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What age did you lose your virginity?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,280 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    snyper wrote: »
    I see Kickoutthejams's inbox been full by tonight with women that think hes the nice, sensative type.. the new age man..

    .. nice ploy dude... i should have thought of that one :D:p

    hes probably riddled and been ridin since 16 :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,155 ✭✭✭the dee


    I was 16 - felt perfectly ready and don't regret it. Looking at my 16 year old sister though, it's evil and immoral and everyone should wait until marriage. Especially her boyfriend.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,280 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    The lady doth protest too much, methinks!!11!1

    Mine usually is, certainly ... >_>

    (but yeah, more seriously, I agree with you ...

    Suggestion: change the nick! :p:D

    Wai too fucking obvious, tbh! :p:D

    Yeah, I've never found your hand especially demanding in that respect either ... >_>

    Dude, I never would have guessed ... :eek:

    Bet you've had it off with that stud, leninbenjamin, many's the time, though ... ;)



    p.s. I'm pissed as a fart, I'm taking the pish, and absolutely no offence is intended towards anyone ... :p

    it would take a man with that nick to make that comment, nice


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,280 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    Toots85 wrote: »
    I was 17, with my bf and I have absolutely no regrets, it was perfect! We hadn't planned to do it, it just happened one night and that was the way I wanted it. Neither one of us had been with anyone before, so I wasn't nervous about doing anything wrong cos we were both equally in-experienced :p It was definitely one of the best nights of my life, and we're still together today.

    One of my friends and her bf had a big night out when he was going to pop her cherry, they went out for dinner and then booked a room in a hotel, which is sweet in some ways, but in others I think that's too much of a build up. She said herself afterwards that she was dissappointed and that she was so nervous she tensed up and it was painful. Having such a build up to it is bound to end in disappointment imo.

    waayyy too over the top there , that must have cost him a lot, in all reality its a lot easier for girls to lose it, but then again it isnt, most girls have this horrible mental block that associates sex with any kind of emotion or love.
    FORGET THAT SH1T and JUST ROIDE SOMEONE, it takes a rare girl to forget that mental block, hence the 12 and under catagory :D, that or child molestation


  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,927 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    waayyy too over the top there , that must have cost him a lot, in all reality its a lot easier for girls to lose it, but then again it isnt, most girls have this horrible mental block that associates sex with any kind of emotion or love.
    FORGET THAT SH1T and JUST ROIDE SOMEONE, it takes a rare girl to forget that mental block, hence the 12 and under catagory :D, that or child molestation

    LOL! I know, I felt so sorry for the poor guy, that's a lot of pressure to put on him!! I wouldn't have been surprised if he'd been in the jax throwing up with nerves b4 hand!! It was probably the most money he'd spent on the worst ride he'd ever had!!!:p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I think what we can ascertain from this painstaking piece of research ;) is that when it comes to sex, it's a big deal for some people, it's not a big deal for other people, some people are horny all their lives, others don't become horny until later on etc. It all really depends on the individual - makes perfect sense. It's not something that should be treated in broad social terms.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,503 ✭✭✭thefinalstage


    pisslips wrote: »
    heh...it was a great experience.
    I was 16, horny as **** and I met a 23 yr old decent looking slapper.
    Tbh I would have ****ed at 14, I did really want to A LOT!
    And I went years trying to manipulate girls into having sex...well 2 or 3 and finally it happened.
    Amazing first time...she did basically every sadistic act I knew and some I didn't.After about 3 hours of, 'lets do a tour of your apartment','I'm not sure if I'm actually comfortable being penetrated' and ''well, when you scream STOP PLEASE, I presume you want me to stop,wtf,I'm confused'', I bearly made the flight home.I couldn't sleep that night.So, much new information, so much lost innocence.****ing class.I was born ready.

    I call bull ****.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 260 ✭✭Goat Mouth


    I was 14. With the village bicycle after school in her sitting room. didnt last long at all and all i really remeber was Thriller was on the Tv at the time and all i could think was "fuuuuuuuuckiiiiiiiiiin deeeeeeeaaaaadlyyyyyyy"...
    Romantic or what!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I call bull****.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭pisslips


    I call bull ****.

    O.K.

    But I just got really lucky, the next time must have been at least 6 months later and it was awkward and horrible but I was still happy to get my cock into a wet hole.I have no hang-ups, it's perfectly natural to want to **** without this needless emotional baggage....well for a man anyway.

