In light of Pigheads Question in the Bar,

Jules

If your partner didn't quite like some thing about you would you change it. I know when i started going out with my partner i used to swear a lot, still do but not as much, but he didn't like it too much, neither did my family. Apparently mouth like a fishmongers wife, as my dad called it, isn't too attractive to the opposite sex. So i try to tone it down a bit

Or if you didn't like something about them would you ask them to change.

Thoughts ladies and gents?

watna

The only thing I've changed about my other half is that he shaves more now. I don't like stubble and he's quite hairy so it's painful! He shaves much more regularly now because i kept complaining about it! I don't think he's changed much about me, except the fact that I now admit I'm wrong sometimes which I never did before!

Pighead

Pighead wouldn't change a damn thing. Take Pighead as he is or don't take him at all.

You don't like Pigheads massive todger? Fine, fcuk off and find one of the bgrh lads instead

You don't like a hairy chest? Fine, go fcuk a ladyman.

You don't like it when Pighead farts and burps? Fair enough, Pigheads recent farts have been rank. Wouldn't tell you to fcuk off over that one to be fair.

Jules

Fine reply there Pighead, as usual, but please try and be a bit nice, less of the fcuk etc.

be warned.

Pighead

jules80 wrote: »

Fine reply there Pighead, as usual, but please try and be a bit nice, less of the fcuk etc.

be warned.

Flipping hell, this place is a bit flipping strick isn't it? Pighead didn't realise there was no flipping swear words allowed. How many of those flipping warnings are dished out before the flipping bannings take effect?

Back on topic, if Pighead really really really really really really really really really really really liked a girl he might change his hygiene habits for her ie shower more than once a forthnight. She'd have to be special though.

Jules

Not strict but is there really a need for all that swearing, and flipping is find makes you look nicer!

ANd im sure we can find you a girl that looks like the durty type....

Now back on topic.

20 Times 20 Times

What the fcuk was that warning for ? Bit of a power surge there.

/me high fives pighead.

Jules

Not a power surge Sarge, all i did was ask to watch the language, its in the charter \o/

Gotta love that charter....

Now topic please guys.

jules80

jules80 wrote: »

If your partner didn't quite like some thing about you would you change it. I know when i started going out with my partner i used to swear a lot, still do but not as much, but he didn't like it too much, neither did my family. Apparently mouth like a fishmongers wife, as my dad called it, isn't too attractive to the opposite sex. So i try to tone it down a bit

Or if you didn't like something about them would you ask them to change.

Thoughts ladies and gents?

This is something I try to control also not because he minds which he says he doesn't but just that he doesnt do it

20 Times 20 Times

Personally if i love someone i wouldn't ask them to change but however in both cases there can be adjustments made , a good solid relationship is based on compromise , I would never ask someone to change there personality.

Now thats a Fcking FACT ! :0

Anti

jules80 wrote: »

If your partner didn't quite like some thing about you would you change it. I know when i started going out with my partner i used to swear a lot, still do but not as much, but he didn't like it too much, neither did my family. Apparently mouth like a fishmongers wife, as my dad called it, isn't too attractive to the opposite sex. So i try to tone it down a bit

Or if you didn't like something about them would you ask them to change.

Thoughts ladies and gents?

You can take the girl out of tallaght, but you cant take tallaght of out the girl.

garthv

Anti wrote: »

You can take the girl out of tallaght, but you cant take tallaght of out the girl.

You can take the Leek out of your arse but you cant take the arse out of your Leek....or something.

WindSock

Anti wrote: »

You can take the girl out of tallaght, but you cant take tallaght of out the girl.

Ah, but you can also take the OP's boyfriend out of the Forum....

But you can't... em. Yeah.

Anti

garthv wrote: »

You can take the Leek out of your arse but you cant take the arse out of your Leek....or something.

Yeah, nice one there bosco..

garthv

Anti wrote: »

Yeah, nice one there bosco..

I try.

Anti

garthv wrote: »

I try.

try moar harder plz !

Silverfish

garthv wrote: »

You can take the Leek out of your arse but you cant take the arse out of your Leek....or something.

You can take the Leek out of your arse but you cant stop the leak out of your arse.


To contribute: No, take me or leave me, tbh. I am who I am, and if I have to change who I am to suit someone else, then I'm not me, I'm a projection of THEIR ideal person. If they want that, and I'm required to change to BE that, then they can keep on looking, in my opinion. Everyone's happier.

Jules

Can we keep it on topic guys please.

Anti

jules80 wrote: »

Can we keep it on topic guys please.

No

WindSock

Anti wrote: »

No

JA!

Anti

Windsock wrote: »

JA!

The boss has spoken. Back on topic. What ever it fapping was

WindSock

I share my Power 50/50, both here and with Mr WindSock.

I cut his hair sometimes, he tells me what clothes he doesn't like. Sometimes.

bronte

I'm extremely stubborn, so wouldn't change anything for a guy.

pretty-in-pink

Change? Well I suppose the usual rules regarding monogomy, other then that, hygiene and help around the house. Compromise, and the natural changes, but I wouldn't force someone to change nor would I be pleased with being asked to change radically either

MayMay

I changed quite a lot of things about myself for my ex....when you have to start changing things about yourself you should know they're not the one for you really shouldn't you....oh how foolish I was...

Ah well, you learn from your mistakes. I won't change a thing about myself for the next person that comes along, like it or lump it, this is me!

azezil

I try to stick to my maxim, "to thine own self be true", while I won't make any major changes to my life for someone I will make miner ones, as long as they don't put me out.

For example, an ex (if one could even call him that) wanted me to stop hanging around with one of my mates because he didn't thrust him, that didn't happen and I showed him the door instead.

Come to think of it, he's the only person to ask me to change anything :rolleyes:

I did try to change another ex though which was ultimately fruitless, he can not be who I want him to be if its not in his nature as turned out to be the case.

Pyjamarama

My OH doesn't particularly like swearing either so I try not to swear all that much around him but I don't really see that as a major change or changing myself. I also prefer him stubbly so he shaves less now.

Aside from that I'd never change anything major or stop hanging around with particular friends etc because he doesn't like them and if he asked me too then I wouldn't particularly want to be with him anymore. You love the person you're with as a whole, you can't pick and choose!

Crumble Froo

ill be more tidy when he stops all his racist/bigotist/generally shocking statements just for a reaction from me.

so far, neither of us has changed...