Top 5 turn offs + ons. men/women

LadyE

GirlInterrupted wrote: »

I wouldn't be keen on catching the plague either to be fair:)

ha ha ha funny

LadyE

My turn ons:

Good sense of humour
Good personality
Chivalrus (sp) holding doors open and stuff..not car doors though, thats just strange
A good listener - then doesnt interregate you with questions like "And how do you feel about that" I HATE "How do yopu feel" questions.


Turn offs:

Bad teeth
Doesnt know when a joke has gone too far
A game player
A liar..jesus I hate liars

LadyE

Oh, and attention seekers. Hate them too.

Danger_Dave

Im Male

Turn On's
1. Funny
2. Intelligent
3. Attractive (Chest/Behind/Face Something needs to be working }
4. Not afraid to experiment with sex
5. Dark sense of Humour

Turn Off's
1. Overweight
2. Controlling
3. Jealousy
4. Unadventurous
5. short hair (generally)


I wonder what the number 1 turn on/ turn off on boards ?

RPGGAMER

women with bony neither regions.

Gina Brel

Turn ons
-hairy chest
-lovely eyes
-singer/guitarists
-intelligent
-chemistry
-sexy culchie accents

Turn offs

-smugness

Raekwon

serenacat wrote: »

im a girl.

turn offs ;
bad breath
gross teeth
crooked nose
boring eyes
blonde
unintelligent
bad at communication
beer belly
does some weird sex thing without saying hey want to do this some time first
stumble
hairy balls
HAIR GEL EWWWWWWWWWWW
spots

Cradle snatcher are we?

JerryHandbag

Turn-ons in a woman
1 - Wacky sense of humour
2 - Vertically challenged
3 - Love of animals
4 - Pale skin
5 - Interest in good music

Turn-offs
1 - Streaky fake tan/sunbeds
2 - Bad teeth
3 - Laughin at peoples feelings being hurt
4 - Big noses
5 - Smoking

turgon

Im male

Biggest turn off: porn without a doubt.
Biggest turn on: those girls in the crowd in Euro 2008 jumping up and down.

kowloon

serenacat wrote: »

im a girl.

turn ons are in guys are
beauty
muscles hot abs
straight white teeth no plague
dark dark brown hair
tan
has a good relationship with his mom
fun
sporty
makes an effort with my friends
shows genuine interest in my convo
romantic
gets jealous
would be able to protect me

turn offs ;
bad breath
gross teeth
crooked nose
boring eyes
blonde
unintelligent
bad at communication
beer belly
does some weird sex thing without saying hey want to do this some time first
stumble
hairy balls
HAIR GEL EWWWWWWWWWWW
spots

Check out the title of the post.
Your top fives are highlighted for you in bold above.
As long as you think it's important that people have beautiful brown hair and straight white teeth I'm pretty sure your "don't judge people by their D4 accents" comment holds about as much weight as a helium filled anti-gravity cat ....... in space.
You're not doing much for the D4 stereotype, shallow and double standards have been ticked; the list is nearing completion .

Acid_Violet

SerenaCat wrote:

you tell him girl

Pen1987 wrote:

Im male with long-ish hair, just below my eyebrow-to-the-side ringe fringe length. Long? Image is part of my job so I cant pick the length most of the time [shi*e] its straightened too

Turn ons:

Eyes that contrast with hair colour. Blue/green eyes and black hair or blonde hair and brown eyes

Straight teeth

Classy as opposed to stylish dress sense, pencil skirts are a big yes

Intelligence

The ability to see an opposing side of an argument

being affectionitte without being overbrearing

Can make me laugh

Physically fit

Doesnt drink beer

will come on a night out and interact with your friends even if shes the only girl

protective of you around other women i.e. comes over if a woman chats you up in a bar

Likes to just sit and chill and NOT speak for long periods

Turn offs

Out-of-shape

Thinks shes absoulutely stunning, even if she is

Falseness

Bitchiness

Unambitious

Sluttish

Obsessive

Doesnt "get" your sense of humour

Is shy and hides her body during sex

Wont talk openly or up-front about her feelings/relations

Keeps many secrets

Doesnt respect secrets



Yeah Im specific... for good reason though!

Acid_Violet wrote:

Or cause you were really bad

That wasn't directed at him missy! In fact, I quite like his list, he's got good taste;).

Acid_Violet

kowloon wrote: »

Check out the title of the post.
Your top fives are highlighted for you in bold above.
As long as you think it's important that people have beautiful brown hair and straight white teeth, I'm pretty sure your "don't judge people by their D4 accents" comment holds about as much weight as a helium filled anti-gravity cat ....... in space.
You're not doing much for the D4 stereotype, shallow and double standards have been ticked; the list is nearing completion .

Oh come on! It's not just D4's who judge people on their looks, we all do! We all have specific things about someone's looks which we think are real deal-breakers or deal-makers, that's just life! Don't be so hard on her just because she's honest about it, especially when everyone else has been harping on about physical features they find particularly attractive or unattractive in this thread as well. Harpoon them just as much even though they're not (seemingly) D4's if you abhor double-standards so much.

