Top 5 turn offs + ons. men/women

St Bill

I'm hearing ye, dead people lack a certain je ne sais pas.....:)

Balmed Out

As a male
Turn ons
1 girl who's physically fit and pretty.
2 girl who actually has lots of personality, not so common.
3 Girl who has interests and hobbies.
4 Girl whos intelligent and doesnt hide it.
5 A sense of style. Dont mind whether its classy dresses, indie rock look etc but i like them to have a look.


Turn off's
1 Girl whos a tit, laughing at everything, loud, always agreeing with me etc
2 Lives for soap operas etc.
3 Girl who looks perfect, strange but i like girls to have some charachter in their looks rather then perfection. no to angelina jolie yes to wiona ryder.
4 Doing one thing while saying another. i like honesty
5 Very moody. agggggghhh hate it

Ciaran500

snyper wrote: »

3. An arse like a chisel

Errr, pics?

Cokehead Mother

bangersandmash wrote: »

on a girl:

• deadly serious here but side burns on girls are class! you know when they have that kinda wispy hair coming down like slightly longer than average dude sideburns

Winona Ryder in Girl, Interrupted - hell yeah

Naikon

Turn ons: easygoing, intelligence, not stuck up.

Turn offs: actively religious(i.e the type that can't accept that I don't follow religion), sorry but I can't deal with this:(

Balmed Out

Naikon wrote: »

Turn ons: easygoing, intelligence, not stuck up.

Turn offs: actively religious(i.e the type that can't accept that I don't follow religion), sorry but I can't deal with this:(

depends on the religion to be fair, some of them religions with lots of wives seem fairly cool.

eamon234

gogo wrote: »

Gheisa girls used to cover their entire faces with white make up and leave a small portion of the back of their necks make up free as it was considered hughly erotic to men.
There's a piece of useless information for you.

Rrrargh!:)

flanum

Ciaran500 wrote: »

Errr, pics?

"im looking to find a chisel..."

Naikon

Balmed Out wrote: »

depends on the religion to be fair, some of them religions with lots of wives seem fairly cool.

: p

Cianos

Pen1987 wrote: »

Im male with long-ish hair, just below my eyebrow-to-the-side ringe fringe length. Long? Image is part of my job so I cant pick the length most of the time [shi*e] its straightened too

Turn ons:

Eyes that contrast with hair colour. Blue/green eyes and black hair or blonde hair and brown eyes

Straight teeth

Classy as opposed to stylish dress sense, pencil skirts are a big yes

Intelligence

The ability to see an opposing side of an argument

being affectionitte without being overbrearing

Can make me laugh

Physically fit

Doesnt drink beer

will come on a night out and interact with your friends even if shes the only girl

protective of you around other women i.e. comes over if a woman chats you up in a bar

Likes to just sit and chill and NOT speak for long periods

Turn offs

Out-of-shape

Thinks shes absoulutely stunning, even if she is

Falseness

Bitchiness

Unambitious

Sluttish

Obsessive

Doesnt "get" your sense of humour

Is shy and hides her body during sex

Wont talk openly or up-front about her feelings/relations

Keeps many secrets

Doesnt respect secrets



Yeah Im specific... for good reason though!

We have very similar tastes my friend:)

Edit, I've no problem with a girl drinking beer though!

Pj!

I'm male.

Turn-offs:
1. Bitchy girls
2. Obsession with appearance
3. Lives for soap operas
4. Un-intelligent girls
5. Smokers


Turn-ons: (this is easier to think of)
1. Nice eyes
2. Nice smile
3. Quietish person (with a wild side hidden away)
4. Good sense of humour
5. Reasonably fit


Suitable applicants may contact via pm with the word 'Hi'.

remus808

buckfast4me wrote: »

Turn offs:

1) doesnt do E
2) doesnt do speed
3) doesnt do acid
4) doesnt do hash
5) doesnt do coke
6) doesnt drink

Turn ons:
3) educated & intelligent

Contradiction in terms, tbh.

Nightwish

Top turn offs in guys

*Obsessed with sport
*Lack of personal hygiene
*No sense of humour
*Do drugs
*Obsessed with job

Turn ons
*Sense of humour (not toilet humour)
*Good taste in music
*Affectionate
*Intelligence with a good knowledge of politics and current affairs
*Someone who's idea of a date is a metal gig

Terry

Quality wrote: »

Turn Ons
1 Tall
2 Dark
3 Handsome
4 Loaded
5 Only has eyes for me..




