Top 5 turn offs + ons. men/women

Pyr0

Turn offs:

Too much makeup
Bossy, know it all attitudes.
Girls obsessed with their weight
Lives for fashion
"The world revolves around me" type people.

Can't be arsed to think of my turns ons ! I'll do it later..

homerun_homer

I'm blind, didn't spot the turn on part.
Confidence
Pretty face
Good body (this is the turn on thread so don't give out that this is shallow)
Good taste in music always gets my attention
Too many to mention but lately seeing girls in liquid leggings are a big turn on. Maybe it's that Catwoman thing they got going on with it or something but on the right people they are hawt.

garrincha62

Turn Offs for Girls:
1. Too much make-up/that orange glow. Who is attracted to Orange people??
2. Materialistic women.
3. Women who wear tracksuits as a fashion accessory.
4. Facial Hair.
5. Plump ladies wearing clothes that are too tight.
6. Women that drink multi-coloured drinks.
7. Women with no sense of irony.
8. Obvious but ugly women are a massive turn off for me.

Mrs_Doyle

Turn Off's:

1. Someone who is tight with their money
2. Whinging/Moaning
3. Constant Pessimism
4. Someone who takes themselves too seriously
5. Lack of Drive/Ambition

Turn On's:

1. Optimistic Person
2. Ambitious/Driven Person
3. Lively and Fun person
4. Caring Nature
5. Good sense of Humour

Oswald Osbourne

garrincha62 wrote: »

Turn Offs for Girls:
6. Women that drink multi-coloured drinks.

Like Guinness?

Pace2008

Valmont wrote: »

Guess I've no hope now:P

There seems to be a contradiction between number 4&5 of your offs

Bellowing with laughter at a teacup for five minutes does not amount to a sense of humour. I'm partial to the gentle ganja myself but stoners are pretty boring unless you're, well...stoned.

garrincha62

Oswald Osbourne wrote: »

Like Guinness?

Especially Guinness!! Leads to being plump...vicious circle it tis...:mad:

Pace2008

garrincha62 wrote: »

Especially Guinness!! Leads to being plump...vicious circle it tis...:mad:

I'm pretty sure Guinness is less calorific than beer or cider.

garrincha62

I'd go for Guinness defo. Years of research and observing waistlines of friends will not convince me otherwise...

ElCrapula

Pace2008 wrote: »

Bellowing with laughter at a teacup for five minutes does not amount to a sense of humour. I'm partial to the gentle ganja myself but stoners are pretty boring unless you're, well...stoned.

EHMMMM..........dont know what kind of smokers you have experience with but I think youre confusing getting stoned with mental illness

CathyMoran

Turn offs:
1. Someone who is not into having kids either naturally or by adoption
2. Meaness
3. Smoker or heavy drinker
4. Heavily into sports
5. Not intelligent.

Turn ons:
1. Kindness
2. Thoughtful/romantic
3. Highly inteligent and into IT
4. Funny
5. Kind to animals

ShineadyRyan

I'm a woman..

Turn ons -
Guys in suits
Nice teeth
Cheeky smile
Really blue eyes
Tall
Class sense of humour
Can take a bit of messing!
Guys who don't text you ALL the time!
Smart - but not cocky about it.
Easy to talk to
Friendly
Sporty;)
Guys who get on with their family and can have the craic with mine..
Guys with Irish names -Strange I know..;)

Turn offs:(-
Smokers -- I have been with smokers but I'm not a big fan
Guys who can't have a good time without being hammered
Guys with no interest in sports at all
Shy
Moody
Bad teeth( sorry, I'm not perfect but i just have this weird thing about having nice teeth!):)
Guys who don't get on with their family
B.O
Wasters

Kimbot

This thread was mentioned on the radio a little while ago!!

I102-104 at about 5pm.

Oswald Osbourne

jonny24ie wrote: »

This thread was mentioned on the radio a little while ago!!

I102-104 at about 5pm.

That turns me on. Pity my radio was turned off.

Acacia

I'm a girl.

Turn-offs:

1. Rudeness

2. Clingy guys who won't give you space

3. Guys who don't have their own mind/sense of who they are

4. Liars/cheaters

5. Pretentious guys who can only talk about 'the office' and licking their boss' ass.

6. Racists/bigots/ homophobes. Can't go out with somebody like that.

Turn-ons-

1. Confidence.

2. Humour/ able to have a good time

3. Open-mindedness

4. Interested in politics/ 'important stuff'

5. Musicians/artists/ poets

6. Looks-wise: long hair ( I don't get that some girls hate it!:P), tall, tattoos, piercings, happy-looking!

Acacia

LadyJ wrote: »

Turn ons:

Guys who aren't saps and who get that some people who live in Ireland don't have a tan and just because someone is wearing a black dress and has pale skin does not make them a goth/weird/into heavy metal music.

'Goth' , 'weird' and 'into heavy metal' aren't necessarily the same thing! :P

naasface

Niamho! wrote: »

I'm Female (Hehehe, i nearly wrote "i'm a turn-off")

Turn-offs:
1. Sleaze-ball men. i just hate Sleaze. theres no need.(loads in my job)
2. Cocky Blokes who are just too up their own arse (Luckily i dont go for those anymore)
3. Blokes who have an anwer for everything and dont bother really wanting to know anything about you. (Few and far between thank god)
4. I agree on the posh blokes. just dont do it for me at all...loike.
5. Scrawny. not a fan.

