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Girl In Love With Girl

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  • 27-11-2007 12:34pm
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    LegacyUser
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    I've known her for about seven years and ever since the day I met her I like her, but at the time didn't know what the odd feelings I was experiencing were. I finally realized that I was bisexual and my like grew to love. She happens to know that I am bisexual and she also knows that I like her. I always have joked around with her etc. She is straight, keep that in mind, but a few of our friends thought/thinks she is bisexual. She also happened to be my first kiss. Which I assumed was a one time thing. It has happened about four times after that. Some of the times I asked her but a few of the times she asked me..No not directly asked me but kept hinting at it. I also happen to be the only girl that she has ever kissed. If you need any more info I'd be happy to give what I can. Do you think she is bisexual? And do you think there is a possibility I might have a chance?

    I'd also like to add that she has always said that I'm the easiest person to talk to. I've always been her shoulder to cry on. I've been thinking about hanging out with her one day and having a serious conversation about the depth of my feelings for her. I'm just not quite sure how to go about talking to her about it. Its not that I'm afraid of what she'll say or do. I really just am not sure how to start the conversation off and what to say.


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    lostndelerious
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    okay what youre feeling is like a mirror of my past.my best friend and soul mate or so i thought when i was 16 ended up breaking my heart and our friendship of 6 years by not being able to decide if she was actually gay or was it just a deep bond between us....we slept together for about 5 years after that initial 'first kiss' i was still seeing guys..nothing physical as i knew for sure i was gay,she tried getting a boyfriend and couldnt and got really jealous of me...still sleeping together regularly she started getting posessive and confused when i said id stop seeing guys if she committed to me.she couldnt handle coming out and we ended up cutting all ties.we broke each others' hearts and thankfully ive moved on.i live with my long term girlfriend and im supremely happy.i do miss our friendship but happy i moved on as she could never be true to herself.my advice is to drop it and wait til youre a little older to socialise on the gay scene with girls who know what they want.trust me itll save your friendship and your future love life!trust me!


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    LegacyUser
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    lostndelerious wrote: »
    my advice is to drop it and wait til youre a little older to socialise on the gay scene with girls who know what they want.trust me itll save your friendship and your future love life!trust me!

    I agree with lostndelerious. Better with like minded people - you will only get hurt if you continue as is. Try some gay websites to meet up with like minded girls.


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