Turn Offs.
1 Infidelity
2 Laziness
3 Red hair
4 Skinny lads
5 Mean fellas

Shallow.

LadyJ wrote: »

Turn offs:

Guys who are saps and think that because I have pale skin and am wearing black that I am a goth/must be weird and also into heavy metal.

Turn ons:

Guys who aren't saps and who get that some people who live in Ireland don't have a tan and just because someone is wearing a black dress and has pale skin does not make them a goth/weird/into heavy metal music.

Not shallow.

Cokehead Mother wrote: »

Wow you have really low standards.

Hot.

Not really.
She seems to have quite good taste if you ask me.

buckfast4me wrote: »

Turn offs:

1) doesnt do E
2) doesnt do speed
3) doesnt do acid
4) doesnt do hash
5) doesnt do coke
6) doesnt drink

Turn ons:

1) good sense of humour
2) attractive physique
3) educated & intelligent
4) non-cigarette smoker

Best of luck with that relationship and the complete skank that you end up with.

Nightwish wrote: »

Top turn offs in guys

*Obsessed with sport
*Lack of personal hygiene
*No sense of humour
*Do drugs
*Obsessed with job

Turn ons
*Sense of humour (not toilet humour)
*Good taste in music
*Affectionate
*Intelligence with a good knowledge of politics and current affairs
*Someone who's idea of a date is a metal gig

I can rage against the machine with the best of them, my darling.

[standard AH reply: off]

• Not Polish
• Irish
• Not fat
• Not skinny
• Skanger
• Not a virgin

[/standard AH reply: off]

[standard AH reply: on]

1. Polish
2. Not Irish
3. Not fat
4. Not skinny
5. Willing to break the law, but still not a skanger
6. Looks like Hollywood's flavour of the month

[/standard AH reply: on]

Personally; as long as she's not mordibly obese and is intelligent, I'm happy.

Acid_Violet

I'm female, like men, here's me list:

Turn offs

• Shallowness
• Bitchiness (guys are a lot more harsh than girls when it comes to bitchiness from my experience)
• Gets pissed every single weekend
• Overt laddishness (overt being the key-word)
• Very, very unappealing physically
• Bad personal hygeine

Turn ons

• Tall and big broad shoulders which practically stop him walking through doors
• Empathy (I don't get why guys object so much to women wanting 'sensitive' men, I don't know any girls who expect their partners to be like counsellors, just not to be emotionally retarded!)
• Very very intelligent
• Similar interests to me (music, singing, sport, amongst other things)
• Very very very very witty

Acid_Violet

Terry wrote: »

I can rage against the machine with the best of them, my darling.

They're not quite metal love....

Volvoboy

I've a flute/ hetro;


Turn ons;

1. Sense of humor (dosent have to be a good one)
2. Appreciates all types of music
3. Drives
4. Has ambitions
5. Be independant
6. Tattos, piercings
7. Resonable set of knockers
8. Be part psyco
9. Dosent need alcohol to have a dance and generlly have the craic
10. Smoker - I KNOW!
11. Gets sarcasim

Turn offs;

1. Uses the words ''Like'' or ''Oh my god'', more than twice in a conversation
2. Dosent know anything about politics
3. Uses drugs
4. Drinks to excess where she cant stand
5. A dry shyte

-VB-

Terry

Acid_Violet wrote: »

They're not quite metal love....

Read the post I quoted again and then read my reply again.

upmeath

I'm male

Offs

• Girls who text constantly
• Girls who know they're attractive
• Daddy's girls i.e. Daddy's car, Daddy's credit card, not just D4 girls
• Strong Munster accents, particularly from South Tipp/Limerick City I'm finding lately, I don't know why but neither is ringing well on my ear!
• Conservatives
• Loud girls
• Oompa loompas, girls who would probably look better with no makeup but think they have to cake themselves in the stuff.
• TONGUE PIERCINGS

Ons

• Good musical taste
• Older than me
• Northern accents
• Passionate about music, film, photography, etc. Arty I suppose!
• Pixie-features. Cute girls.
• Quiet enough but easy to talk to and get along with.
• Discreet, tasteful tattoos/piercings (but NOT tongue piercings)
• Smile
• Sense of humour
• Eyes

Nightwish

Terry wrote: »

Read the post I quoted again and then read my reply again.

w00t, I got it first time round. Even at 1:45 am.

spiritcrusher

I'm a male (long haired too, nice to see a few pro-long hairs out there!)

