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Tivial question re ladies calling back

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  • 09-09-2008 1:02pm
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    haveacigar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭


    Wanted to ask a trivial question here. I'm a single lad who does fine at the dating scene. The other night I met a girl whilst out. Numbers exchanged and the chemistry was there with a bit of tactile behaviour etc by both of us. We both agreed that we'd like to meet again and she seemed genuinely keen. I rang her last night and left a message. I have'nt heard back since. She is slightly shy (in a sweet way) but her keeness made me assume that she'd respond to my call sooner. Would you be of the opinion that its normal to call back the next day (or later) or that maybe I've recieved a hint that she mightn't be interested.


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    Star Lord
    Registered Users Posts: 30,123 ✭✭✭✭Star Lord


    You left a message last night.
    Give the girl a chance to get back to you before you start stressing :p


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    Cathmandooo
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    Yeah seriously, at least give it a full 24 hours before even attempting to stress or think that you're being given the cold shoulder


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    #4
    haveacigar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭haveacigar


    Thanks folks. Yep I reckon you're right. I guess I'm normally used to getting a quicker response. Cheers:)


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    chuckles30
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    Well as a girl I'd phone back if someone left me a message,but you only left it last night. She could have been out when you phoned and it might have been late when she got it or would have been in a position to call you. Then she could be at work today, so it could be tonight before she gets back to you. Don't worry yet.......just wait and see what happens.


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    haveacigar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭haveacigar


    Ta for the advise. Ah yeah I'm sure its just me being used the the faster replies. Cheers:)


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    Anti
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    Yes, faster replies... You lethario, you.

    But seriously, relax. She's probably busy or out of credit. Or in the worst case scenario... She was a prick tease or isn't interested.


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    chickenhawk
    Registered Users Posts: 656 ✭✭✭chickenhawk


    If she is into you, last night she was probably thinking

    I won't text him now so I don't appear desperate

    or she is probably sitting in work thinking

    oohhh will I ring him now?......No he's probably in work.

    Will I send him a text?.....No I don't know what to say.

    I'll ring him at 9.00 tonight.

    etc. etc.

    Relax she'll probably ring. But we all know how hard it is to wait!!


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    tinkletoes
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    chickenhawk wrote: »
    If she is into you, last night she was probably thinking

    I won't text him now so I don't appear desperate

    or she is probably sitting in work thinking

    oohhh will I ring him now?......No he's probably in work.

    Will I send him a text?.....No I don't know what to say.

    I'll ring him at 9.00 tonight.

    etc. etc.

    Relax she'll probably ring. But we all know how hard it is to wait!!
    +1


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    haveacigar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭haveacigar


    Thanks for the feedback folks. Yeah heard from her last night so I guess it was just a slower response than I've had in the past. Cheers:)


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