    Some people would argue that it was a horrible first time, I was used
    by some slut but I feel she did me a service


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    pisslips wrote: »
    it's perfectly natural to want to **** without this needless emotional baggage
    Yeah that's the way it should be really - god it's the most natural act in the world and we wouldn't be here only for it, yet so many of us have such hang-ups. One of the myriad of reasons I have such a problem with the catholic church.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,350 ✭✭✭WexCan


    Was 15. For shame. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 606 ✭✭✭GrahamThomas


    Kickoutthejams, I was in the same boat when I was 17/18. Most of my friends had lost their virginity at that stage, but there were no girls I was interested in and saw no sense in trying to bed some random gal just for the sake of it.
    I was almost 20 when I popped my cherry, and it was with someone I really liked. Glad I waited!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    pisslips wrote: »
    but I was still happy to get my cock into a wet hole.
    Well fair enough but some people might want a little more, as in, to fancy the person. If there's no sexual attraction there's no "wet hole"! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Just looking at some replys makes me smile ' your ma stealing the ok mag from the dentists ' thats a classic .If you listen to the lyrics to the oldie pop tune 'Young Girl ' then would would be forgiven for thinking it was written by somone contemplating an illigal relationship ,as in

    '' with all the charms of a womon , you kept the secrets of your youth ,and led me to believe your old enough to give me love ,that come on look is in your eye ......woww young girl get outa my mind , my love for you is way outta line ,better run girl , your much to young girl .

    Just as well it was released in the more innocent 60s decade .Imagine todays PC brigade would have somthing to say about it he he :)

    In my case i lost my virginity in my early 20s ,but it was not before a lot of years of fumbling around with members of the oppiste sex here there and everywere . I somtimes pushed away any approaches made upon me as i am sure we all do , the timing had to be right lol .:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Kold wrote: »
    Did Jesus get a face full of hymen on the way out?
    Nah. The donkey ride would have taken care of that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,460 ✭✭✭Orizio


    20 year old virgin. Doesn't play on my mind really, which is rather odd considering the social 'importance'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    it would take a pished man with that nick to make that comment ...
    For 100% accuracy ... >_>


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,882 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    + 1 for 17 - 18. I'm gona show my stupidity today as say the 12 or less ppl have to be taking the piss right?? I mean..................... <<scratches head>>


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    Terry wrote: »
    Nah. The donkey ride would have taken care of that.

    ****ing desert heat and lack of somewhere to wash wouldn't make it any more pleasant for the little baby J.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,632 ✭✭✭darkman2


    I cant count the number of my friends who thought losing their virginity so young was great but a few weeks later, miraculously matured, had serious reservations about it. I mean quite upset - like they had allowed themselves to be violated in some way (when your virginity is gone so is one of lifes held secrets for most of your young days). Many do regret it when its not with somone they have true feelings for esspecially if the sex was dire (according to them).........apparently there is nothing worse then your first time being disappointing. Luckily I dont have to worry. Im still a virgin and in fact im proud of it. So many times ive been tempted and asked but somehow (despite drunkeness) managed to withstand the pressure. Im happier for it - I can gaurentee you. When I think of what I could have done and with some girls whilst drunk! Im still very young and want the circumstances to be better then simply being drunk and doing it with some girl I dont really know and that Im unlikely to maintain a relationship with. Maybe thats just me but I do feel good about it unlike others whom were so bloody eager in Secondary school - so much so they deeply reget it now and thats an understatement - one guy got a girl preggers unintentionally at the age of 16. Just one consequence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭pisslips


    + 1 for 17 - 18. I'm gona show my stupidity today as say the 12 or less ppl have to be taking the piss right?? I mean..................... <<scratches head>>

    Hmmm....I dunno, I mean I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.Now if you think about how many people voted and the anonymity of it, it seems possible that some are telling the truth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    pisslips wrote: »
    Hmmm....I dunno, I mean I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.Now if you think about how many people voted and the anonymity of it, it seems possible that some are telling the truth.
    I'm hoping most of them are taking the piss. I'm afraid a couple may not be ...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,525 ✭✭✭JustHalf


    I'm still a virgin at 25. Though I would be rather pissed if I am still one in five years, I highly doubt that the women of this world will allow such a travesty to come to pass.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,503 ✭✭✭thefinalstage


    JustHalf wrote: »
    I'm still a virgin at 25. Though I would be rather pissed if I am still one in five years, I highly doubt that the women of this world will allow such a travesty to come to pass.

    I'm sure they would survive.

    BTW: Hookers for the win/aids!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    pisslips wrote: »
    I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.
    Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
    Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,503 ✭✭✭thefinalstage


    Dudess wrote: »
    Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
    Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.

    Or sat on their dolls.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭kev_s88


    im 19 and im still waiting.

    and i have no problem waiting.its not that im looking for "the one", i justhave no interest in going out and getting it over and done with for the sake of doing it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26 Bitz n Pieces


    I lost my virginity when I was 14. It wasn't a good experience, I regretted it after and I didn't have sex again until I was 16. I lost my virginity on a one night stand, I was drunk, they guy thought I was 17. I still don't know why I did it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    For some unknown reason I was skimming through an interview with Shayne Ward :rolleyes: the other day and he was asked this very question. His reply was "15 or 16. I wasn't an early starter at all." 15 or 16 late? Nice.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Dudess wrote: »
    Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
    Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.

