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Does anyone agree with this

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  • 03-10-2008 10:16pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 165 ✭✭


    simple "Hypothesis" I am only sexually attracted to men but i am sexually attracted woman and I want a relationship with them

    Like I feel for the threads you read here of people who are consumed by a guy in there life but it's odd as I'd say i don't FANCY guys, I merely think porn of whatever is good. It's the imagery really. I like girls in this way but actually fancy and want to forge relationships with them. Thing is , is this a fair evaluation of sexuality? semi-bi-leaning-to-hetero-sexual

    I just can't see a relationship with a guy fitting in with who i am

    anyway opinions and insights from anyone thanks


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  • Registered Users Posts: 401 ✭✭Dwn Wth Vwls


    Sure, if you look at the Kinsey Scale they obviously agree with you. As much as some people love to separate sexuality into two or three neat little boxes, it's a lot more complicated and different for everybody. I imagine exactly the feelings you describe are more common than we all think, I know I've heard it quite a few times before.


  • Registered Users Posts: 165 ✭✭damienricefan


    Sure, if you look at the Kinsey Scale they obviously agree with you. As much as some people love to separate sexuality into two or three neat little boxes, it's a lot more complicated and different for everybody. I imagine exactly the feelings you describe are more common than we all think, I know I've heard it quite a few times before.

    Thanks just needed to hear some feedback on this, I definately agree about sexuality being more complex than the three boxes , i just wish general society was the same. oh well at least your wised up on the matter !
    Thanks again!
    :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Ask yourself if you really need to know exactly what sexuality you are. Maybe you're bi or maybe you're straight, its irrelevant to the fact you know you want to pursue relationships with women.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,488 ✭✭✭Goodshape


    Your post doesn't make a whole lot of sense...
    I am only sexually attracted to men but i am sexually attracted woman

    Only attracted to men but attracted to woman. What?
    i don't FANCY guys, I merely think porn of whatever is good.
    Hmm? Only attracted to men but attracted to woman... don't fancy guys but the porn is good?

    For what it's worth... when I was younger I didn't think a relationship with a man would "fit in with who I am" either. Enjoyed the gay porn a plenty but only ever perused relationships with woman at the time.

    As I got a wee bit older and more comfortable with myself I realised that the dreaded "relationship with a man" needn't be the defining characteristic of my personality or existence and that I am who I am no matter what I do (how can I not be myself?).

    Woman are beautiful creatures, sure. I'm just not terribly interested in having sex with them. To be terribly crude about it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,835 ✭✭✭unreggd


    think he meant

    Guys: physical attraction only

    Girls: Physical attraction and relationship interest


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