Pinched on the butt!

Black Swan

Have you ever been pinched on the butt by a lad you didn't know? I was in a pub sipping a pint the other night, and standing at the bar cause the place was packed with no seats left, and all of a sudden I felt this pinch! Ouch! I spun around spilling my drink ready to punch someone, and this lad jumped back acting like what he did was OK, holding his hands open and up saying "Whoa girl, it was just a friendly pinch!"

So women, has it happened to you lately, and how did you react? How did you feel and what did you think about it?

OK lads, you can join in if you dare, and tell us if you have ever pinched a girl you didn't know?

Nevyn

yeah sexual assault is sooo friendly. :rolleyes:

hunter164

Has happened to me and I've done it. Though it was more of a slap than a pinch.

F.A.

Thaedydal wrote: »

yeah sexual assault is sooo friendly. :rolleyes:

Exactly!! Seriously, Blue_Lagoon, why didn't you thank the guy for paying you attention without you even having to ask for it?

I think my drink would make contact with his face and he'd be lucky to escape a quick visit of my knee to his nether regions.

von Neumann

Not since i was 15..... but now that it's back in fashion

Peared

Wudda floored him.

Maybe used sneakiness, cunning and a surprise element if he was big and strong.

Sometimes violence is the answer.

Also would make him maybe think twice next time he saw a nice arse.

D1ckead.

liah

Am I the only girl who doesn't honestly see it as that big of a deal? It's happened to me a lot and I don't care one bit.

Big whoop, he pinched your ass, mountains of molehills much?

Life's too short.

Piste

liah wrote: »

Am I the only girl who doesn't honestly see it as that big of a deal? It's happened to me a lot and I don't care one bit.

Big whoop, he pinched your ass, mountains of molehills much?

Life's too short.

Yip I'm the same. While I hate strangers touching me (even trying to hug me pisses me off) I wouldn't make a big deal about it. A filthy look at best is all they'd get.

chickenhawk

I have never done it and I hate guys that do it. If you have to resort to that to get a girl to chat to ya then you are crap at pulling or ugly.

jesus_thats_gre

Far more women do it to guys tbh...

hunter164

+1

Peared

So what, men should be able to touch women wher they want, how they want and when they want?

Where is the line?

How about if they pinch your breast, is that ok?

Would that be a mountain or a molehill?

petethebrick

I agree. Its far more common the other way round, drunk girls thinkin they can go around slappin ass at will

Dave147

Note to self: Girl's DONT like when I pinch their ass.

What about pointing at my crotch suggestively? Do chicks dig this?

Zaph

I completely fail to understand 1) why guys would do this in the first place; and 2) why they would think that the woman is going to enjoy it. If you think a woman is attractive, talking to her is going to get you further than pinching her ass.

Piste

Yeah i don't understand why guys do it either...maybe it's not to get stuck in, maybe they just like the feel of an ass =/

faceman

Ive done it twice in my life but only because i thought the person i did it to was someone else!! fortunately i survived both events!

Nevyn

Doesn't matter what gender the pincher is it's not acceptable behaviour.

Phlann

I've never done it to a girl I didn't know but, like others here, I've had it done to me by girls (and one guy) on several occasions.

I took it in the playful spirit in which it was obviously intended, though.

Maybe I'd have felt differently if they'd walked up and grabbed my crotch but a pinch on the ass is so harmless and silly it's not worth getting annoyed over.

hunter164

Never said it was a point was made though that drunk women (not all) are notorious for it. I am not saying men don't do it.

hunter164

Phlann wrote: »

Maybe I'd have felt differently if they'd walked up and grabbed my crotch

That's happened before.

brianthebard

Used to do it as a teen but that was at teh disco's, people were more likely to grab some ass and start sucking face than to introduce themselves.
Nowadays I wouldn't do it-have been grabbed a few times before but not lately (since I became a recluse it doesn't happen as often funnily enough)

smares

Why do men do it? do they honestly think your going to be thinking nice one he pinched my ass!! No im afraid not.
I think it's best ignored becuase you turn to say something to them and they have your attention which is what they were after in the first place

brianthebard

Cause they haven't grown out of that teen disco phase.

smares

Thats true bacause it usually is younger guys that do it

petethebrick

I do remember a funny night out in my younger days. Out at a nightclub in town my mate slapped a girls ass while walkingup some stairs. Turned out she was the manager on duty and both of us were thrown out of the place.

neuro-praxis

Me and my friends (male and female) have a habit of slapping each other on the ass.

If a stranger slapped me on the ass I'd consider slapping them in the face.

Reku

Never done it and thankfully never had it done to me. Not exactly a good ice breaker IMO. I don't even like it when girls I don't know/barely know rub their legs against mine, I'll ignore it in the hope that it's completely unintentional but I'd rather they didn't do it.
You need to know someone to know what they consider their personal space and what levels of physical familiarity they'll tolerate from you, you can't really just go for it and hope.

Esel

chickenhawk wrote: »

If you have to resort to that to get a girl to chat to ya then you are crap at pulling ugly.

FTFY.

half pint

It has happenend to me on a few ocassions, usually by one of the lads in my group of friends. They know they are gona get a bit of a thump for it but it's a bit of a joke now.

However some random guy did it to me in a bar once and he left with my handprint across his cheek

It depends who it is at the end of the day, someone you know or a stranger

Pythia

Guy did it to me in a club when my boyfriend was right beside me. I actually thought it was my boyfriend who did it so I didn't react. Was only when I saw the bf about to go for your man I realised what had happened.

I wouldn't see it as 'sexual assault', although it may techincally be, but it's very cheeky and certainly and wouldn't get me interested at all.