    That is only our recent social convention. No other society really tjhought like this. Nature gives girls a period at an age for a reason.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭togster


    I know someone who lost hers when she just turned 13. She is a well balanced individual and says she just wanted to and she did. She wasn't abused, is a happy well rounded person. She doesn't regret it at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,580 ✭✭✭✭Riesen_Meal


    I was 15, all I know is her name was Julie, and she was from Blanchardstown.....

    Kinda shouldve waited I suppose, I had a long term girlfriend a yr or so after.....

    Ah well!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    togster wrote: »
    I know someone who lost hers when she just turned 13. She is a well balanced individual and says she just wanted to and she did. She wasn't abused, is a happy well rounded person. She doesn't regret it at all.
    People develop at different rates I suppose.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,322 ✭✭✭Mad_Max


    Dudess wrote: »
    If there's no sexual attraction there's no "wet hole"! :)

    lmao, that explains a few things :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    That is only our recent social convention. No other society really thought like this. Nature gives girls a period at an age for a reason.
    12 might not have been considered way out of line when people were usually dead by 35 / 40, when life was a hell of a lot harsher, and kids had to grow up a lot more quickly. Even at that, I think most societies would have considered 12 somewhat young ...

    Certainly, nowadays, it is very young, even allowing that some kids mature far faster than others (I mean mentally / emotionally, rather than physically).

    That said, I would see a big difference between, say, a man of 20 with all his mental faculties having sex with a 12 or 13 year old, and two kids of that age "experimenting" with one another. I wouldn't be thrilled about either scenario, but I would argue that they are very different issues.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Jigsaw


    Lost the auld virginity at 17. It was very nice. I then had a long term relationship during which I became very good at sex. That, combined with porn means that any woman who wants to get down to it with me is gonna have a good time. PMs welcome. I don't have sex as often as some but when I do it, mountains are moved. ***



    ***This can neither be confirmed nor denied.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 113 ✭✭lolipops


    im 15 and still a virgin.. i want to wait for the right person, i dont think im emotionally mature enough to do it yet. id like to wait until im 17 or so. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    lolipops wrote: »
    im 15 and still a virgin.. i want to wait for the right person, i dont think im emotionally mature enough to do it yet. id like to wait until im 17 or so. :rolleyes:

    Pics of hymen or you're a 40 yr old slut.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 113 ✭✭lolipops


    Kold wrote: »
    im a perverted weirdo look at me! quote]

    :confused:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 113 ✭✭lolipops


    Kold wrote: »
    im a perverted weirdo look at me.

    :confused:

    erm i dont need to prove myself to you lol and why they hell would someone take pictures of their hymen and send them to some potential child mincing pedofile who is 40 and lives with their mom.
    well hmmmmmmmm?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    lolipops wrote: »
    Kold wrote: »
    im a perverted weirdo look at me! quote]

    :confused:

    Da'g can't believe I'm still letting that slip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,333 ✭✭✭tampopo


    I lost my virginity to another virgin, which was quite cute. First time wasn't....'brilliant', it took till the third attempt to get the hang of it. And that was after several attempts over the previous few weeks!!! Innocent times!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    tampopo wrote: »
    ... the hang ...
    That was probably the main problem ... ;)


  • Posts: 8,647 [Deleted User]


    Was 14!We broke up two weeks later, then she faked pregnancy!:(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    At 14?!!

    Lol ... sounds like something that would happen to you all right, Dazzler! :D


    (jeez, that must have been a fright though! :( )


  • Posts: 8,647 [Deleted User]


    At 14?!!

    Lol ... sounds like something that would happen to you all right, Dazzler! :D


    (jeez, that must have been a fright though! :( )

    She only told me when she found out I was going to tell my parents.I didn't have sex for 3 years after that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    She only told me when she found out I was going to tell my parents.I didn't have sex for 3 years after that.
    Jeez, I can see why!

    I was going to say "little bitch" but then again I suppose she was very young too ...


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Peared


    Guy I know lost his on holiday. All fine and dandy til few weeks later hes back and gets a phone call and its from a DJ with a surprise person who wants to get in touch with him. He says fine, calls around mates and family, tells them hes gonna be on the radio. Takes the call in work, tis yer woman "Im preggers". Live on the feckin radio.

    Dunno how old he was but hey, thats a good virginity losing story.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,870 ✭✭✭mikeruurds


    24... to my wife :D We chose to wait. Each to his/her own.


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