved a lot becuase I am not drinking anymore. Another thing I have noticed is that I am getting back to the frame of mind I was in when I was younger before I ever touched a drop of alcohol. In a way I feel that alcohol stole some the person I was and now I'm getting it back. My eyes have also been opened to all the problems caused by drinking which I was blind to before.
Wa Alaykom Al Salam!!!
Massive congratulations brother!! May Allah reward you in this life and the next and grant us all entry into the highest place in Paradise. Ameen.
I was very very very very happy to read your post. So sorry I'm so late. Better late than never though, right?
And well done on giving up the drink. It'll please you to know (if you don't already know) that God really loves it when you give up something you love for His sake. Masha Allah (it is as God wills it).
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Why does Isslamm receive these converts with such gusto, after all, Jesus and Moses are prophets in the eyes of the Koran, and both preached:
1. I am the Lord Your God, Who Brought You Out Of The Lands of Egypt, Do Not Place Other Gods Before Me.
NOW....assuming that Islam reveres Moses as a Prophet, and Moses gave this commandment, and CHristians who convert {revert, whatever:rolleyes:} in fact break this commandment, then how does Islam regard these converts? As trustworthy? Afterall, those who have strayed once will stray again, no??
How does Islam reconcile this breach of faith and trust by the convert with its own Reverence of Jesus and Moses, given that the Convert has gone against the word of those held in high esteem by Islam?
Or is it a convenience of modern life that the convert is welcomed in, merely to bolster the flock???0 -
Wa'salam!
I'm so so happy for you mate! It's truly a wonderful thing what you've done. You will be showered in blessings now and all your sins have been wiped. Welcome to a clean slate!
Reading your very post increased my Iman. You did that mate, alhamdulillah.
I can't tell you how amazing this is. And what you say about the drink is also very true. Ah man, God bless you man. :):)
So is my slate dirty? Given that I have not converted?? SHould I too convert to save myself??0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »So is my slate dirty? Given that I have not converted?? SHould I too convert to save myself??
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Then the lords of the Philistines gathered them together for to offer a great sacrifice unto Dagon their god, and to rejoice: for they said, Our god hath delivered Samson our enemy into our hand.
24 And when the people saw him, they praised their god: for they said, Our god hath delivered into our hands our enemy, and the destroyer of our country, which slew many of us.
25 And it came to pass, when their hearts were merry, that they said, Call for Samson, that he may make us sport. And they called for Samson out of the prison house; and he made them sport: and they set him between the pillars.
26 And Samson said unto the lad that held him by the hand, Suffer me that I may feel the pillars whereupon the house standeth, that I may lean upon them.
27 Now the house was full of men and women; and all the lords of the Philistines were there; and there were upon the roof about three thousand men and women, that beheld while Samson made sport.
28 And Samson called unto the LORD, and said, O Lord God, remember me, I pray thee, and strengthen me, I pray thee, only this once, O God, that I may be at once avenged of the Philistines for my two eyes.
29 And Samson took hold of the two middle pillars upon which the house stood, and on which it was borne up, of the one with his right hand, and of the other with his left.
30 And Samson said, Let me die with the Philistines. And he bowed himself with all his might; and the house fell upon the lords, and upon all the people that were therein. So the dead which he slew at his death were more than they which he slew in his life.
31 Then his brethren and all the house of his father came down, and took him, and brought him up, and buried him between Zorah and Eshtaol in the buryingplace of Manoah his father. And he judged Israel twenty years.
Even as a Sinner Samson was respected by the Lord, and the Lord did not forsake him, and Samson did great violence unto the Phillistine. There is no compulsion in Religion, and he who believeth shall be saved.0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »..There is no compulsion in Religion, and he who believeth shall be saved.
Nail on head. Do you believe?0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »Why does Isslamm receive these converts with such gusto, after all, Jesus and Moses are prophets in the eyes of the Koran, and both preached:
1. I am the Lord Your God, Who Brought You Out Of The Lands of Egypt, Do Not Place Other Gods Before Me.
NOW....assuming that Islam reveres Moses as a Prophet, and Moses gave this commandment, and CHristians who convert {revert, whatever:rolleyes:} in fact break this commandment, then how does Islam regard these converts? As trustworthy? Afterall, those who have strayed once will stray again, no??
How does Islam reconcile this breach of faith and trust by the convert with its own Reverence of Jesus and Moses, given that the Convert has gone against the word of those held in high esteem by Islam?
Or is it a convenience of modern life that the convert is welcomed in, merely to bolster the flock???
I think if you put a little thought into your question you would see the answer yourself :rolleyes:
But..............how are the people breaking the commandment. By converting to Islam they are not putting another god in place of the god of Moses. Its the same god.
In Islam the god that Moses speaks of is the same god Jeuses speaks of and is the same one Mohammad speaks of.
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I think if you put a little thought into your question you would see the answer yourself :rolleyes:
But..............how are the people breaking the commandment. By converting to Islam they are not putting another god in place of the god of Moses. Its the same god.
In Islam the god that Moses speaks of is the same god Jeuses speaks of and is the same one Mohammad speaks of.
So, whats your point/question ?
So, I am already a Muslim, though I do not regard Mohammed as holy?0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »So, I am already a Muslim, though I do not regard Mohammed as holy?
You are muslim and you have asked the question if reverts can be trusted ??