In a female:

Turn ons:
Modesty,
Good kisser
Intelligence (air heads drive me insane, need to be able to hold a proper conversation)
Humour (possibly with a dark edge)
Attractive (an interesting pair of eyes and a nice nose seem to be the first things I notice)
Good fun/willingness to do new things and a bit of a wild streak
Maybe a small bit eccentric
Tall I suppose but it's not vital (makes things easier though when you're 6+ ft)
Shyness (but not extreme shyness, the cute shyness)
Romance
Passion

Turn offs:
Girls that have the muffin look,
Girls that ALWAYS end up a mess and getting sick on a night out (that's not to say don't go out for a nice session every now and again),
Prostitute-esque clothes i.e. clothes that could be underwear, have some dignity...please,
Stupidly LOUD!
Chain smoker,
Hippies (I may have long hair but I'm not goddamn hippy),
No ambition/drive,
Being booooring,
No sexual enthusiasm

Eric Cartman

Offs (in female)
1: Phone Calls
2: Women that cost money
3: Women always fishing for compliments (thin women saying "im fat... etc...")
4: Fake Tan, Uggs, Face Piercings (metal mole's) , abercrombie, baseball caps, big sunglasses
5: Virgins (too hard to deal with) or women with kids (even worse)

Ons
1:No-Strings Sex
2:Makes me a sandwich
3:Laughing at terrible jokes (anything from jew jokes to maddie mccanne)
4:Thin with decent tits
5:accepting of my shovanistic male-centric ways (a slap on the ass followed by "make me a sandwich")

Eric Cartman

Eric Cartman wrote: »

Offs (in female)

3: Women always fishing for compliments (thin women saying "im fat... etc...")

I don't think that is fishing for compliments.
Poor self esteem can mean that some women have a skewed perspective of themselves and their physical appearance.
Often these people will deflect compliments by putting themselves down.

Kold

Moonbaby wrote: »

I don't think that is fishing for compliments.
Poor self esteem can mean that some women have a skewed perspective of themselves and their physical appearance.
Often these people will deflect compliments by putting themselves down.

Poor self-esteem is a turn off, just under high self-esteem.

Ginny

Turn offs:
Ignorant.
Drug user.
No Sense of Humour.
Stupidity.
Spending more time on their looks then I do on mine.
Not interested in sports.
No motivation, be it personally or professionally.
Mammy's boys.
Possessiveness.
Clinginess.

Turn ons:
Intelligence.
Good sense of humour.
Honesty.
Laidback.
Confidence, that confidence that doesn't need to be shown, so more self assured, comfortable in their own skin.
Passionate.
Affectionate but not clingy (see turn offs)
Tall.


But then again you can't always quantify what attracts you to a particular person.

Wibbs

Me male ugh.

Turnoffs
Needy
overly emotional
Game players
Neurotic
small eyes


Turnons
Funny
Stylish
Kind
Intelligence
Adventurous
Tight ass and small waist

sullivk

Turm ons/offs in men...

Turn ons:
Sense of humour
Intelligence
Confidence (although not in an "i love myself" way)
Has goals in life
Romantic (but not soppy)
Tall
Brown/black hair
Nice smile
Wears a suit/snickers trousers/uniform (as in fireman, not schoolboys!)
Stubble


Turn offs:
Long hair
Too skinny
Too muscular (i like an inbetweeny!)
Clingy
Possessive
Really hairy chest/back
Moobs (man boobs)
Blonde hair

:rolleyes: I dont ask for much!

MIN2511

Me = female and in no particular order
Turn on
• Tall, dark, blue eyes, nice arse
• Intelligent
• Athletic, sporty(Soccer, Rugby) maybe support Man Utd
• Ambitious
• GSOH
• Cocky yet nice
• Good dresser(can do casual and smart where applicable)
• Not necessarily romantic but makes an effort
• Honesty
• Confidence
• A bit wild, naughty and always up for trying new stuff


Turn offs
• Liars, cheats
• Long hair, hairy men(chest, back)
• Un kept nails, hair, stubble, don’t like dirty men
• Smoker
• Mammy’s boys
• Stingy men
• Metrosexuals…. I hate competing for the mirror
• Clingy guys, jealousy(it’s healthy but no OTT)
• Rude men

With a list like mine, no wonder am single….
Goes back to re evaluate list

Bunnywabbit*

spiritcrusher wrote: »

I'm a male (long haired too, nice to see a few pro-long hairs out there!)

