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shud we break up!?help!!!

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  • 19-08-2008 6:44pm
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    pinkdiamond
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    bin wid my bf nearly a year now and wer gonna b goin to college different sides of Ireland in september..i dont love him but i like him a lot and we get on reli well 2gether.. its going to b reli difficult in college cos il only be seeing him every 2weeks or so.. he tells me all the time how much i mean to him and id hate to do anything to him that might hurt him, but going out at night without him and im afraid that il be tempted to cheat on him if hes not around.. i dont want to break up with him but i feel that i have to..what shud i do!?!
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    gamblitis
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    Give it a few weeks and see how you manage. If you can't see things working out have a chat with him and explain the your opinion. Maybe just meet up any time your at home but not be together any more.Then you can both meet people at college and still have each other as friends.


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    RedXIV
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    you don't love him, in your own words. this isn't a hard one, you know you have to break it off with him, but you know it's going to suck. so do it now so he has a clean sheet for college, don't drag it out for half the year.

    Best of Luck

    Red


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    Mimikyu
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    smares
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    if you know your going to be tempted already and you have not even gone and the fact your only going to see him every two weeks there is not much point being together


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