Turn-on's:
1. Facial hair (Stubble) my new thing. i LOVE IT!! (I have new taste in men!)
2. i agree with someoen else on the Workman type jobs. (Electrician, Mechanic....anyone required to wear snickers and havea bit of Dirt here and there.:D)
3. This should be my number one. confidence. theres a thin line between cocky and confident. Wow.
4. Someone who is very laid back...!!
5. someone who can make me laugh but funnily enough i also love it when i can make a bloke laugh too.

+1

ACW

Top 5 Turn ons in women:
5) Glasses (stupid song)
4) Nice nose ( a nice nose makes a pretty face)
3) Infectious laughter and/or smile
2) Intelligence/Nerdism/Geekism (even if hidden under layers of chic and sytle and self denial)
1) Confidence

Turn offs
5) No manners
4) Make up (the smell disturbs me)
3) Shaved arm pits/bald body (freaks me out, trim if you must, but nothing, its just a bit creepy)
2) Addiction (of any kind, drink, drugs or emotional)
1) Selfishness or Bitchyness

S.I.R

Me:

Turn ons -

5 - nice body... not really looks but well proportioned...

4 - Brains - if your thick ill beat you with a stick.... for your own good ofcourse.

3 - morals - need i explain ?

2 - integrity - essentail no matter what

1 - unqiue - the art of being yourself, not a poser, havin your own style or way of doing things.

Turn offs

5 - poor fashion sense - your a women... with no style ?? what a shame

4 - sluts - not my thing.

3 - fat chicks - Not my thing

2 - lack of looks - im by no means shallow but you must be presentable

1 - hygiene - i hate smelly people, is a shower Really that f****** hard or expensive !!! FFS !

ShineadyRyan wrote: »

Turn offs:(-
Smokers -- I have been with smokers but I'm not a big fan
Moody
Bad teeth( sorry, I'm not perfect but i just have this weird thing about having nice teeth!):)
Guys who don't get on with their family

balls, thats me ruled out then !!

but someone not getting on with their family shouldnt be your concern... its theirs

Pace2008

ACW wrote: »

Turn offs
3) Shaved arm pits/bald body (freaks me out, trim if you must, but nothing, its just a bit creepy)

Think you're on your own there mate

Pherekydes

Top 5 Turn ons in women, in no particular order:

• Red hair
• intelligence
• tall/long legs
• friendly smile
• feminine grace

Turn offs

• coldness
• tattoos
• smoking
• coarseness/loudness
• fat

yurmothrintites

Turns ons in a man

1. Nice eyes
2. Good Personality
3. Funny enough
4. Tall and of a normal weight
5. Athletic

Turn offs

1. Being Vain and Cocky
2. Being too good looking
3. Drugs and Smoking
4. Bad teeth
5. Shy personality

Lockstep

Raves:
Green eyes
Humour
Tattoos on pale skin
Elfin grace
Intelligence



Graves:
No interest in current affairs
Obsessive
Jealous
Supports death penalty/legalised torture
Excessively tanned skin

Michael39

Turn on's with women:

Great sense of humour.
Genuine-ness.
Friendly Smile.
Nice Hairstyle/Hair.
Perfume.

Turn off's with women

Too possessive.
Dishing out the silent treatment.
Girls who are full of themselves/egotisical.
Un-approachable.
Too much make-up.

Professey Chin

ShineadyRyan wrote: »

I'm a woman..

Turn ons -
Guys in suits
Nice teeth
Cheeky smile
Really blue eyes
Tall
Class sense of humour
Can take a bit of messing!
Guys who don't text you ALL the time!
Smart - but not cocky about it.
Easy to talk to
Friendly
Sporty;)
Guys who get on with their family and can have the craic with mine..
Guys with Irish names -Strange I know..;)

Turn offs:(-
Smokers -- I have been with smokers but I'm not a big fan
Guys who can't have a good time without being hammered
Guys with no interest in sports at all
Shy
Moody
Bad teeth( sorry, I'm not perfect but i just have this weird thing about having nice teeth!):)
Guys who don't get on with their family
B.O
Wasters

And women say theyre not that picky :rolleyes:

ACW

Pace2008 wrote: »

Think you're on your own there mate

I don't think so. The majority of my exs were emboldened by my love them au natural and continued being comfortable with themselves ever since.

I find this modern crazy to be some sham cover up on putting an acceptable face on things pedo bear would be interested in exposing... but hey, if the average modern man wishes we was sleeping with prepubesent girls, it leaves more real women available for gentlemen of more natural tastes.

Tawny

I like
- Intelligent men (not just intelligent, need to be able to have a good debate with him too)
- Long hair (or at least something different about hair, so I'm open to dreads etc)
- Can make me laugh
- Tall (short men have issues)
- Useful (able to fix my car, central heating, put up shelves...)


I dont like
- short men
- skinny men
- men who are obsessed by sports, I don't mind if they discuss the results and move on, but I know some men who just stare at the football in the pub and don't interact.
- men who play stupid music too loud in their car (this goes for women too actually)
- men who are obsessed by money, career, buying the best car etc.

GiftofGab

Oswald Osbourne wrote: »

Why? Because I find white women attractive and I find black women unattractive? It's just fact sir.

What about the black girls in the rap video's???? Slutty, yes but also very sexy!!
BTW slutty girls for me are also a big turn off but them rap video girls are hot! The one's in ireland are not good looking at all.

Abi

Offs:

Self importance

Money talk - when brought up repeatedly in an attempt to impress. It doesnt.

Too serious / take me seriously

Possesive

Ons:

Quirky humour
Confident not cocky
Large penis.

Dont want much, me.

kowloon

Tawny wrote: »

- Tall (short men have issues)

Did the women not liking them cause the issues or the other way round?
Chicken or egg?