In a female:

Turn ons:
Modesty,
Good kisser
Intelligence (air heads drive me insane, need to be able to hold a proper conversation)
Humour (possibly with a dark edge)
Attractive (an interesting pair of eyes and a nice nose seem to be the first things I notice)
Good fun/willingness to do new things and a bit of a wild streak
Maybe a small bit eccentric
Tall I suppose but it's not vital (makes things easier though when you're 6+ ft)
Shyness (but not extreme shyness, the cute shyness)
Romance
Passion

Turn offs:
Girls that have the muffin look,
Girls that ALWAYS end up a mess and getting sick on a night out (that's not to say don't go out for a nice session every now and again),
Prostitute-esque clothes i.e. clothes that could be underwear, have some dignity...please,
Stupidly LOUD!
Chain smoker,
Hippies (I may have long hair but I'm not goddamn hippy),
No ambition/drive,
Being booooring,
No sexual enthusiasm

Your just perfect

flanum

flanum wrote: »

actually, no insult or anything intended here, just honesty, but i would LOVE to have a craic at a traveller lass.

see:

All travellers!

Kold

flanum wrote: »

see:

All travellers!

And apart from the bottom left they all have that 'inbred' look about em.

SprostonGreen

I'm male

Turn ons:

Biggish arse
Black hair
Tan
Dresses sexy
Dresses casual
Good taste in music
Interested in whats going on in the world
Brains
Beauty
Sexually adventurous
Interested in fitness, takes care of herself

Turnoffs

Poor femine hygene
Wearing GAA jerseys
Up her own hole
Soap addict
Gets slaughtered all the time
Cries a lot
Wont let you see her naked, even during sex
Textual harrassment
Puts way too much emphasis on career
Lack of wit
Subjugating controlling freaks

MrsRoundy

In men
Offs: 1. Bad teeth
2. Skinny
3. White socks with bad shoes
4. Posers
5. Not knowing when they have had enough drink.
6. greasy hair
7. Neglected Skin.

Ons: 1. Makes you laugh
2. Strong arms
3. Plays with your hair
4. Clean shaven and well groomed
5. Can Sing or play an instrument

I am surprised that so many men like "big eyes" and I'm curious as to what makes a woman unhygenic.

Volvoboy

Moonbaby wrote: »

I'm curious as to what makes a woman unhygenic.

A dirty skip



-VB-

TPD

Volvoboy wrote: »

A dirty skip



-VB-

Ah, funny.

Piste

I'm a girl.

Turn ons
1)Thoughtfullness
2)A sexy smile, especially if it's a little cheeky. Oh my.
3)Musical (can sing or play an instrument like Mrs. Roundy said)
4)Strong arms and a nice upper body. Strong arms are very sexy.
5)Clear skin (I dont think I could ever score a guy with acne)

Turn offs
1)Very long hair ESPECIALLY if it's grasy, matted or in dreads, but then if it's perfectly straight and smooth and ilky it looks girly, so no.
2)Body Odour- ew.
3)Bad breath- ew.
4)Loudness/being attention seekers. I find that so irritating.
5)Being really really jocky. Jocks are very hot in general, but when they really overdo it it's so annoying.

RoyalMarine

Susannahmia wrote: »

Pics? If its floppy (yeah yeah In your endo!) I find it a turn off but yours doesn't sound like that.

not floppy at all

erm.... pics.... hmmm....

http://img524.imageshack.us/img524/1143/dscf0117bq6.jpg

http://img187.imageshack.us/img187/2680/dscf0119si9.jpg

usually a lot neater... kinda a rush job

misslt wrote: »

Noo, I like that

good stuff so

Toots

I'm female

Turn ons:
Long Hair
Nice smile
Kind
Sweet
Funny
Genuine and honest and faithful
Romantic but not overly soppy
Strong upper body (then wander around the house wearing snickers and no top)

Turn Offs:
Smelly/bad personal hygiene
Stuck up
Lazy
Inconsiderate
Overly opinionated
Boring

flanum

i cant understand this thing women hav about snickers. im a maintenance spark, i wear overalls and climb over machines all day long repairing them. most lads i know that own snickers never wash them, theyr usually minging. i at least get new overalls whenever mine are totally fecked(usually every 2 days.

