Young Love....

carrig2007

Is it unhealthy and insane for a 17 year old to be hung up on a girl he is crazily in love with, even though she doesnt even slightly feel the same way bout him??

Crazy Christ

It sure is, my feathered friend

prendy

sounds like a normal 17 year old.

kev_s88

nah not at all.but it really isnt love.its just a crush and it will pass.

Rob_l

dont mind them all op this is the real thing this love for you like they could never understand I suggest some sort of crazy stunt to make her love you too

Cuddlesworth

I suppose the normal line stops at around the time you start sniffing the pantys you stole for a fix.

biko

May I suggest listening to some My Chemical Romance alone in your room?

Hellm0

Ahhh sweet infatuation, there be no more intoxicating brew when mixed with teenage lust.

aCA

I suggest some kind of zany scheme where you get help in training to get on the local football team so that the girl will fall in love with you. You get helped by an average looking dorky girl who has a heart of gold. It will all work out, with the dorky girls help, the girl you want will fall in love with you, but just at this moment you will realise you like the average looking dorky girl. Which is ok, cause a 2 minute make over and she looks hot anyway. roll credits. ta da.

I better add some kind of serious answer so I don't get in trouble, ya its probably not too healthy but its perfectly normal at 17.

DEmeant0r

aCA wrote: »

I suggest some kind of zany scheme where you get help in training to get on the local football team so that the girl will fall in love with you. You get helped by an average looking dorky girl who has a heart of gold. It will all work out, with the dorky girls help, the girl you want will fall in love with you, but just at this moment you will realise you like the average looking dorky girl. Which is ok, cause a 2 minute make over and she looks hot anyway. roll credits. ta da.

I better add some kind of serious answer so I don't get in trouble, ya its probably not too healthy but its perfectly normal at 17.

Oh sweet jaysus, sounds like that would be movie of the year!

Cool_CM

DEmeant0r wrote: »

Oh sweet jaysus, sounds like that would be movie of the year!

Can it star Freddie Prinz Jr? if it can i'm there!

Crazy Christ

There better be a sarcastic fat kid in the film who ends up scoring with a seven-pinter

ScumLord

It is both crazy and insane, have yourself committed immediately. If they won't take you in just kill someone and bring them the head as proof your nuts.

Just incase you are actually a fruit loop don't kill anyone that's bad. Unless your a soldier.

smackbunnybaby

Cool_CM wrote: »

Can it star Freddie Prinz Jr? if it can i'm there!

and the geeky girl can be Evan Rachel Wood

Crazy Christ

smackbunnybaby wrote: »

and the geeky girl can be Evan Rachel Wood

Wow what a result

nice1franko

carrig2007 wrote: »

Is it unhealthy and insane for a 17 year old to be hung up on a girl he is crazily in love with, even though she doesnt even slightly feel the same way bout him??

I had the same problem with fas girl when I was 28. The wake up call came when I cut a hole in the bus stop, rode it and burnt my flute on the flourescent bulb.

Lockstep

Crazy Christ wrote: »

There better be a sarcastic fat kid in the film who ends up scoring with a seven-pinter

And a cocky blonde preppy.

And some bad cheerleaders.

OP-This is teenage kicks.
It'll pass.

Love is reciprocal.

One way is an obessesion which isn;'t good feelings anyway

Crazy Christ

If you're going to make a film about young love, why not be a little more controversial and have Dakota Fanning in it. Chris Cooper is a hardened alcoholic geography teacher who falls in love with one of his young students. Her father is played by Bill Cosby, who is a hardened crack addict maths teacher who falls in love with Chris Cooper. Then Brian Dennehy, the janitor, gets AIDS

LadyJ

Ah 17, I would not go back to being a teenager if you paid me!
Sure it's unhealthy but it's perfectly normal!

Zzippy

aCA wrote: »

I better add some kind of serious answer so I don't get in trouble, ya its probably not too healthy but its perfectly normal at 17.

Why? This is AH after all, did you think you were in PI?

justsomebloke

man it is only wrong if you get caught stalking her

kev_s88

Crazy Christ wrote: »

If you're going to make a film about young love, why not be a little more controversial and have Dakota Fanning in it. Chris Cooper is a hardened alcoholic geography teacher who falls in love with one of his young students. Her father is played by Bill Cosby, who is a hardened crack addict maths teacher who falls in love with Chris Cooper. Then Brian Dennehy, the janitor, gets AIDS

who then passes the AIDS on to his secret lover, Dakota Fanning, and it all becomes a mad vicious circle.thats 2 films worthy of film in the year that have been thought up by the members of AH.i think we should all be very proud

Lockstep

kev_s88 wrote: »

who then passes the AIDS on to his secret lover, Dakota Fanning, and it all becomes a mad vicious circle.thats 2 films worthy of film in the year that have been thought up by the members of AH.i think we should all be very proud

Put in Zombie Nuns!