What I think she was saying is not to judge people based on stereotypes. There's a big difference between categorising people and simply not being physically attracted to someone. Where does a double standard come into that?

token56

I'm male:

Turn Off's
Smoking or any sort of drugs
Hairy arms etc on girls
Ditsy
Big drinker
Low self confidence

Turn On's
Really into fitness
Intelligent
Red Hair
Smallish/petite girls
Sense of humour

kowloon

Just pointing out someone complaining about one type of shallow being unacceptable and then proceeding to type their own brand of inane muck.
I revel in any opportunity to annoy someone with a hunchback sized chip on their shoulder as serenacat does about D4 stereotypes.
As for saying only D4 types judge by look; where in the name of St. Agatha Christie and the case of the seven leper molesting teapots did I state that?
As for double standards.

serenacat wrote:

you sure are hard to please
have you ever met a girl like that?

chuci

im a girl,

Turn ons:
green eyes
nice arms/hands
taller than me
funny
Long hair

Turn Offs:
dandruff
cracked lips
a hermit
BO
Long fingernails (unless you play the guitar).

Maximilian

My top five?

1. Classic Old School

2. In case there's small kids around

3. For when discretion is required

4. Red goes faster.

5. A nice big one

GirlInterrupted

Maximilian wrote: »

My top five?

1. Classic Old School

2. In case there's small kids around

3. For when discretion is required

4. Red goes faster.

5. A nice big one

Very good choices.:pac:

IvaBigWun

token56 wrote: »

Turn On's

Red Hair

Isla Fisher is the only good looking Redheaded female in the world. Official.

Acid_Violet

kowloon wrote: »

Just pointing out someone complaining about one type of shallow being unacceptable and then proceeding to type their own brand of inane muck.

Bit of an exaggeration tbh, she just wanted to know why people find D4's so repulsive (and if you think about it, it's pretty childish to instantly write someone off your friends/love interests list just because of a stereotype.) As for some physical traits being big turn-offs, wouldn't call that inane muck for reasons already stated.

I revel in any opportunity to annoy someone with a hunchback sized chip on their shoulder as serenacat does about D4 stereotypes.

I find that absolutely hi-larious, since judging from your post it's you with a chip on your shoulder about D4's. (Just to say, D4 definitely wouldn't be the appropriate category.)

As for saying only D4 types judge by look; where in the name of St. Agatha Christie and the case of the seven leper molesting teapots did I state that?

Well highlighting what you perceived to be her top five main turn-ons and turn-offs in bold (which were all physical) and then proceeding to call her shallow and saying that she's fulfilling the D4 stereotype, perhaps? If that's not what you meant then you should be more clear in you next posts.

As for double standards.

Serenacat wrote:

you sure are hard to please
have you ever met a girl like that?

Maybe it's just me, but I gathered that that was in jest.

chopperbyrne

IvaBigWun wrote: »

Isla Fisher is the only good looking Redheaded female in the world. Official.

Milla Jovovich says hello.

Ninja_scrotum

Is anyone actually reading all this? I just skipped to this page to ask...

kowloon

Acid_Violet wrote: »

Bit of an exaggeration tbh, she just wanted to know why people find D4's so repulsive (and if you think about it, it's pretty childish to instantly write someone off your friends/love interests list just because of a stereotype.)

I think that it's just as valid to judge someone by their accent as by the colour of their hair. Are you saying it's not okay to find an accent unattractive?
Serenacat clearly does not think it's fair to judge a D4 accent (is there actually such a thing?). I don't either, but it holes the argument.

Acid_Violet wrote: »

I find that absolutely hi-larious, since judging from your post it's you with a chip on your shoulder about D4's.

I do hate stereotypes, it's true, I will never defend a stereotype or anyone who goes out of their way to fit into one be it D4 or otherwise.

What's your agenda?

IvaBigWun

Ninja_scrotum wrote: »

Is anyone actually reading all this? I just skipped to this page to ask...

Well yes. Not all in one sitting mind you Its confirmed my thoughts that (certain) wimmens of a (certain) mental state all want to be fcuked by Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights.

kowloon

IvaBigWun wrote: »

Well yes. Not all in one sitting mind you Its confirmed my thoughts that (certain) wimmens of a (certain) mental state all want to be fcuked by Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights.

Latchy

IvaBigWun wrote: »

Are you bi?

Or selfish or what? :pac:

A guy , and can see were the confusion arose .

Well yes. Not all in one sitting mind you Its confirmed my thoughts that (certain) wimmens of a (certain) mental state all want to be fcuked by Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights.

Use to be some guys wanted to fcuk kate bush on wuthering Heights

IvaBigWun

Use to be some guys wanted to fcuk kate bush on wuthering Heights

Really?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdmvs7r1u9c

Latchy

Yeah ,somthing about her face or maybe her cute nose ,so unusual

kowloon

There was a corkonian girl on a site I worked on in Tipp who could do an excellent Kate Bush impersonation. Brings back the memories .

Latchy

A voice that would shatter glass ......

kowloon

Kate shattered my heart