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    #32
    javaboy
    Registered Users Posts: 15,094 ✭✭✭✭javaboy


    xzanti wrote: »
    My thoughts exactly.. I used to drink in the Dragan a lot when I lived in town and never felt in any way unwelcome.. And I didn't go in for the 'sneer' either, I went in cause the atmosphere and music was great, plus I didn't have drunken lads hitting on me.. few smiles from the ladies though :D...
    Beetlebum wrote: »
    So do you see pubs solely as places to score or pick up? How is there anything wrong with straight people going into any bar for a laugh, gay or otherwise? Do you also protest to gay people drinking in 'straight' bars?

    See my last post. Gay bars are a place where gay people can expect to find other gay people or where they go to enjoy the gay scene. Straight people going in there dilutes that effect, and with the current metrosexual trends of wearing pink shirts and whatever else, the waters are only getting muddied further.

    I don't care about gay people being in bars that aren't "gay bars". I've no problem with that since they aren't "straight bars". They're just places to socialise.


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    #33
    biko
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    Go as Rick


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    #34
    javaboy
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    Beetlebum wrote: »
    You don't tend to meet long term patners in bars anyway. Your argument is retarded but that's most likely cause you're closet ghey. Come on out!

    Sigh. What exactly is retarded about my argument?


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    #35
    Dinter
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,698 ✭✭✭Dinter


    javaboy wrote: »
    Sigh. What exactly is retarded about my argument?

    Tbh I think it's because you're not agreeing with him. ;)


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    #36
    Beetlebum
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    javaboy wrote: »
    Sigh. What exactly is retarded about my argument?

    Pubs in general are places to socialise and have fun aswell as to pick up/get laid. You make it sound like the only reason gay people go to a gay bar is to pick up and that's just not true! Some gay people are there just to have fun and may already be in relationships.
    I'm a girl and I've been to a few gay bars and such a laugh dancing with the men etc


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    #37
    fig
    Registered Users Posts: 42 ✭fig


    I suppose a minimum would be rubber top of some description, with black pants. Alternatively, if you're up for it - naked except for undies and boots. A short skirt and boots would'nt be amiss either.

    you can probably pop into miss fantasia's on south william st and ask there. they have a good selection of fetish gear.

    alternatively in london, there are fetish stores that can get you rubber stuff. look out for skin two magazine, they usually have a full listings of ads.

    its a perennial question that the irish fetish goers hear quite a lot. the irish fetish club is nimhneach (http://www.nimhneach.ie) and there is a yahoo group for irish fetish too


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    #38
    Dinter
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    Beetlebum wrote: »
    Pubs in general are places to socialise and have fun aswell as to pick up/get laid. You make it sound like the only reason gay people go to a gay bar is to pick up and that's just not true! Some gay people are there just to have fun and may already be in relationships.

    Yeah he doesn't really though.

    I think that's your imagination.


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    #39
    shenanigans1982
    Registered Users Posts: 1,467 ✭✭✭shenanigans1982


    Beetlebum wrote: »
    I'm a girl and I've been to a few gay bars and such a laugh dancing with the men etc

    Obviously you're a closet dance lover...or have a thing for gay men.


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    #40
    Nevyn
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    Find out what the dress code is for the club and work with it.


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    #41
    javaboy
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    Beetlebum wrote: »
    Pubs in general are places to socialise and have fun aswell as to pick up/get laid. You make it sound like the only reason gay people go to a gay bar is to pick up and that's just not true! Some gay people are there just to have fun and may already be in relationships.
    I'm a girl and I've been to a few gay bars and such a laugh dancing with the men etc

    I think you may have missed these bits from my earlier post:
    javaboy wrote:
    Gay bars are a place where gay people can expect to find other gay people or where they go to enjoy the gay scene
    javaboy wrote:
    They're just places to socialise.

    So you see I don't think bars, gay or otherwise, are just places to pick up.


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    #42
    Beetlebum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 837 ✭✭✭Beetlebum


    javaboy wrote: »
    I think you may have missed these bits from my earlier post:





    So you see I don't think bars, gay or otherwise, are just places to pick up.

    Actually, when you said they're just places to socialise you were talking about 'straight bars' not gay bars.