I dont get your question then. What is it ?0 -
You are muslim and you have asked the question if reverts can be trusted ??
I dont get your question then. What is it ?
#1. I am not Muslim.
#2. Even if I was, what makes you think I am of the "REVERTED" type?
#3. If the God of Moses is the God of Mohammed, then the Christians must be Muslims and the Muslims must be Christians, no???0 -
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Hero Of College wrote: »#1. I am not Muslim.
#2. Even if I was, what makes you think I am of the "REVERTED" type?
#3. If the God of Moses is the God of Mohammed, then the Christians must be Muslims and the Muslims must be Christians, no???
Ok, its quite simple. There is only one god. The god of the bible and quran is the same god. The Jews follow the old testament (Torah), the Christians follow the bible (collection of old and new) and Muslims follow the quran.
All three books speak about the same god. So Ill assume your christian. So just because you belief the old testament is from god does not make you jewish. See it ?0 -
You are muslim and you have asked the question if reverts can be trusted ??
I dont get your question then. What is it ?
I am NOT a Muslim, and never will be.
I am a Christian.
I am asking, if the God of Moses and the God of Mohammed are the same Deity {of course Moses wasn't around to contradict Mohammed:rolleyes:} then surely, I am, according to your reasoning, already a Muslim....which we know I am not.
By the way, the use of the word "revert" is a little rich, to say the least. How does Islam reconcile the command of God via Moses, not to place other Gods before Him??
What use is a convert to Islam if the convert has already broken the rule of the God of Moses, that God and Allah being the same thing?
Or are conversions just a convenient social and political too, which have nothing to do with "God"???0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »I am NOT a Muslim, and never will be.
I am a Christian.
I am asking, if the God of Moses and the God of Mohammed are the same Deity {of course Moses wasn't around to contradict Mohammed:rolleyes:} then surely, I am, according to your reasoning, already a Muslim....which we know I am not.
By the way, the use of the word "revert" is a little rich, to say the least. How does Islam reconcile the command of God via Moses, not to place other Gods before Him??
What use is a convert to Islam if the convert has already broken the rule of the God of Moses, that God and Allah being the same thing?
Or are conversions just a convenient social and political too, which have nothing to do with "God"???
So you are Christian, but by your logic you should be Jewish. Moses was a Jew and was speaking of god well before Jesus. So if you are Christian you have put the god of Jesus before the god of Moses. How do you reconcile the command of God via Moses, not to place other Gods before him to yourself ?0 -
Hero Of College wrote: »I am NOT a Muslim, and never will be.Hero Of College wrote: »I am asking, if the God of Moses and the God of Mohammed are the same Deity {of course Moses wasn't around to contradict Mohammed:rolleyes:} then surely, I am, according to your reasoning, already a Muslim....which we know I am not.Hero Of College wrote: »By the way, the use of the word "revert" is a little rich, to say the least. How does Islam reconcile the command of God via Moses, not to place other Gods before Him??
What use is a convert to Islam if the convert has already broken the rule of the God of Moses, that God and Allah being the same thing?
Or are conversions just a convenient social and political too, which have nothing to do with "God"???
A muslim, by definition, is a person or other creation who submits to the will of God. A flower is a muslim, a fish is a muslim and every baby born is a muslim. Anything that is behaving as God intended, is a muslim. As humans, we are God's slaves. We are here to act as required by God, we are to submit to Him and Him alone. There is only one God, who created the heavens, the earth and all in between.
We are to learn from the teachings of all the messengers of God, of whom there have been many, including Noah, Moses, Jesus (who was sent by God as a saviour to mankind, born to the virgin Mary), and the last messenger, Mohammed.
I know you are a Christian, and that's fine, for that is the life you choose to lead and the religion you choose to follow. You don't have to accept Islam. The fact that you're interested enough to ask these questions is already good enough. Christians, especially Catholics, believe in many of the same "rules of thumb", shall we say, as muslims do. One might even go as far as to say that Islam and Christianity are two sects of the same religion, like Catholicism and Protestantism. Sometimes, when I'm driving, I notice people going into or coming out of a church and I smile happily, for these are people who believe in one true God, and are worshipping Him.
What I'm trying to say is, you call yourself a Christian, I call myself a muslim. We're both creations of God, we both believe in the messengers of God including Jesus Christ and his miraculous conception, and that he is a saviour to mankind. We both worship the one God and we both believe that there is no other God but Him, and that when we die we must answer to Him and beg forgiveness for our sins, before entering heaven. We both are residents in beautiful Ireland and pay taxes, drive our cars and do our shopping at Tescos.
Sorry to be long winded, but do you get my point? All men are as equal as the teeth of a comb. That includes man's creator and sustainer.0 -
Ok, its quite simple. There is only one god. The god of the bible and quran is the same god. The Jews follow the old testament (Torah), the Christians follow the bible (collection of old and new) and Muslims follow the quran.
All three books speak about the same god. So Ill assume your christian. So just because you belief the old testament is from god does not make you jewish. See it ?
Yes I see it.
But what I don't see is the need to convert.
We must all eat breakfast as part of a healthy daily routine. I eat cornflakes, you eat porridge and the Jewish guy eats rice krispies. We all ate breakfast, just in a different way.
Is it safe to say that the Jewish guy is going to have a bad day because he had rice krispies?
LIkewise, we all believe in the same God. So why the need for conversions/reversions/inversions/diversions etc.0 -
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