There must be Zombie Nuns!

tolosenc

kev_s88 wrote: »

who then passes the AIDS on to his secret lover, Dakota Fanning, and it all becomes a mad vicious circle.thats 2 films worthy of film in the year that have been thought up by the members of AH.i think we should all be very proud

Really, the first could be made into as many movies as we caould think up cheesy names.

aCA

Zzippy wrote: »

Why? This is AH after all, did you think you were in PI?

You are right Zzippy, I thought it was in PI, didnt realise it was AH untill after I posted. I live in fear of the PI police.

Crazy Christ

Being in love hurts. As Dr. Phil said on the show about vaginal disorders

Overheal

OP if you want some real answers post this in Personal Issues under the Soc category

-_- its normal by the way.

humanji

jsb wrote: »

man it is only wrong if you get caught stalking her

Or if they find her body.

Ghost Train

maybe give it a bit of time, be a friend to her

in three or four years time if nothing has happened between the two of you then you should try and move on

machiavellianme

eolhc wrote: »

maybe give it a bit of time, be a friend to her

in three or four years time if nothing has happened between the two of you then you should try and move on

Solid bit of advice but you'll need a quickfix in the meantime.

smackbunnybaby

machiavellianme wrote: »

Solid bit of advice but you'll need a quickfix in the meantime.

her sister,best friend or mother?

Latchy

How many 17 year olds fall in love at that age ? it's in the hormones but by the time he/she reaches 21 they might have fallen (or stalked after ) in love 5 or 6 more times .But is it real love ? Some 17 year olds actually end up marrying their childhood sweethearts but are in the minority .I think it's cute if after going through the whole spctrum of dating over a period of years from 17 that you somhow drift back to being with the girl whos pig tail you pulled at school

Quality

I met my husband when I was 15... We are now married...

It might work out....

And before you start, I am not a traveller and the marraige was not arranged....

ejmaztec

Another bunny-boiler, or her name's Carrie, or both:eek:

watna

kickoutthejams wrote: »

And a cocky blonde preppy.

Love is reciprocal.

+1. It's only really love if they feel the same way back (or something at all)

Tis perfectly normal to be crazy about someone at that age. As LadyJ says I'm glad I'm not 17. You're feelings are heightened cos they're new and strange. You're not used to feeling like that.

I suggest you:

1) Tell her you're crazy about her in a non-stalker, scary way.
2) Don't tell her and move on.

Your choice!

hairyfish

I was insanely inlove with myself at least twice a day if not more when i was 17....

:-\

gcgirl

Quality wrote: »

I met my husband when I was 15... We are now married...

It might work out....

And before you start, I am not a traveller and the marraige was not arranged....

sorry but i nearly fell off my chair laughing at the last bit!!

Charlie

**** is your friend.

In my day, we had the the scourge of dial up (not a right hands best friend), count yourself lucky son.

GLaDOS

I suggest alcohol, party and go snag yourself a drunk girl

Jackz

Quality wrote: »

I met my husband when I was 15... We are now married...

This was the "Quality" part for me.

Reku

ScienceNerd wrote: »

I suggest alcohol, party and go snag yourself a drunk girl

Misread that as "go shag yourself a drunk girl"... but I guess that'd work too...;)

Elessar

I was in love at 17. Never did anything about it. Was horrible. I don't think I'll ever be over it.

Moral of the story is kill yourself.

Reku

Elessar wrote: »

Moral of the story is kill yourself.

Or not, this is why the voices on the internet should be listened to even less often than the ones in your head.

FunkZ

carrig2007 wrote: »

Is it unhealthy and insane for a 17 year old to be hung up on a girl he is crazily in love with, even though she doesnt even slightly feel the same way bout him??

Yeah pretty much.

carrig2007

carrig2007 wrote: »

Is it unhealthy and insane for a 17 year old to be hung up on a girl he is crazily in love with, even though she doesnt even slightly feel the same way bout him??

Im guessing this is you or a son/daughter or close friend? Well it can be very bad for some people. One of my best mates back when we were that age was obsessed about this girl we hung around with. She was unreal(10/10 stuff) but she had no interest whatsoever in this guy(He wasn't a George Clooney so to speak ). He bought her Christmas/bday presents & even asked her to his Debs.

Anyway as time went by one of the lads from the group started to see this girl as they both really liked eachother. My best mate was devasted over it, he hit the drink & drugs really hard and was even suicidal. Hes fine now but that period ruined alot of his friendships with people. Anyway, hope this helps.

Lockstep

I have some advice for you mate:

Chloroform is your friend.

nixion

carrig2007 wrote: »

Is it unhealthy and insane for a 17 year old to be hung up on a girl he is crazily in love with, even though she doesnt even slightly feel the same way bout him??

I THINK LOVE IS LOVE AND IT DOESNT MATTER THE AGE. SO THIS GUY IS IN IT. ITS VERY O.K. WITH TIME HE WILL KNOW HOW TO CONTROL HIMSELF WHEN IT COMES TO SUCH ISSUES