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    #43
    Beetlebum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 837 ✭✭✭Beetlebum


    javaboy wrote: »
    I think you may have missed these bits from my earlier post:





    So you see I don't think bars, gay or otherwise, are just places to pick up.

    I don't care about gay people being in bars that aren't "gay bars". I've no problem with that since they aren't "straight bars". They're just places to socialise.

    See?


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    #44
    matrim
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    Wear a nappy. It'll save you having to take trips to the bathroom when you need to pee


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    #45
    javaboy
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    Beetlebum wrote: »
    Actually, when you said they're just places to socialise you were talking about 'straight bars' not gay bars.

    Actually I made a point of specifically saying they weren't "straight bars".

    For me most pubs/bars are for all and sundry to socialise, pick someone up, get sloshed on your own in the corner etc. A 'gay bar' is for gay people and a swingers bar is for swingers and a fetishist bar is for fetishists.

    It's not like I'm proposing a legal ban on it or anything. I think anyone who sees anything really controversial in saying "Gay bars are for gay people" is just being a bit overly PC.


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    #46
    Gummy Panda
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    Go as lord humongous from Mad Max 2.


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    #47
    Beetlebum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 837 ✭✭✭Beetlebum


    javaboy wrote: »
    Actually I made a point of specifically saying they weren't "straight bars".

    For me most pubs/bars are for all and sundry to socialise, pick someone up, get sloshed on your own in the corner etc. A 'gay bar' is for gay people and a swingers bar is for swingers and a fetishist bar is for fetishists.

    It's not like I'm proposing a legal ban on it or anything. I think anyone who sees anything really controversial in saying "Gay bars are for gay people" is just being a bit overly PC.

    PC...I can barely use a keyboard! Ok, I picked you up wrong!! I'm not PC at all, I just thought you were implying that gay people only go to bars to f*ck. My mistake!


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    #48
    Fratton Fred
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    Beetlebum wrote: »
    You don't tend to meet long term patners in bars anyway.

    Phew, that's a relief. I met my wife in a bar.

    Any idea how long it will be before she ****s off with the postman, I want to book a holiday:D


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    #49
    Super Sidious
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    I second the nappie option, a guy who used to go to my coll. was into that stuff... creepy!


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    #50
    FruitLover
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    This suits all occasions


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    #51
    Quazzie
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    FruitLover wrote: »
    This suits all occasions
    Quiet possibly the coolest thing I have ever seen. I wanna get one for my dog....

    Wait a minute... thats a woman in there.. even cooler!!


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    #52
    Ross_Mahon
    Registered Users Posts: 2,283 ✭✭✭Ross_Mahon


    Snake, Revolver Ocelot, Big Boss, Indiana Jones, Batman, Wolverine, Ryu, Ken, Darth Vader, Tony Montana, Reservoir Dogs/Pulp Fiction, Sub zero, Scorpion, Jack Sparrow and loads more....

    You can make most costumes at home, But something like Predator is harder.


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    #53
    Nevyn
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    matrim wrote: »
    Wear a nappy. It'll save you having to take trips to the bathroom when you need to pee

    Again check the behaviour code as well as the dress code, a lot of clubs have rules about the spilling or exposing people to bodily fluids for health and safety reasons and as to not infuriate the venue with additional cleaning costs.


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    #54
    Mr. CooL ICE
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    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Again check the behaviour code as well as the dress code, a lot of clubs have rules about the spilling or exposing people to bodily fluids for health and safety reasons and as to not infuriate the venue with additional cleaning costs.
    :eek:

    Behaviour code? There I was thinking that I could show up at one of these places and paint the wall white.


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    #55
    BaconZombie
    Registered Users Posts: 8,813 ✭✭✭BaconZombie


    xzanti:

    You forgot it was a costume party, this is a better option:

    http://g-ecx.images-amazon.com/images/G/01/ciu/22/be/403cc0a398a0f87170fac110.L.jpg
    xzanti wrote: »
    You could go as this guy.. imagesam0.jpg


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    #56
    Capt'n Midnight
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    admiralofthefleet wrote: »
    screw that, go as heath ledger
    A rotting corpse. Good choice. :pac:

    Or maybe you could ask your friend what she expects from her guests ?


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    #57
    Havermeyer
    Registered Users Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭Havermeyer


    Some people like feet. Wear a pair of sandals.

    Don't go barefoot though, you want to leave something to the imagination. ;)


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