Gillybean72

Im Female so...

Turn OFFS
1) Bad breath
2) Lazy
3) Thinks they always right
4) Poor Hygiene
5) Smoking


Turn ONS
1) Good kisser
2) Nice butt
3) Adventurous in bed
4) Affectionate
5) Spontanteous

indieJones

in ladies...

Turn Offs:
1) Being boring. Seems like a large proportion can't feel passionate about anything beyond celebrity gossip, shoes and bags.
2) The whole fake tan, ugg boots, oversize sunglasses, abercrombie etc. thing. You'd think after school they'd stop wearing a uniform.
3) Smoking
4) Insecurity/Neediness
5) Posh girls. Hate the accent, hate the attitude.

Turn Ons:
1) Interesting. Have a hobby, play an instrument or a sport, be interested in culture. Anything!
2) Look after yourself. Healthy diet and a toned body is much better than make up.
3) Narrow minded. Some one whos willing to go to strange places and try different things.
4) Can take a joke, can make a joke.
5) Genuine people. I hate mind games and having to read people. Just act the way you feel.

Petey2006

Turn-offs:

1. Selfishness
2. Bad hygiene (seriously, there's no excuse for this)
3. Self-absorbsion
4. Prudishness
5. Too much make-up

Turn-ons

1. Intelligence
2. Confidence
3. Big, beautiful eyes
4. Nerdiness
5. Unconventional beauty

p~b

This is what i lookfor in a girl !!!!!

Turn Ons:
1. Happy and smiling
2. Easygoing
3. Normal cute looking girl (no model)
4. Playful and a little bit crazy
5. Affectionate


Turn Offs:
1. Bossy
2. Takes life to serious
3. Makes big issues out of nothing
4. Not trusting me
5. Not listening to me

togster

I am a male

Turn on's

blond hair
blue eyes
nice smile
nice boobeez
nice ass
high maintenance
a little bit bossy
funny
kind
out going

Turn off's

Too much hair on her body
crooked teeth
shy
annoyingly intelligent
bendy legs
crap in bed
spits in your ear

FunkZ

I'm a guy.

Turn Ons.

Nice smile
Eyes
Glasses
Lovely arse and rack
Physically fit
Great personality

Turn Offs.

Overweight, a bit is grand though
Ugg boots
Too much make up
Bad hygiene
Hardcore drug taking, obviously!

Drummo

I'm a guy

Turn Ons

• Long hair
• Physically fit
• Tattoos (decent tattoos, not sh1tty "fashionable" ones on wrists, small of back etc)
• Heels
• Independance! Independance! Independance!

Turn Offs

• Fat
• Skinny
• Ugly
• Doesn't like racist jokes
• Doesn't like Xbox
• Doesn't like tattoos/piercings

ShooterSF

Hmm....
Im a guy so...

Turn On's
Being able to take as well as give some stick
Sexually Adventurous
Easy Going
Dimples when they smile
Long legs (which tends to make them taller than me!:D)

Turn Offs
Short Hair (Sorry no, it does make you look like a guy)
Smoking
Women who get extremely plastered EVERYTIME they're out
Strong catholic beliefs (you know what I mean )
Women who think Im rude for not acting like a walking ATM machine.

http://www.officiallybetterthanwork.com

azezil

I find it amusing that so many guys / gals are specifying their own sex but not which sex they're attracted to! *grin*

My top 5 turn offs and ons for a potential male partner:

Offs:
Poor hygiene
Unemployed / waister
A regular drug user, drug use at all is a bit of a turn off
To quiet / shy
Fat

Ons:
Adventurous and outgoing
Chatty
Emotionally aware, both of themselves and those around them (caring)
Finds sarcasm amusing
Physically fit (but not to fit, I don't want to be made to look like a fat bastid ;P)

Balmed Out

Couple of people have highlighted how annoying it is that so many girls dont have any real interests and hobbies outside of celebrity gossip and soap operas. Cant stand that its really annoying.