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arrrrgggh, am i being unreasonable

Madame Razz · 2008-08-17 18:44:33

Ladies, This has been bugging me since Friday, but i thinkk i have had a lucky escape and am hoping you will agree with me and see this as i saw it. Im quite a social person but i believe there is a certain decorum when you are in an almost strangers house and that you should always be polite andmannerly, and certainly not…

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#152 19-08-2008 10:05pm
Blush_01

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Honestly, I haven't read the whole thread, so excuse me if I'm just repeating someone else.

OP - he sounds like a lot of a tosser, but at the same time those messages you were sending might have been a little mixed. If you're not that into someone and don't want to spend time with them, then let them know as nicely as possible. Perhaps then they won't turn up at your door uninvited. If they do, don't let them in. Make up an excuse, or just don't answer the door if you have to, to reinforce the point. To a degree, you brought it on yourself. An ass will always be an ass, but if you facilitate it, then you can't particularly complain about it. You opened the front door having already had experience of him rooting in your presses when drunk and expected what exactly?

Fool me once and all that lark.

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