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Ex-Girlfriend Pregnant

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  • 06-11-2007 9:24pm
    #1
    Needingahand
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Hello all,

    Im finding it hard to get some clear advice on the situation I'm in so I thought I'd post this and try and get some feedback.

    Some background: A while after myself and my ex-girlfriend ended an irreconcilable relationship I found out she was pregnant. There seems to be plenty of advice out there dealing with situations after the baby is born, but I can't find much on dealing with the situation before the baby is born.

    I don't want to colour things by summarising the diverging opinions on the matter, Im just trying to do whats best in a difficult situation...

    Thanks in advance


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    #2
    Loopy
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    I have been in a similiar situation only i was the pregnant one. Baring in mind hormones are all over the place - I found the most helpful thing for me was just knowing he was there, going for scans etc..

    It can be a very emotional time all round so for me the fact that there was a lot of communication and he was there at the birth really helped..

    Difficult times ahead but its do-able....


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    RIRI
    Registered Users Posts: 292 ✭✭RIRI


    A difficult situation for you both OP.

    I suppose you should be as supportive as you can & as loop suggested bear in mind all those hormones racing round the place causing havoc!

    Best of luck


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