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12-02-2008 5:27pm#1
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It can be very sweet and so much better than the drunk method, it's a lot more genuine! But you don't wanna scare her off thinking you've been watching / stalking her. I say if you like someone (even a stranger) then go for it, lifes too short sure
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yeah. wouldnt bother me. i'd be surprised in a good way!!
i've seen blokes in Random places before and have been really tempted to do something. i never do though. probably coz i'm sober im afraid!!
Personally would have no problem with it. It's better than getting creepy PMs on here! By the way, does anyone know how to block someone who keeps sending you messages. I said something earlier this afternoon and this guy just won't stop sending me messages.0 -
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Personally would have no problem with it. It's better than getting creepy PMs on here! By the way, does anyone know how to block someone who keeps sending you messages. I said something earlier this afternoon and this guy just won't stop sending me messages.
Damn i havent got one of those yet. Where have i gone wrong? hehe.
...But back on Topic.
its a pity most people can only do the chatting up thing when theres drink on Board! i suppose its the rejection and the courage to actually do it that the booze helps.
God if i'd had the bottle i'd have chatted up the hottie in Xtravision that time.....
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God if i'd had the bottle i'd have chatted up the hottie in Xtravision that time.....
Perfect time when you wouldn't need a bottle Niamho...
This is when stalking could come into play! Check out the same DVD/Game aisle as them, ask what they think of DVD/Game or "have you seen this one" etc.. If they look horrified at you speaking to them then its a no. If not...who knows?!0 -
its a pity most people can only do the chatting up thing when theres drink on Board! i suppose its the rejection and the courage to actually do it that the booze helps.
Pretty valid point i think! A few years ago my confidence would have been very low and i would not have been that happy with myself at all! Booze would really have been the only way i could have worked up the courage to chat up a lass that i like!
The last couple of years have really seen my confidence grow and now i'll talk to the wall when i'm sober and will happily ask someone i feel might interest me out for a drink regardless of the circumstances!
The whole fear of rejection thing is a big hill to climb, but once you get the simple realisation that not everyone will find you to their taste and thats not a bad thing.....then it all just becomes fun!
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He was finding out how much he'd get for games. and i looked a bit rough. lol. see thats another thing. guaranteed to see a hottie when i look a state. :mad:
For some reason i thought that was the other way around and you were the punter!
Must be my own experience coming back to haunt me! This really pretty lass who works in the Xtra-vision just up from me! The horrible blue tshirt and the fact that she wears really baggy pants does nothing except hide the fact that she is fit as hell and i'd pay good money just to see her with her hair down instead of up as i reckon it would be a total knock out!
She's about the only lass i keep bottling it with these days!
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Yes, following her around shows how much you care.
Perhaps quit your job so you can take it up 24 hours a day.
She'll be well impressed to know that as she sleeps, eats, works, exercises, bathes, socialises you'll be within earshot, touching yourself. I meant for the OP to try to make some sort of eye contact within the shop. Not hound the woman.
I didn't mention find out where she sleeps, eats, works, exercises, bathes, socialises, or listen to her while masturbating.0 -
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I meant for the OP to try to make some sort of eye contact within the shop. Not hound the woman.
I didn't mention find out where she sleeps, eats, works, exercises, bathes, socialises, or listen to her while masturbating.
Ah I know I wasn't being serious.
I didn't start drinking until I was 21 so I never really saw asking a girl out as a difficult problem because I didn't realise it was easier with drink. (Although I would now think it is).
I would disagree with you in trying to make an issue of "knowing" her before you ask her out though. Best bet is just go for it. Worst that can happen is rejection but at least in her hindsight she won't be thinking of all the times you were floating around. I would see that as far more embarrassing if you meet her again.
Sure I asked my girlfriend out for the first time after meeting her on a bus and we're together six years now.
Some women will of course be totally freaked out but you have to take the rough with the smooth. 0 -
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She's about the only lass i keep bottling it with these days!
Reason enough to go for it! Seriously! Pronto!
One of my friends is now in a relationship with someone who spotted her through a window while at work, and chased after her down the street.
He has a million and one brownie points with every female who ever heard the story.
I think in Ireland you have more chances of sucess by asking in daylight hours.
Because women aren't used to it, so it knocks them off guard. Thereby cutting through the arsehole defense shield system, that the lads in after hours complain about so much.0 -
Im too much of a chicken sh1t to ask a woman out when im sober.
Drink ftw!
I was out in Athlone over christmas and the club was full of miserable looking single people avoiding each other....and one drunken sleaze trying to make contact with everyone.
Have no idea how you repopulate there.0 -
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