Men staring at chest!!

ChewChew

its all about what you wear really isnt it, I mean if your covered up not matter what time of day then that really says your not putting yourself out there to be stared at.

Reku

Alas not even all women seem to follow that guidance ChewChew as I've known at least one who wore loose fitting trousers mostly, so I doubt a view of the shape underneath was possible, and yet seemed to regularly complain about the lack of compliments about her bum. Yet this same woman also complained that she couldn't understand why men checked out womens' bums. So it's a case of look and she'd complain don't look and she'd complain... Never paid much attention to her physically myself as she'd do my head in if I was to date her. I'm afraid there are a few (maybe more, we need a census!:D) nutters among you more reasonable women who will impede any reasonable guidelines such as you've suggested. Just as there are a few (maybe more) right gits among males who give the rest of us a bad name.

Froot

If you present them in a fashion that is going to attract mens stares then why be surprised if they do stare?

If you want men to not notice your tits then don't go near men or think more carefully about what you wear.

If planning what your wearing based on whether or not your going to be round men who may or may not stare at your tits bothers you, then learn to live with men staring at your tits.

Sam Kade

He was staring at them because he liked them, wouldn't it be worse if they were saggy like a dry cow?

ChewChew

farohar wrote: »

Alas not even all women seem to follow that guidance ChewChew as I've known at least one who wore loose fitting trousers mostly, so I doubt a view of the shape underneath was possible, and yet seemed to regularly complain about the lack of compliments about her bum. Yet this same woman also complained that she couldn't understand why men checked out womens' bums. So it's a case of look and she'd complain don't look and she'd complain... Never paid much attention to her physically myself as she'd do my head in if I was to date her. I'm afraid there are a few (maybe more, we need a census!:D) nutters among you more reasonable women who will impede any reasonable guidelines such as you've suggested. Just as there are a few (maybe more) right gits among males who give the rest of us a bad name.

look look look here's how it is.

If a woman wants her bum, boobs, hair, face, whatever to be noticed. . then she will do the following. . . She will wear nice trousers that are beautifully tailored to hug her bottom. She will wear a respectable and possibly (slightly) low cut top, the will make sure her hair is nice and clean, and her face has a basic make up just to show her cheek bones or nice lips or beautiful eyes.

If a woman is NOT prepared to put this effort in then she clearly does NOT want attention. If she does put this effort in then maybe she DOES want some attention. . . but listen here . . . staring at her boobs is not a nice bit of attention to attract unnessesarily.

if you boys notice her boobs, and she maybe revealing a little bit of cleavage then fine, have a look. but DO NOT stare. Instead turn your attention to her hair &/or face and compliment her on her nice hair, or that new lip gloss you've noticed. Even tell her her perfume is nice!! Dont go over board and tell her all of the above. Just pick one.

Now be good boys, keep your naughty manners in your pants. and use your good manners sufficiently.

Blush_01

What is this, perving etiquette for bold boys? Jesus H. Christ!

ChewChew

ChewChew wrote: »

look look look here's how it is.

If a woman wants her bum, boobs, hair, face, whatever to be noticed. . then she will do the following. . . She will wear nice trousers that are beautifully tailored to hug her bottom. She will wear a respectable and possibly (slightly) low cut top, the will make sure her hair is nice and clean, and her face has a basic make up just to show her cheek bones or nice lips or beautiful eyes.

If a woman is NOT prepared to put this effort in then she clearly does NOT want attention. If she does put this effort in then maybe she DOES want some attention. . . but listen here . . . staring at her boobs is not a nice bit of attention to attract unnessesarily.

if you boys notice her boobs, and she maybe revealing a little bit of cleavage then fine, have a look. but DO NOT stare. Instead turn your attention to her hair &/or face and compliment her on her nice hair, or that new lip gloss you've noticed. Even tell her her perfume is nice!! Dont go over board and tell her all of the above. Just pick one.

Now be good boys, keep your naughty manners in your pants. and use your good manners sufficiently.

What are you on about...?

Froot

ChewChew wrote: »

look look look here's how it is.

If a woman wants her bum, boobs, hair, face, whatever to be noticed. . then she will do the following. . . She will wear nice trousers that are beautifully tailored to hug her bottom. She will wear a respectable and possibly (slightly) low cut top, the will make sure her hair is nice and clean, and her face has a basic make up just to show her cheek bones or nice lips or beautiful eyes.

If a woman is NOT prepared to put this effort in then she clearly does NOT want attention. If she does put this effort in then maybe she DOES want some attention. . . but listen here . . . staring at her boobs is not a nice bit of attention to attract unnessesarily.

if you boys notice her boobs, and she maybe revealing a little bit of cleavage then fine, have a look. but DO NOT stare. Instead turn your attention to her hair &/or face and compliment her on her nice hair, or that new lip gloss you've noticed. Even tell her her perfume is nice!! Dont go over board and tell her all of the above. Just pick one.

Now be good boys, keep your naughty manners in your pants. and use your good manners sufficiently.

What?

If your opinion was the opinion of women at large I would be up a tower with a rifle.

professore

Thaedydal wrote: »

And do you know how sexual harassment is measured ?
By the impact on the person.

If this is true then it's incredibly unfair .... don't like someone in the office? Claim you felt they were sexually harassing you by the way they walked in the office every morning. There should be objective measurements for these things.

staker

you've gotta weigh up the situation here. grab both her boobs with both hands, look her in the eye and say " weyheyheyheyhey". always lets you know if she appreciates the attention. then leg it!!!

professore

Wait until the recession starts to bite ... then there will be issues of real importance to discuss. Stare back at him FFS ... or ask him if your boobs are bigger than his?

Froot

professore wrote: »

If this is true then it's incredibly unfair .... don't like someone in the office? Claim you felt they were sexually harassing you by the way they walked in the office every morning. There should be objective measurements for these things.

Agreed. Hence why it is dangerous to fire a woman in a working environment. This kind of stuff is not limited to Melrose Place.


:pac:

St Bill

Now if women didn't work outside the home, employers wouldn't have to worry about firing them. And they also wouldn't have the added worry of having to stare at their boobs.
Damn equality....throwing up more problems than solutions :mad:

2 stroke

As a man with a boob fetish, I've been more aware of if I am looking at boobs or not since this thread started. And I'm sorry ladies but If you bring your boobs to work, I'm going to look, and if you're an attractive woman my gaze may linger.

Don1

You can't resist nature. Wimmins are meant to be attractive to males for the purpose of attracting a mate. Sure, I might not want to jump yore bones but the animal instinct dictates that I at least have a look and see what's on offer!
I am not a pervert and like to think I have a fairly good grip on myself (no pun inteded) when it comes to giving in to these baser instints.

To sum up: in short, if they are on show, they will be looked at. Sorry.........

utick

last time i checked looking at a womans chest was not illegal, if i like looking at it i will look at it, if she doesnt like it, well tough. if i was togo around with body parts hanging out im sure people would stare too

luckat

There's staring and staring.

1) That helpless glance where a guy's eyes are just magnetised to anything chesty, but he hastily looks away. Forgiveable. That's not the guy staring; that's his hormones taking control of his eye muscles.

2) Leery starers. Kick 'em in the nads; that should re-educate them.

utick

hey i cant help staring at a nice rack

WindSock

Closing this thread now, as it seems to attract muppets and muppet posts that have extended back a month ago, which make mine eyes hurt.